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This one guy is an asshole - being led on!

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    "Oh ffs" .. look at the 'thanks' on your post, you'll see my username from the time.
    But you said:
    OutlawPete wrote: »
    Yet, here we have a 'Men are assholes' thread and not an eye-lid batted by those that would if the sexes were reversed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 426 ✭✭ddef


    ride him til yer tumor bleeds.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Dudess wrote: »
    But you said:

    Are you are one of those that would not bat an eyelid if the sexes were reversed?

    No .. as you did on this thread and have done before.

    So why the "Oh ffs" .. and alerting me to your post, a post I had thanked on seeing it first time around.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,305 ✭✭✭DOC09UNAM


    Jesus Christ it's an online messageboard, why must sexism even exist here.

    One man is not the collective of the whole sex.

    One woman is not the collective of the whole sex.

    So what if one man is an asshóle, or one woman can't parallel park, why must people base a whole gender on one encounter.

    We're all adults, so don't we all act like it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,933 ✭✭✭holystungun9


    Maybe you should stop kissing assholes OP!

    Maybe this is what he is grooming you for!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    DOC09UNAM wrote: »
    So what if one man is an asshóle ..

    Exactly and so what if one woman thinks we are all assholes (I know she doesn't) but so what if she did.

    I have zero problem with what the OP said, just wish men could say similar about women and if they can't, well THEN I think women shouldn't be able to either.

    Good for the goose and all that ..
    DOC09UNAM wrote: »
    .. or one woman can't parallel park ..

    Oh, I stayed well out of that one :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,305 ✭✭✭DOC09UNAM


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    Exactly and so what if one woman thinks we are all assholes (I know she doesn't) but so what if she did.

    I have zero problem with what the OP said, just wish men could say similar about women and if they can't, well THEN I think women shouldn't be able to either.

    Good for the goose and all that ..



    Oh, I stayed well out of that one :p
    I know what you're saying, and while I agree if it's good for one it should good be the other, I honestly think a harder approach should be taken on this topic.

    In the end, all it will do, is seperate everyone, the women will stay in TLL, and the fellas will stay in TGC.

    What needs to happen is people need to grow up and get over the "he said, she said" shít and the mods need to just start handing out warnings and bans to any sexism, from either side.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    OutlawPete wrote: »

    I've seen a proportionate amount of them on AH when the sex ratio is taken into account.



    Seems to me, a hell of lot more guys will speak out on thread and have a go at the men who are posting sexist stuff about women than women will, when it is other women posting sexist clap trap.

    The first quote probably affects the second tbh.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Rory Gentle Creature


    Can the thread title be changed to "One person may or may not be an asshole"?

    "Someone of undisclosed gender, somewhere, may or may not be an asshole."

    All we need then is a "terms&conditions apply" :D


  • Posts: 24,867 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    and I bet some try it the other way around sometimes to see if it's more fun.

    Like A.C. Slater? Just make sure the door is locked if you're gonna try that one. Very hard to explain what exactly you were doing...or so I've heard...:o


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,438 ✭✭✭livinginkorea


    Well that was a waste of 5 minutes reading this thread.

    Was hoping the OP wrote up something more.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,476 ✭✭✭Samba


    KylieWyley wrote: »
    Lay off the OP, she's just feeling a little emotional right now :rolleyes:



    Gotta love the wonderful associations that tattoo will forever have!

    Agreed, what she needs is a dildo.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 949 ✭✭✭maxxie


    he wants to fish hook ya and stick it in your bum..

    I presume :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    You should buy him a bag of sugar


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭Dr_Phil


    Why do they do it?

    Fancied a guy for ages. 5 or 6 years to be precise. Didn't do anything cause i worked with him but since i left the job a couple of weeks ago, i thought fk it il try it anyway.

    Gave him my number and he was more than happy to give me his and he went to kiss me on the lips. :D

    He rang me a couple of times and even asked me would my flatmates mind if he came into my room if he came to visit me. Wtf does all this mean?

    Am i right to be mad at him since he's all talk and he's been ignoring my messages. Even had the neck to tell me the kiss was no big deal. Yes it was when he asked to come into my room.

