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silly problem, but what does this mean!

  • 15-01-2012 01:30PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Hey,

    Okay this is a very silly problem compared to some of the posts that are on here..but just want to get peoples opinions

    I stayed at my boyfriends house the other night (we have been dating for maybe 3 months) anyway we had sex, fell asleep I woke up at about 4am to find that he was masturbating...then we had sex again...now I know he came the first time we had sex ... it made me feel a bit weird, why did he feel the need to masturbate ! do men do this? Im a bit out of touch to be honest. Is it unusual?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    He was awake. He felt sexy but didn't think he should wake you. Ask him to wake you up next time!


  • #3
    LegacyUser
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    Sorry but if i'd woken up to that, i'd have been out the door like a shot. Perfectly normal to engage masturbate if you're alone or if the other person is awake and involved in some way, but with your new girlfriend asleep beside you? Gross.


  • #4
    gypsy_rose
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    Did it make you feel uncomfortable? If it did, you need to talk about it. If it didn't, who knows, maybe he just woke up feeling really horny and didn't think he should wake you. If it didn't make you uncomfortable or upset you, I wouldn't worry about it, it's not that unusual


  • #5
    dsmythy
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    Looks like you've got a guy with a high sex drive.


  • #6
    LegacyUser
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    I'm a girl and I don't think it's gross. Okay, sure I would feel shy about it if I woke up to that maybe, but I'd imagine he was just feeling horny and didn't want to wake you up. I don't think it has anything at all to do with him not being fully satisfied the first time. Don't mean to sound disgusting or anything but maybe he wasn't able to sleep and that's what he's used to doing before falling asleep?

    I know it sounds weird but a few of my guy friend's brought that up before (not with a girl in bed with them obviously) but just about how the habit can form. Don't over think it.


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