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Younger women and their lack of conversation about certain issues

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    It's a discussion based on opinions gained from experience. I don't see why we need statistics to back up our experience. If one person experience differs from another it doesn't prove either of them wrong. People bucking a the trend of a generalisation don't disprove the generalisation. Just because a thread is started on what may turn out to be a false argument doesn't mean it should be locked.

    Do you demand statistics in everyday conversation?:confused:

    Okay, the next time you get up in arms about generalizations I'll point this out to you.

    Also, boards.ie isn't 'every day conversation,' it's a very different format, and this is Humanities, not the pub. Rational, civil debate doesn't include generalizations. Plus, it takes only a few moments to back up your viewpoint with a quick google. I don't understand the hesitance of so many people about it.
    I also don't see how I could part of the selection bias. Are men who post in the humanities forum more likely to encounter women who don't have interest in politics? I don't see how. However I do think a woman who post on the humanities forum is going to be more likely to have interest in politics as it is a forum for debate which often include political issues.

    No. They're just more likely to discuss these issues amongst their close peers (who the majority of which are typically the same gender, but as evidenced in this thread does not always apply). The selection bias is the same in both situations. Familiarity concept.

    I know loads of men who have absolutely no interest in these topics and loads of women who do, it doesn't mean I'm going to make some massive generalization that men don't care about these topics, and then try to honestly defend the idea with absolutely nothing to back it up. It's ludicrous. Yet here we are.

    Some people have an interest in those topics. Some people don't. Gender doesn't really come into it just because you have anecdotal evidence to the contrary.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 393 ✭✭beegirl


    Well it often seems to me that the majority of young men these days are only interested in cars and sports, which could be said to be relatively low-brow interests, so I guess it works both ways!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    liah wrote: »
    Okay, the next time you get up in arms about generalizations I'll point this out to you.

    Also, boards.ie isn't 'every day conversation,' it's a very different format, and this is Humanities, not the pub. Rational, civil debate doesn't include generalizations. Plus, it takes only a few moments to back up your viewpoint with a quick google. I don't understand the hesitance of so many people about it.
    You back up almost any point if you google enough search terms it's a very lazy form of discussion where it's simply a google fight where people post the first link that agrees with them and instead of making their own argument simply post links to other peoples arguments. Why even bother having a discussion with someone like that when you could just google the search terms yourself?

    Generalisations can often be part of a rational discussion. Something isn't bad just because it's generalisation. In general I find Irish people to be more insecure about their nationality than other countries. It's a generalisaiton but one that can create an interesting discussion as to why they might be insecure. I don't need to google some study that says "Irish people proven to be 27 percent points more insecure than the english" to back it up because it's simply an opinion I hold. I would have arguments as to why I hold that open they just wouldn't be stored in a google cache. What would you have done before google I wonder, just not form any opinions or have any debate?

    No. They're just more likely to discuss these issues amongst their close peers (who the majority of which are typically the same gender, but as evidenced in this thread does not always apply). The selection bias is the same in both situations. Familiarity concept.
    Do you think Boards is an accurate representation of Irish people?
    It clearly isn't and the general election and politics forum showed this.
    I know loads of men who have absolutely no interest in these topics and loads of women who do, it doesn't mean I'm going to make some massive generalization that men don't care about these topics, and then try to honestly defend the idea with absolutely nothing to back it up. It's ludicrous. Yet here we are.

    Some people have an interest in those topics. Some people don't. Gender doesn't really come into it just because you have anecdotal evidence to the contrary.
    I disagree. If women have an equal interest in politics why are they less active. Voting isn't the same level of activity as actually running for election.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,427 ✭✭✭Morag


    Maybe they do have an intrest, maybe they just don't want to take part in public discussions.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,237 ✭✭✭mcmoustache


    A bit of this debate has comprised of anecdote versus anecdote. Is there not some scientific test that could show us either way?

    If we narrow the point down to politics for example, could we not just stick a poll up in politics containing the two options "I'm male" and "I'm female"?
    Obviously we'd also need to know how many women use the internet in general but I would imagine that almost as many if not just as many of them do.