    What does he want? Sersiously i understand dogs more. And before anyone says women can be assholes too, yes i know they can. Maybe i should just become a lesbian?
    Maybe you weren't enthusiastic enough - or made that impression? Some lads (including myself) don't like to be pushing girls all the time without them girls being more or less involved and proactive. It's just boring and after a couple of tries they give up.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,865 ✭✭✭Mrs Garth Brooks


    Think we were on different pages. He wanted a ride and fck off after. And well myself wanted more. :( Ah well, he's not the guy i thought he was.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    SV wrote: »
    he wanted the ride and you weren't giving it to him.
    now he's making sure you know he doesn't really give a fúck as that'd bruise his ego.



    not rocket science woman.
    How can i give it to him when he wasn't coming for it?
    Think we were on different pages. He wanted a ride and fck off after. And well myself wanted more. :( Ah well, he's not the guy i thought he was.

    I think you're editing the "page" to suit yourself, don't insult the intelligence of the AH posters.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Think we were on different pages. He wanted a ride and fck off after. And well myself wanted more. :( Ah well, he's not the guy i thought he was.

    I hate men


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭Dr_Phil


    Think we were on different pages. He wanted a ride and fck off after. And well myself wanted more. :( Ah well, he's not the guy i thought he was.
    Simple misunderstanding - how could he know that you are not one of those who enjoy a free ride? It's nothing bad to have sex for a bit of pleasure, but if you have plans to marry the fella and have kids and joined mortgage and all this.. well, you should've attached that info to the mobile number you gave to the poor lad.

    No one's fault, just misunderstanding.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭Dr_Phil


    I hate men

    I bet many men hate you too... :rolleyes:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,758 ✭✭✭Stercus Accidit


    TheZohan wrote: »
    I think you're editing the "page" to suit yourself, don't insult the intelligence of the AH posters.

    lol


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    lol

    Post reported...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    Think we were on different pages. Hewanted a ride and fck off after. And well myself wanted more. :( Ah well, he's not the guy i thought he was.

    All this male versus female crap because the OP had fancied said male for five / six years but never did anything until she left her job. The reason he probably never tried it on with her before is simple, he did not want to.

    OP if you think a female will treat you better than go for it but dont think just because she is the same sex as you that she wont be an asshole to. Im sure you are not the girl he thought you were either. If you wanted more you would have left the job years ago if that was the reason ye could not get together.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Dr_Phil wrote: »
    I bet many men hate you too... :rolleyes:

    Nobody could ever hate me :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭Dr_Phil


    Nobody could ever hate me :p
    Well, what I've figured out during my short life is that usually if you hate someone - they hate you back. As there are around 3,456,782,396 men living on this planet it is pure probability that lets say 20% will hate you back.. Do some maths and tell me how many would that be? :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Dr_Phil wrote: »
    Well, what I've figured out during my short life is that usually if you hate someone - they hate you back. As there are around 3,456,782,396 men living on this planet it is pure probability that lets say 20% will hate you back.. Do some maths and tell me how many would that be? :rolleyes:

    Why are you hell bent on making me sad? :(

    Let me live in ignorant bliss ok!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭Dr_Phil


    Why are you hell bent on making me sad? :(
    Maybe I am among them 20%? :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 93 ✭✭rachums


    I dont think he did anything wrong, sounds like you are pissed about being rejected and your having a rant. Move on.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,865 ✭✭✭Mrs Garth Brooks


    rachums wrote: »
    I dont think he did anything wrong, sounds like you are pissed about being rejected and your having a rant. Move on.

    Yes he did. Swopped numbers. Couple of days later, HE rings me and tells me he's thinking of coming down to my part of the country. Week after he rings and asks to come into my bedroom when he visits. .... That's kind of leading me on, isn't it? .. He didn't have to ring me. Ego boost on his part?
    3 months later and im still waiting. with no explanation either to why he didn't visit.

    Well he can go fk himself now. and im sure he has.

    Now does anyone realise that i understand dogs more?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    Yes he did. Swopped numbers. Couple of days later, HE rings me and tells me he's thinking of coming down to my part of the country. Week after he rings and asks to come into my bedroom when he visits. .... That's kind of leading me on, isn't it? .. He didn't have to ring me. Ego boost on his part?
    3 months later and im still waiting. with no explanation either to why he didn't visit.

    Well he can go fk himself now. and im sure he has.

    Now does anyone realise that i understand dogs more?


    It's a free country and he is under no obligation to explain himself to you. leading you on what age are you ? what's the deal with the dogs comment?


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