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lad who stares and then ignores

  • 02-04-2012 10:04PM
    #1
    tyw3724e
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20 ✭


    I met this lad at a party and we got on great, he was in my school but two years above me,we kissed it was great but then the next day he just completely ignored me, but stares at me so obviously from a distance. He ignored until we met at another party and we kissed again, but the same scenario continued.We shifted again at another party and again he completely ignores me and just stares at me from a distance again.

    Does this guy like me at all or am I just being foolish


Comments

  • #2
    Pomplamousse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 582 ✭✭✭Pomplamousse


    What's this guys personality like? If he's staring at you it could just be a case that he is interested but is too shy to approach you. If he was drinking at these parties it could have been the dutch courage that allowed him to speak to you!
    Have you tried talking to him in the non-party scenarios?


  • #3
    sameman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27 ✭sameman


    Totally agree with Pomplamousse! From own experience. I'm pretty shy myself. but after a few shyness fades away :D Just go up to him, and say hi. :)


  • #4
    tyw3724e
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20 ✭tyw3724e


    i find it hard yo get near , he's always with people


  • #5
    snafuk35
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 833 ✭✭✭snafuk35


    tyw3724e wrote: »
    I met this lad at a party and we got on great, he was in my school but two years above me,we kissed it was great but then the next day he just completely ignored me, but stares at me so obviously from a distance. He ignored until we met at another party and we kissed again, but the same scenario continued.We shifted again at another party and again he completely ignores me and just stares at me from a distance again.

    Does this guy like me at all or am I just being foolish

    He does like you only he hasn't a clue what to say or do about it. He stares at you because he finds you attractive and he is a little scared of how to handle it. Most of all he is probably scared of saying the wrong thing and you losing interest. He probably hasn't much experience with women and now he finally has he doesn't know what to do and is afraid of screwing up.


  • #6
    R.D. aka MR.D
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,643 ✭✭✭R.D. aka MR.D


    Next time you're kissing or anything make sure to get his number and you can text each other!


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