    Then repeat for other subjects. Not very scientific, I know, but I do think it would give us some idea.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    A bit of this debate has comprised of anecdote versus anecdote. Is there not some scientific test that could show us either way?

    If we narrow the point down to politics for example, could we not just stick a poll up in politics containing the two options "I'm male" and "I'm female"?
    Obviously we'd also need to know how many women use the internet in general but I would imagine that almost as many if not just as many of them do.

    Then repeat for other subjects. Not very scientific, I know, but I do think it would give us some idea.

    Boards tends to be male dominated so that needs to be taken into account, 80% or something like that.

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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,006 ✭✭✭donfers


    Women are doing better in University, that doesn't necessarily mean they have more interest in intellectual or academic discussions, it just means that they are achieving better results at University.

    In my experience in Ireland, men engage much more in these "serious" issues, now that doesn't necessarily make it a nationwide fact, it just makes it true in my experience which is the only barometer I can use for this discussion as the parameters needed to accurately measure how engaged each gender is in "serious" issues would be an absolute logistical nightmare to construct, in fact I'd suggest it would be bordering on impossible to deliver a credible analysis.......this is why this discussion is eminently valid and furthermore why anecdotal and personal experience is probably the only way through which we can interpret the discussion, unfortunately for people to assume a position of rightness in an argument it is often assumed that metrics or studies (by someone else with a lot of letters after their name) is the way we win an argument which is a rather close-minded and destructive mode of thinking. Indeed many of the women in this thread are suggesting they do want to voice an opinion on these issues but fear being shouted down or ridiculed if they do so, that happens to all of us, it has happened to me so often now I am numbed to it, bluster and waffle will always enter the equation when people are debating contentious issues. They are nothing to fear and they reveal plenty about the persons espousing same. There is an element of snobbery at play that I disapprove of here whereby if a person is full of bluster and waffle and nonsense that some say they will refuse to engage whereas I believe that in these cases it is precisely because the person is full of what you perceive as garbage that you should engage. They may of course maintain the same stubborn front but it's important that you get your alternative message across too. Of course they are not going to say "actually you're right, I'll stop frothing at the mouth now" but perhaps later they will have time to reflect and take on board what you have said or perhaps despite their lack of a PHD or lack of college degree or failure to have read some academic study or well-reviewed book, they were right in the first place....although the whole concept of rightness is a whole different debate - which I think is the key to any form of argument, realising there is no one singular right answer - that's called radicalism, extremism or even fascism no matter how well-educated or liberal you may be.

    So anyway my point is that in Ireland I have experienced more men engaging in these issues, that doesn't mean women are less intelligent or somehow less worthy (as if discussing philosophy or politics makes us better people), it may mean they are less interesting if you attach great importance to discussing these issues, but you may wish to evaluate why they seem to display less interest.........perhaps it's because they are intimidated by the blusterers or ranters, perhaps they tend to be more self-absorbed and don't give much thought to the world outside of their own personal experiences, perhaps they don't like the dogmatic nature of many of these debates, perhaps they don't see the point or merit in debate itself as it doesn't really provide any tangible reward-any winner or loser or perhaps they are just not interested. Men of course fall into these categories too but in my experience, I notice they are less self-conscious or reluctant to forward an opinion on a "serious" issue regardless of how informed, insightful or articulate it may be. Whether that's something to applaud or critique is yet another debate (if you can be bothered ;))

    There are cultural norms specific to Ireland too that frown on or disapprove of intellectual debate meaning it is not perceived as being fashionable or trendy to talk about Sartre when you're out having a few pints with your mates and perhaps more women than men let adapting to cultural norms trump their natural interest in the "serious" issue. In France, on the other hand, almost everybody you meet wants to be your own personal philosopher and engaging in intellectual discourse is worn as a badge of honour.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,775 ✭✭✭Fittle


    In my own life experience, I have found that men can't/don't discuss emotion/emotive topics. It is rare that men will chat about personal issues in a group of other men - it appears easier for them to discuss politics/football etc, things they know about in order to stay away from somewhat 'female' issues (men consider them female, not me) like their current relationship, the argument they just had with their mother, the fact that their girlfriend is putting on a bit of weight etc....all these issues are much easier discussed on an internet forum with people they don't know, than within a group of friends down the pub.

