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Would you take the wallet or give it back?

  • 04-02-2012 04:55AM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 911 ✭✭✭


    You are walking along the street and some guy drops his wallet. You are in a position to take it. No one is going to see. Contents of wallet are unknown.

    So what do you do?

    (A) pick it up for yourself
    or
    (B) inform him he dropped his wallet and give it back.


    Morality test time boards :pac:

    Some dude drops his wallet? 265 votes

    Give it back.
    0% 0 votes
    Keep it yourself.
    100% 265 votes


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Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,801 ✭✭✭✭Kojak


    What about the "Completly ignore what just happened" option?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    In before 'karma' gets mentioned. I'd give it back because I am a decent individual (in those situations anyway).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 911 ✭✭✭whatsamsn


    Kojak wrote: »
    What about the "Completly ignore what just happened" option?

    When faced with a financial gain. No one is that ignorant ;) A choice is made ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,499 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    I would give it back of course, I was raised better to do otherwise.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,298 ✭✭✭✭later12


    I wouldn't give it back for karma.

    I'd give it back because I've been that guy who has lost or dropped his wallet and it's a really shit thing to happen to you.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 566 ✭✭✭puzzle factory


    whars the option if there was sumit init?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,029 ✭✭✭✭Chuck Stone


    I'd shout HEY! you dropped your wallet there you stupid CUNT.

    Then he'd have conflicting feelings of being grateful and being insulted by a complete stranger.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 911 ✭✭✭whatsamsn


    later10 wrote: »
    I wouldn't give it back for karma.

    I'd give it back because I've been that guy who has lost or dropped his wallet and it's a really shit thing to happen to you.


    Now we are getting deeper ;) and thats morality. But also "side of the fence".
    We can all understand of being on the side of loosing a wallet. There for its the right thing to do to give it back.

    However, we as people also take into account the aspect of 'if the shoe was on the other foot' ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 9,055 ✭✭✭Ficheall


    whatsamsn is clearly one of the great thinkers of our age.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 911 ✭✭✭whatsamsn


    Ficheall wrote: »
    whatsamsn is clearly one of the great thinkers of our age.


    :pac:
    But i bet you voted "give it back" even tho in reality you would actually think about it. I'd be willing to bet you'd take it mate ;) Of course, no one wants to admit to being the bad guy ;)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,377 ✭✭✭zenno


    If i was homeless on the street i would keep it but if i was surviving and was managing just about then i would give it back.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 9,055 ✭✭✭Ficheall


    whatsamsn wrote: »
    :pac:
    But i bet you voted "give it back" even tho in reality you would actually think about it. I'd be willing to bet you'd take it mate ;) Of course, no one wants to admit to being the bad guy ;)
    I didn't vote.
    And I gave the bus driver back a fiver extra change he gave me today. Though in retrospect that may not have been the best decision.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,533 ✭✭✭SV


    "Thou shalt not steal if there is direct victim"


    I'd give it back, regardless who the person was.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,088 ✭✭✭henryporter


    Ficheall wrote: »
    whatsamsn is clearly one of the great thinkers of our age.

    If great thinking is banging a few unrelated clichés togetherness, then yes:D

    Of course you'd give it back, you'd want to be some colossal boll1x not to. Now if I were a banker or a fianna failure politician I might do otherwise...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    Definitely give it back.
    Happened to me recently actually at the bar of a certain night club. After handing back to the guy he tried to buy me and a buddy a ridiculous amount of drink where he'd have probably been better off if we'd kept it. I'm sure he was glad the day after knowing we talked him out of it...If he even remembered :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,072 ✭✭✭Tipsy McSwagger


    I'd give it back but if I found a bundle of 50 euro notes on the street I would keep them.


  • Site Banned Posts: 148 ✭✭franciebellew


    This type of thing i have witnessed a number of times.

    People dropping money or leaving passports behind etc.

    I would just ignore it. I would never keep someone else's belongings but would just walk on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,159 ✭✭✭✭phasers


    This type of thing i have witnessed a number of times.

    People dropping money or leaving passports behind etc.

