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I give up on women :( (rephrased because i called woman in generally a dirty word)

  • 09-11-2011 07:27PM
    #1
    neiler987
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 239 ✭✭


    Ugh thats it i give up on findin a woman for a relationship

    19 years of age looking for years for a relationship no luck.. i know im still young !

    everytime i seem to really like a girl for the person herself..not for looks !.. that girl doesnt seem interested in me.. or just sees me as a friend or watever .. anytime i find out that a girl likes me i pretty much dont feel the same way about them

    its not meant to happen i guess frown.gif




    ohh and to Miss Fluff who commented on the closed thread of this subject a lot of woman that i chatted to about this kind of thing before actually do agree with my dirty word that i used in the other thread.. at least they are honest you know ?

    and to IrishEyes19 i cant enjoy my single days .. i used to but not anymore


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  • #2
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    neiler987 wrote: »
    ohh and to Miss Fluff who commented on the closed thread of this subject a lot of woman that i chatted to about this kind of thing before actually do agree with my dirty word that i used in the other thread.. at least they are honest you know ?

    Good God, you're clearly not getting it at all are you? :eek:

    Whether you choose to call women "sluts" to their faces or not is really incidental.

    I'd say you are most probably single because of your blatant misogyny and fragrant lack of respect towards women. Women most probably sense that from you and it causes them to run a mile.

    You should really probably work on yourself, on your own self-esteem and your need to put women down before you even consider entering any semblance of a relationship with the opposite sex.

    You've clearly got a lot of growing up to do.


  • #3
    Maple
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    OP, consider this your final warning.

    Refer to women as sluts or even allude to the fact that you think they are and you will find yourself on the end of a ban from this forum.

    Maple


  • #4
    neiler987
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 239 ✭✭neiler987


    Miss Fluff wrote: »
    I'd say you are most probably single because of your blatant misogyny and fragrant lack of respect towards women. Women most probably sense that from you and it causes them to run a mile.

    You should really probably work on yourself, on your own self-esteem and your need to put women down before you even consider entering any semblance of a relationship with the opposite sex.

    You've clearly got a lot of growing up to do.

    NO im single because of my looks and that women are to shallow as ive been told this straight to my face a number of times.. "your ugly" your to skinny etc

    Its extremely difficult to work on my self esteem when i cant get a girl and how im put down.. would u not agree ?


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    I don't buy that for a second. Didn't the Elephant Man have a wife? Looks are important, of course they are, but so is a person's personality, likeability, kindness etc etc.

    Because you have not had luck with women to date you've ignorantly lumped them all into the one category and labelled them "sluts".

    Any self-respecting woman will sense that a mile off. So yes, it has more to do with your attitude than your looks.


  • #6
    baggypants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22 ✭baggypants


    neiler987 wrote: »
    NO im single because of my looks and that women are to shallow as ive been told this straight to my face a number of times.. "your ugly" your to skinny etc

    Its extremely difficult to work on my self esteem when i cant get a girl and how im put down.. would u not agree ?

    well if thats the case OP you have'nt met the right lady then ,but i would'nt label all women just because of a few bad experiences, you need to tone down your attitude i.e not throw a tantrum, Miss Fluff made a very good point in regards to you lack of respect of women its jumping off your first post !!! hence why your first thread got locked
    i suggest working on the respect part first and then take it from there
    good luck


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  • #7
    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    neiler987 wrote: »
    Ugh thats it i give up on findin a woman for a relationship

    19 years of age looking for years for a relationship no luck.. i know im still young !

    everytime i seem to really like a girl for the person herself..not for looks !.. that girl doesnt seem interested in me.. or just sees me as a friend or watever .. anytime i find out that a girl likes me i pretty much dont feel the same way about them

    its not meant to happen i guess frown.gif





    ohh and to Miss Fluff who commented on the closed thread of this subject a lot of woman that i chatted to about this kind of thing before actually do agree with my dirty word that i used in the other thread.. at least they are honest you know ?

    and to IrishEyes19 i cant enjoy my single days .. i used to but not anymore

    You cant enjoy your single days because you are too busy looking for a relationship. I suggest counselling or a confidence class. What is latching yourself onto another person going to do to your life, thats going to make it better.

    Miss Fluff is completely correct. you havent listened to a word said. your level of wanting a gf is obsessive and that isnt attractive at all.
    A word of advice, if you put all this energy and work into finding a girl who most likely will not be the one. you will miss out on friends, nights out with no attatchments and possibly allienate yourself from reality. I only say this, because desperation is not an attractive quality, and you find any relationship short lived if you continue to be like this.

    And so what if girls you have spoken to have agreed with that term. God help their own mindset if they feel the need to be so crude. I advise you stop using that term to make up for failing to achieve what you think you want,


  • #8
    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    neiler987 wrote: »
    NO im single because of my looks and that women are to shallow as ive been told this straight to my face a number of times.. "your ugly" your to skinny etc

    Its extremely difficult to work on my self esteem when i cant get a girl and how im put down.. would u not agree ?

    Well my opinion of you so far from a written perspective is you hold a highly negative view of women as being sluts and now shallow.

    True some people and I say people, because its not only women, can be rude and offensive, but its a rarity that someone would openly say that and if they do, its a blow against their own mindset not yours.

    You sound very immature. Stop whining about getting a girl and focus on your studies or what ever you are pursuing, you will find the rest will fall into place eventually. But so far Im not one bit impressed.

    Let me assure you, a negative and critical personality is a lot uglier than physical attributes. Physical attractivness is subject to preference. But 9/10 times, a good personality is what everyone looks for.

    Maybe stop levelling the blame on calling girls sluts and shallow and take some responsibility for your poor attitude and "poor me" viewpoint.


  • #9
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    neiler987 wrote: »
    and that women are to shallow

    You were warned to stop flaming and generalising when your last thread was locked.

    I'd advise you take the time to read the [URL=" http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2056181484"]forum rules[/URL] in the charter before posting again if you wish to retain posting rights to this forum.


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