    Women, on the other hand, will generally discuss these emotive issues with other women, therby leaving less time to discuss politics and other 'more intelligent' issues when they are out with their girlfriends.

    This doesn't of course mean that men are more intelligent than women because they discuss these issues more openly in the public domain - it just means that men find it difficult to discuss emotion and have a tendancy to keep conversations in wider circles, to subjects they have knowledge of.

    The above is of course, my own experience and I don't have stats to back it up..but I've been around a while so I believe it's valid enough;)


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    Fittle wrote: »
    In my own life experience, I have found that men can't/don't discuss emotion/emotive topics. It is rare that men will chat about personal issues in a group of other men - it appears easier for them to discuss politics/football etc, things they know about in order to stay away from somewhat 'female' issues (men consider them female, not me) like their current relationship, the argument they just had with their mother, the fact that their girlfriend is putting on a bit of weight etc....all these issues are much easier discussed on an internet forum with people they don't know, than within a group of friends down the pub.

    Women, on the other hand, will generally discuss these emotive issues with other women, therby leaving less time to discuss politics and other 'more intelligent' issues when they are out with their girlfriends.

    This doesn't of course mean that men are more intelligent than women because they discuss these issues more openly in the public domain - it just means that men find it difficult to discuss emotion and have a tendancy to keep conversations in wider circles, to subjects they have knowledge of.

    The above is of course, my own experience and I don't have stats to back it up..but I've been around a while so I believe it's valid enough;)

    I think this is an accurate generalization of men and I don't see the need for you to go searching for studies.

    It's interesting how sensitive people are to being inferior/superior. The OP didn't claim men were better or more intelligent than women yet that is what many seem to think the OP is claiming. It's almost as if people are attracted to being offended.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,775 ✭✭✭Fittle


    I think this is an accurate generalization of men and I don't see the need for you to go searching for studies.

    It's interesting how sensitive people are to being inferior/superior. The OP didn't claim men were better or more intelligent than women yet that is what many seem to think the OP is claiming. It's almost as if people are attracted to being offended.

    From my reading of humanities, alot of these threads become about gender with one or other side, defending their gender.

    Men and women are just different, as opposed to one being inferior/superior to the other imo.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    Donfers brilliant post.
    Fittle wrote: »
    In my own life experience, I have found that men can't/don't discuss emotion/emotive topics. It is rare that men will chat about personal issues in a group of other men - it appears easier for them to discuss politics/football etc, things they know about in order to stay away from somewhat 'female' issues (men consider them female, not me) like their current relationship, the argument they just had with their mother, the fact that their girlfriend is putting on a bit of weight etc....all these issues are much easier discussed on an internet forum with people they don't know, than within a group of friends down the pub.

    Women, on the other hand, will generally discuss these emotive issues with other women, therby leaving less time to discuss politics and other 'more intelligent' issues when they are out with their girlfriends.

    This doesn't of course mean that men are more intelligent than women because they discuss these issues more openly in the public domain - it just means that men find it difficult to discuss emotion and have a tendancy to keep conversations in wider circles, to subjects they have knowledge of.

    The above is of course, my own experience and I don't have stats to back it up..but I've been around a while so I believe it's valid enough;)
    +1 there are clear differences to how men and women think. I don't know why some people find it so offensive to discuss these differences. Looking for random studies to back up what you say isn't necessary unless you are claiming something as fact(Which isn't widely known to be a fact) as opposed to simply expressing an opinion. I really do wonder what these google opinion searchers would have done before the internet. I've also noticed that when an anecdote backs up what they want to hear they don't demand studies.
    I think this is an accurate generalization of men and I don't see the need for you to go searching for studies.

    It's interesting how sensitive people are to being inferior/superior. The OP didn't claim men were better or more intelligent than women yet that is what many seem to think the OP is claiming. It's almost as if people are attracted to being offended.
    Some people seem to treat their gender the same way nationalists treat their nationality. So any comment about their gender that doesn't fit into their world view is taken as a personal insult, their gender forms too much of their self worth. This results in pointless crap like over emphasizing certain female achievements in Science to boost these ego's the same way we over emphasize Irish achievements in Science to boost the ego's of those who judge themselves by their nationality. If you don't judge yourself by your gender or nationality you won't give a crap what someone achieved simply because they shared your nationality or gender.