    I would just ignore it. I would never keep someone else's belongings but would just walk on.

    why wouldn't you give it back?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,512 ✭✭✭Ellis Dee


    In fact, it has happened to me a couple of times. And the look of thanks on the person's face and the good feeling you get is worth more than any amount of money that the wallet is likely to contain.:):)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,562 ✭✭✭✭Sunnyisland


    At this time in my life I would give it back, but there was time when I would have kept it,well the cash part anyway.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,050 ✭✭✭token101


    In my current state, single no responsibilities, relatively well off considering the state of the place I'd give it back probably chase up the person if he/she was gone.

    But.....if I was a single parent genuinely worrying about where the next meal for my kids was coming from and some guy like I am now dropped his wallet with a few quid inside and there didn't appear to be anything particularly sentimental or valuable, I'd be pocketing it in all honestly and I doubt I'd lose sleep over it.

    Edit: I just remembered it happening to me actually!! I lost my wallet at Sziget festival in Hungary two years ago, had about 50 euro and about 10 euro worth of Hungarian Forint inside, but it had my college ID, bank cards, and the wallet itself was a present so it had some sentimental value. Went to the lost and found and amazingly it was handed in!! They only took the Hungarian money, which didnt bother me at all considering it was probably the price of the drink I'd have gotten some fella anyway.....but they took the condom I was carrying aswell!!! I found that hilarious in all honesty, especially considering it was a festival and they were handing them out like smarties!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,389 ✭✭✭mattjack


    I'd keep the wallet,I need a new wallet ...I'd give the cash and any cards back,might even give back his pic of his wife too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,056 ✭✭✭tan11ie


    I'd give it back without a doubt! I'm a big believer in Karma.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 548 ✭✭✭Seomra Mushie


    Give it back, I'm not a knacker.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,041 ✭✭✭Seachmall


    It had been raining for days and days, and a terrible flood had come over the land. The waters rose so high that one man was forced to climb onto the roof of his house.

    As the waters rose higher and higher, a man in a rowboat appeared, and told him to get in. "No," replied the man on the roof. "I have faith in the Lord; the Lord will save me." So the man in the rowboat went away. The man on the roof prayed for God to save him.

    The waters rose higher and higher, and suddenly a speedboat appeared. "Climb in!" shouted a man in the boat. "No," replied the man on the roof. "I have faith in the Lord; the Lord will save me." So the man in the speedboat went away. The man on the roof prayed for God to save him.


    The waters continued to rise. A helicopter appeared and over the loudspeaker, the pilot announced he would lower a rope to the man on the roof. "No," replied the man on the roof. "I have faith in the Lord; the Lord will save me." So the helicopter went away. The man on the roof prayed for God to save him.

    The waters rose higher and higher, and eventually they rose so high that the man on the roof was washed away, and alas, the poor man drowned.

    Upon arriving in heaven, the man marched straight over to God. "Heavenly Father," he said, "I had faith in you, I prayed to you to save me, and yet you did nothing. Why?" God gave him a puzzled look, and replied "I sent you two boats and a helicopter, what more did you expect?"




    I always have faith God will provide me with the means to buy a taco-chip.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 23,498 ✭✭✭✭dxhound2005


    Apparently there was research done on this. 95% of people said they would give an item back but when asked how many other people they thought would do the same they said about 50%.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,041 ✭✭✭Seachmall


    Apparently there was research done on this. 95% of people said they would give an item back but when asked how many other people they thought would do the same they said about 50%.

    Boom.

    Everybody thinks they're fantastic, we're all actually a bunch of idiots with little to know self-control or ability to reason in stressful or unusual situations, let alone act as we think we would when thinking about hypothetical scenarios.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,590 ✭✭✭theteal


    If you saw it happen and he was still just in front of you, I would almost regard that as stealing to not give it back.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 23,498 ✭✭✭✭dxhound2005


    theteal wrote: »
    If you saw it happen and he was still just in front of you, I would almost regard that as stealing to not give it back.

    It would be stealing. There is a concept in law called stealing by finding.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,044 ✭✭✭gcgirl


    Give it back without a word of thought, I know the few times I have mislaid my own wallet it's frantic but luckily I have not lost any of them
    And it also happened to me some chap walk out of the local Chinese he had drop his wallet he had just got in a taxi luckily I stopped the taxi to give him his wallet back and that was my good deed for the day done :)


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