    LGBT and some ethnicities can also do this as well, it just screams insecurity to me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,775 ✭✭✭Fittle


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    Donfers brilliant post.

    there are clear differences to how men and women think. I don't know why some people find it so offensive to discuss these differences.

    +100!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,237 ✭✭✭mcmoustache


    K-9 wrote: »
    Boards tends to be male dominated so that needs to be taken into account, 80% or something like that.

    Damn, that kind of split would make my idea a bit useless. If it was closer to 50/50 I think the idea would have had some merit.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,026 ✭✭✭diddlybit


    Fittle wrote: »
    Men and women are just different, as opposed to one being inferior/superior to the other imo.

    I would disagree. I think culture and society constructs gender roles in a way that allows us to think like that, the sort of "women are from Venus..." discourses. That what makes men and women "different" are quite superfical to an extent. People are just people, and this form of gender universalising is quite unproductive. If a female child is brought up listening to repeated insinuations that there are some things that are "suitable" for girls to do, and other activites that are suitable for boys, these repeated behviors become so inherent that they appaer to be biologically inate, symptomatic of the elusive femaleness and maleness.

    For example, is it any wonder that women have a lesser interest in sports? From an early age, they are told to "play nice" whereas boys are encouraged to go outside and play sports. There is also a huge social capital in masculinity that is associated with the watching/playing/criticising of sports. Is this really an interest though for many men, or is it a way to encourage bonding between peers?

    In regards to politics, the insinuation that women are not interested is the same essentialism repeated. One cannot make such a universalised statement and the statistics provided in this thread prove otherwise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    Damn, that kind of split would make my idea a bit useless. If it was closer to 50/50 I think the idea would have had some merit.

    There's a thread on politics atm about women and politics. One of the mods posted that there are only a few dozen regular posters in politics anyway, which is small in a site this size. I suppose many might post on politics.ie or just use the AH political threads, which are common there. Female posters seem to be rare on the ground on the political threads I see.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    K-9 wrote: »
    There's a thread on politics atm about women and politics. One of the mods posted that there are only a few dozen regular posters in politics anyway, which is small in a site this size. I suppose many might post on politics.ie or just use the AH political threads, which are common there. Female posters seem to be rare on the ground on the political threads I see.

    I stay out of them because I can't stand the debating style of the majority of posters (e.g. keep posting aggressively and never taking anything on board til the other person drops out of the debate due to frustration or submits). I'm not sure what everyone else's reason is though.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    diddlybit wrote: »
    I would disagree. I think culture and society constructs gender roles in a way that allows us to think like that, the sort of "women are from Venus..." discourses. That what makes men and women "different" are quite superfical to an extent. People are just people, and this form of gender universalising is quite unproductive. If a female child is brought up listening to repeated insinuations that there are some things that are "suitable" for girls to do, and other activites that are suitable for boys, these repeated behviors become so inherent that they appaer to be biologically inate, symptomatic of the elusive femaleness and maleness.

    For example, is it any wonder that women have a lesser interest in sports? From an early age, they are told to "play nice" whereas boys are encouraged to go outside and play sports. There is also a huge social capital in masculinity that is associated with the watching/playing/criticising of sports. Is this really an interest though for many men, or is it a way to encourage bonding between peers?

    In regards to politics, the insinuation that women are not interested is the same essentialism repeated. One cannot make such a universalised statement and the statistics provided in this thread prove otherwise.
    The difference between the male and the female brain are undeniable. You claim they are just social constructs but if they were both the same then why would society develop differences? How would these societal differences just suddenly pop up?


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Kaelyn Colossal Tribe


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    The difference between the male and the female brain are undeniable. You claim they are just social constructs but if they were both the same then why would society develop differences? How would these societal differences just suddenly pop up?

    I'm starting to think it's a bit of a circle. Men and women do operate differently, but then gender roles are stereotyped and assigned, leading us to a chicken and egg situation.
    k-9 wrote:
    There's a thread on politics atm about women and politics. One of the mods posted that there are only a few dozen regular posters in politics anyway, which is small in a site this size. I suppose many might post on politics.ie or just use the AH political threads, which are common there. Female posters seem to be rare on the ground on the political threads I see.
    I used to spend a lot of time debating/arguing online and I lost a lot of patience for it. Overloaded a bit maybe. I'd be happier discussing these things with friends in real life now than posting about it on boards.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,026 ✭✭✭diddlybit


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    The difference between the male and the female brain are undeniable. You claim they are just social constructs but if they were both the same then why would society develop differences? How would these societal differences just suddenly pop up?

    You'll have to provide me with evidence of this, and then circle the parts of the two brains that allow one gender the superior cogntive skills to execute the following: cooking (but not cheffing!), baking, sports, talking about sports, talking about politics, being involved in politics, putting on makeup, leaving the toilet seat up, child-rearing, enjoying rom-coms, enjoying films with Stallone in them etc.

    I'm not trying to be smart, but the argument based upon female/male brains falls apart when we seeing how arbitrary social gendering is.

    In regards to the culturally constructed social differences, they are almost impossible to trace, as they have become so ingrained in of ways of perceieving gender that we can no longer trace them back. But one theory I would put forth would be that many of them would have a basis in economic relations. For example, marraige and the incest taboo, it is theorised, originate in the idea that women were once seen as material goods for exchange, hence marraige (or ownership of a woman.) The incest taboo developed from allowing bloodlines to continue, nobody wanted to buy a woman that was carrying another man's child, so the taboo evolevd to prevent the impregnation of a woman by relatives. Same for the stigma once attached to virginity (still is in some parts of the world.)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    diddlybit wrote: »
    You'll have to provide me with evidence of this, and then circle the parts of the two brains that allow one gender the superior cogntive skills to execute the following: cooking (but not cheffing!), baking, sports, talking about sports, talking about politics, being involved in politics, putting on makeup, leaving the toilet seat up, child-rearing, enjoying rom-coms, enjoying films with Stallone in them etc.

    I'm not trying to be smart, but the argument based upon female/male brains falls apart when we seeing how arbitrary social gendering is.

    In regards to the culturally constructed social differences, they are almost impossible to trace, as they have become so ingrained in of ways of perceieving gender that we can no longer trace them back. But one theory I would put forth would be that many of them would have a basis in economic relations. For example, marraige and the incest taboo, it is theorised, originate in the idea that women were once seen as material goods for exchange, hence marraige (or ownership of a woman.) The incest taboo developed from allowing bloodlines to continue, nobody wanted to buy a woman that was carrying another man's child, so the taboo evolevd to prevent the impregnation of a woman by relatives. Same for the stigma once attached to virginity (still is in some parts of the world.)

    You are trying to deny something that is universally accepted to be true. Men and women think differently. There was a video posted in the male brain and football thread which analysed how the sexes navigate through a maze differently and both sexes had a completely different solution to the same problem.

    Since you are denying facts I will post links to back up my assertion that we think differently.
    http://www.cerebromente.org.br/n11/mente/eisntein/cerebro-homens.html

    It backs up pretty much everything Fittle said
    One of the most interesting differences appear in the way men and women estimate time, judge speed of things, carry out mental mathematical calculations, orient in space and visualize objects in three dimensions, etc. In all these tasks, women and men are strikingly different, as they are too in the way their brains process language. This may account, scientists say, for the fact that there are many more male mathematicians, airplane pilots, bush guides, mechanical engineers, architects and race car drivers than female ones.

    On the other hand, women are better than men in human relations, recognizing emotional overtones in others and in language, emotional and artistic expressiveness, esthetic appreciation, verbal language and carrying out detailed and pre-planned tasks. For example, women generally can recall lists of words or paragraphs of text better than men (13).

    The "father" of sociobiology, Edward O. Wilson, of Harvard University (10), said that human females tend to be higher than males in empathy, verbal skills, social skills and security-seeking, among other things, while men tend to be higher in independence, dominance, spatial and mathematical skills, rank-related aggression, and other characteristics.


    If you read it all you will see it also addresses your idea that the differences are created by society.

    When all these investigations began, scientists were skeptical about the role of genes and of biological differences, because cultural learning is very powerful and influential among humans. Are girls more prone to play with dolls and cooperate among themselves than boys, because they are taught to be so by parents, teachers and social peers, or is it the reverse order?

    However, gender differences are already apparent from just a few months after birth, when social influence is still small. For example, Anne Moir and David Jessel, in their remarkable and controversial book "Brain Sex" (11), offer explanations for these very early differences in children:

    "These discernible, measurable differences in behaviour have been imprinted long before external influences have had a chance to get to work. They reflect a basic difference in the newborn brain which we already know about -- the superior male efficiency in spatial ability, the greater female skill in speech."

    But now, after many careful controlled studies where environment and social learning were ruled out, scientists learned that there may exist a great deal of neurophysiological and anatomical differences between the brains of males and females.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,026 ✭✭✭diddlybit


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    There was a video posted in the male brain and football thread which analysed how the sexes navigate through a maze differently and both sexes had a completely different solution to the same problem.

    So mazes are the reason that women do not understand the off-side rule? :confused:
    One of the most interesting differences appear in the way men and women estimate time, judge speed of things, carry out mental mathematical calculations, orient in space and visualize objects in three dimensions, etc. In all these tasks, women and men are strikingly different, as they are too in the way their brains process language. This may account, scientists say, for the fact that there are many more male mathematicians, airplane pilots, bush guides, mechanical engineers, architects and race car drivers than female ones.

    Yet prior to the twentieth century, the sciences were considered "female" subjects, whereas languages were considered "male" subjects. This was a cultural change and nothing to do with any differences between male and female brains. It's alos ignoring much of the evidence already provided in this thread on how women are surpassing men in bith school and third level education.
    On the other hand, women are better than men in human relations, recognizing emotional overtones in others and in language, emotional and artistic expressiveness, esthetic appreciation, verbal language and carrying out detailed and pre-planned tasks. For example, women generally can recall lists of words or paragraphs of text better than men.

    Which is why the world's most celebrated artists, writers and speakers are all female. Oh...hold on. :confused:

    I understand your arguments and the validity of the evidence that you have provided, and that you disagree with the idea of culturally constructed gender, but any brain differences cannot explain the huge seperation between what consitutes male and female behavior. The topic of this thread is why aren't women interested in politics, and by how I interpret the quoted paragraphs above in hwich women have better verbal skills and more empathy, shouldn't women be more likely to be interested in current affairs and politics?

    (Actually I may have just forgotten what politics is really about- self-interest and passing the buck. Which gender wants that one?) :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    diddlybit wrote: »
    So mazes are the reason that women do not understand the off-side rule? :confused:
    Where did I claim this? I was arguing your stance that there aren't differences.
    Yet prior to the twentieth century, the sciences were considered "female" subjects, whereas languages were considered "male" subjects. This was a cultural change and nothing to do with any differences between male and female brains. It's alos ignoring much of the evidence already provided in this thread on how women are surpassing men in bith school and third level education.
    I've never heard of Science being considered a feminine subject before the 20th century.

    Women surpassing men in school isn't really evidence for anything apart from that women are better at the current school system. The education system is driven by politics. The maths thought in secondary school bares little resemblance to actual mathematics. You simply learn of steps and don't actually have to understand each step taken. Women are better at memorizing which is what most of the school system amounts to. There is also a lot of arguments that point to the school system being against boys in the sense that they simply have too much energy to sit still all day long and that they are now being deprived the chance to even run around at playtime due to health and safety.
    Which is why the world's most celebrated artists, writers and speakers are all female. Oh...hold on. :confused:
    Who does well in the art world is also political. In this case it is aimed in favor of men. It has nothing to do with who is the most talented artist. Read the art thread in humanities to see what I think about the art world.
    I understand your arguments and the validity of the evidence that you have provided, and that you disagree with the idea of culturally constructed gender, but any brain differences cannot explain the huge seperation between what consitutes male and female behavior.
    Says you. You still haven't made a good attempt at pointing out why men and women would have different roles in society if we were both the same. You asked for evidence for my claims and I gave you very strong respected evidence and you simply dismissed it because you didn't like what it was saying.
    The topic of this thread is why aren't women interested in politics, and by how I interpret the quoted paragraphs above in hwich women have better verbal skills and more empathy, shouldn't women be more likely to be interested in current affairs and politics?
    I have no idea why more women aren't interested in politics and I'm not going to take a random stab in the dark guess as to why this is. Politics isn't just about who has the best verbal skills you are also ignoring the fact that women may choosing to use their skills for different purposes.
    (Actually I may have just forgotten what politics is really about- self-interest and passing the buck. Which gender wants that one?) :D
    This isn't a competition between the genders so stop trying to turn it into one.

    I never claimed one gender was overall better than the other I'm simply pointing out that we are clearly very different. Even if it was down to social reasons as you claim that still wouldn't negate the fact we are not the same. Why is this so insulting of an idea to you?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    Eugenics is why it's insulting. I know it's a bit of a leap and not directly comparable, but people start using studies like that to justify hatred. And that can go down a bad, bad road.

    In your day to day life, there are no hard and fast differences between men and women. It could be argued that, as a result of such, the studies are irrelevant to day to day life. So when they're brought up, it's seen as a warning sign that it's going to be used to justify inequality.
    This isn't to say I don't respect the science - I do, and I have many times acknowledged the fact that in general there are some differences between genders (if there weren't at all, transgenderism wouldn't be an issue) - but I think that it's something that shouldn't be thrown about in average society. People are apt to take it up wrong and use it as justification for their own prejudices. These studies just plain don't apply in real life situations - you're always bound to meet exceptions and you need to be able to allow for that without by default shutting your brain off because of some predetermined idea of what they should be according to their gender. It's pure fodder for close-mindedness.

    I'm not saying that's what you're doing, just why it can rile.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,026 ✭✭✭diddlybit


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    I've never heard of Science being considered a feminine subject before the 20th century.
    Women surpassing men in school isn't really evidence for anything apart from that women are better at the current school system. The education system is driven by politics. The maths thought in secondary school bares little resemblance to actual mathematics. You simply learn of steps and don't actually have to understand each step taken. Women are better at memorizing which is what most of the school system amounts to. There is also a lot of arguments that point to the school system being against boys in the sense that they simply have too much energy to sit still all day long and that they are now being deprived the chance to even run around at playtime due to health and safety.

    This is all a little generalised. We just learn stuff off? Really?
    Who does well in the art world is also political. In this case it is aimed in favor of men. It has nothing to do with who is the most talented artist. Read the art thread in humanities to see what I think about the art world.

    Will do.
    Says you. You still haven't made a good attempt at pointing out why men and women would have different roles in society if we were both the same. You asked for evidence for my claims and I gave you very strong respected evidence and you simply dismissed it because you didn't like what it was saying.

    True. You did. As soon as I have time to quote to back up my arguments, I promise I will. I did touch on the economic origins of such gender roles earlier. But I shall be starting with Levi-Strauss, Foucualt, and Judith Butler's Gender Trouble.
    This isn't a competition between the genders so stop trying to turn it into one.

    I'm not. That last comment at the end was a joke, hence the brackets and emoticon. My emotican was not intended to be passive-aggressive. :)
    Even if it was down to social reasons as you claim that still wouldn't negate the fact we are not the same. Why is this so insulting of an idea to you?

    It's not insulting to me, I just don't believe that there are such huge differences between the genders. Those that do exist I believe are more down to culture and society, rather than biological difference.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    liah wrote: »
    Eugenics is why it's insulting. I know it's a bit of a leap and not directly comparable, but people start using studies like that to justify hatred. And that can go down a bad, bad road.

    In your day to day life, there are no hard and fast differences between men and women. It could be argued that, as a result of such, the studies are irrelevant to day to day life. So when they're brought up, it's seen as a warning sign that it's going to be used to justify inequality.
    This isn't to say I don't respect the science - I do, and I have many times acknowledged the fact that in general there are some differences between genders (if there weren't at all, transgenderism wouldn't be an issue) - but I think that it's something that shouldn't be thrown about in average society. People are apt to take it up wrong and use it as justification for their own prejudices. These studies just plain don't apply in real life situations - you're always bound to meet exceptions and you need to be able to allow for that without by default shutting your brain off because of some predetermined idea of what they should be according to their gender. It's pure fodder for close-mindedness.

    I'm not saying that's what you're doing, just why it can rile.
    Your comment about it not affecting day to day life is false unless you manage to go through your day without using your brain(Not saying you do:D). Men and women approach problems differently and come up with different solutions to even the most mundane task of getting to the local shop. So it affects everything.

    Even how conversation flows is different with women because they give different levels of importance to certain emotional data than men.

    There was BBC show called "Secrets of the sexes" that showed this.
    http://www.cornel1801.com/video/SOTS0318.html
    Generally speaking, all of the women had a much better memory for the emotional facts. Men were more things oriented. And women were more people oriented. Women like relationships, men like facts.
    This completely backs up what fittle was saying about women being more interested in emotional topics. I'm not saying women are more emotional just that they definitely seem more interested in emotional topics.

    I have completely different conversations with women than I do with men. If I'm with a group of men the tone will completely change if even one woman enters the group.
    you're always bound to meet exceptions
    Of course there are exceptions but I'm talking about generalizations which there is nothing wrong with doing. The thread never made claim that no women are interested in politics. I don't see what's so offensive about talking in generalizations anyway, if it doesn't describe you that's fine but there isn't a justifiable reason to be offended.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    I'm not offended, I just disagree. Approaching people with predetermined ideas of "male" and "female" in your head in real life situations takes away appreciation for individuality and does everyone an injustice, imo. There's many women who argue like men and many men who argue like women, many men who are interested in only emotive topics and many women who are interested in only factual topics, many women who are crap at languages and many men who are brilliant at them, many men who are crap at sports and many women who aren't etc., etc., etc. Too many exceptions to make a valid, impactful and completely honest generalization.

    All I'm saying is, it seems pointlessly divisive to start thinking along those lines. Especially if you believe in an equal rights society.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    liah wrote: »
    I'm not offended, I just disagree. Approaching people with predetermined ideas of "male" and "female" in your head in real life situations takes away appreciation for individuality and does everyone an injustice, imo. There's many women who argue like men and many men who argue like women, many men who are interested in only emotive topics and many women who are interested in only factual topics, many women who are crap at languages and many men who are brilliant at them, many men who are crap at sports and many women who aren't etc., etc., etc. Too many exceptions to make a valid, impactful and completely honest generalization.

    All I'm saying is, it seems pointlessly divisive to start thinking along those lines. Especially if you believe in an equal rights society.
    I think everyone has gender biases and treat genders differently. You're going to deny you do this but I believe it's innate. It's why men would give more help to a woman than a man, they simply provoke more empathy. It's not even something they have to do it's simply the fact they are female. In the same a man would find it much easier to intimidate someone through aggression than a woman. An angry woman just looks unhinged and hysterical. I think it's also why men are better at making people laugh(can of worms) it's not even about the quality of the joke it's just a different presence.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,739 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    liah wrote: »
    All I'm saying is, it seems pointlessly divisive to start thinking along those lines. Especially if you believe in an equal rights society.

    If men and women can have different physical bodies, different chemical makeup (testosterone for example), different appearance, different muscle mass, different voices, and so on, without anyone getting into an 'equal rights' tizzy about it, why can it not be accepted that they have different thought processes, attitudes etc?

    How can it be divisive to say that, generally speaking, men are better at/more interested/less interested/not as good at anything than women? They are different, how is that a problem. Not better or worse, just different.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    looksee wrote: »
    If men and women can have different physical bodies, different chemical makeup (testosterone for example), different appearance, different muscle mass, different voices, and so on, without anyone getting into an 'equal rights' tizzy about it, why can it not be accepted that they have different thought processes, attitudes etc?

    How can it be divisive to say that, generally speaking, men are better at/more interested/less interested/not as good at anything than women? They are different, how is that a problem. Not better or worse, just different.

    Because it files millions of people in two categories and provides neat little predetermined boxes to fit everyone into, regardless of how much they actually deviate from that, and it's counterproductive. Racism has proven this in another context.


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