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This one guy is an asshole - being led on!

Mrs Garth Brooks · 2010-09-21 21:12:52

Why do they do it? Fancied a guy for ages. 5 or 6 years to be precise. Didn't do anything cause i worked with him but since i left the job a couple of weeks ago, i thought fk it il try it anyway. Gave him my number and he was more than happy to give me his and he went to kiss me on the lips. :D He rang me a couple of times…

21-09-2010 10:12PM

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Mrs Garth Brooks

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Why do they do it?

Fancied a guy for ages. 5 or 6 years to be precise. Didn't do anything cause i worked with him but since i left the job a couple of weeks ago, i thought fk it il try it anyway.

Gave him my number and he was more than happy to give me his and he went to kiss me on the lips.

He rang me a couple of times and even asked me would my flatmates mind if he came into my room if he came to visit me. Wtf does all this mean?

Am i right to be mad at him since he's all talk and he's been ignoring my messages. Even had the neck to tell me the kiss was no big deal. Yes it was when he asked to come into my room.

What does he want? Sersiously i understand dogs more. And before anyone says women can be assholes too, yes i know they can. Maybe i should just become a lesbian?

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dudess is a dude

all men are bastards

dudess likes head

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#2 21-09-2010 10:14PM

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you have bad breath

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#3 21-09-2010 10:14PM

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He rang me a couple of times and even asked me would my flatmates mind if he came into my room if he came to visit me. Wtf does all this mean?

S E X.
He wants to "doink" you... :rolleyes:

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#4 21-09-2010 10:14PM

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he wanted the ride and you weren't giving it to him.
now he's making sure you know he doesn't really give a fúck as that'd bruise his ego.

not rocket science woman.

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#5 21-09-2010 10:14PM

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You are one brave lady.

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#6 21-09-2010 10:15PM

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Maybe you should stop kissing assholes OP!

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#7 21-09-2010 10:15PM

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It means he wants to ride ya. And perhaps have a relationship. But definitely a ride.

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#8 21-09-2010 10:16PM

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Your post does not contain enough info for us to judge both your and his actions.

1: Pics or GTFO.
2: Pics of GTFO
3: More info and stuff.

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#9 21-09-2010 10:16PM

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This is why women should remain in kitchens.

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#10 21-09-2010 10:16PM

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He tried to use you for sex. Get over it, and get over him.

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#11 21-09-2010 10:16PM

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SV wrote: »

he wanted the ride and you weren't giving it to him.
now he's making sure you know he doesn't really give a fúck as that'd bruise his ego.

not rocket science woman.

How can i give it to him when he wasn't coming for it?

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#12 21-09-2010 10:16PM

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HardLuckWoman wrote: »

Maybe i should just become a lesbian?

Or you could take this to the Relationship Issues forum, where you might folks more sympathetic.

You are the type of what the age is searching for, and what it is afraid it has found. I am so glad that you have never done anything, never carved a statue, or painted a picture, or produced anything outside of yourself! Life has been your art. You have set yourself to music. Your days are your sonnets.
―Oscar Wilde predicting Social Media, in The Picture of Dorian Gray

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#13 21-09-2010 10:17PM

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Put simply - he wants his hole.

Some can of worms you've opened there OP..

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#14 21-09-2010 10:17PM

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HardLuckWoman wrote: »

Maybe i should just become a lesbian?

That's a bit unfair, I don't think you can just choose to become a lesbian.

Sexuality isn't a choice; the attitude in your post stinks btw, not attractive.

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#15 21-09-2010 10:17PM

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HardLuckWoman wrote: »

How can i give it to him when he wasn't coming for it?

You didn't offer it up.

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#16 21-09-2010 10:18PM

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This is disgusting SEXISM.

Im off to start a sh!tstorm of a thread.....

Why is boards so anti-men.:mad:

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#17 21-09-2010 10:18PM

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HardLuckWoman wrote: »

How can i give it to him when he wasn't coming for it?

Hard luck woman, hard luck.

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#18 21-09-2010 10:18PM

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I agree with what the guys are saying here. unfortunately this guy is a TWAT and just wanted to use you for sex. seems to happen quite a lot.

Maybe you should try lesbianism for a while. I've been considering it myself. Heck maybe myself and yourself should get together....

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#19 21-09-2010 10:18PM

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You're hoping he's on AH?;)

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#20 21-09-2010 10:18PM

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HardLuckWoman wrote: »

... he went to kiss me on the lips.

...and what, you stopped him, or he changed his mind or something?

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#21 21-09-2010 10:19PM

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TheZohan wrote: »

That's a bit unfair, I don't think you can just choose to become a lesbian.

Sexuality isn't a choice; the attitude in your post stinks btw, not attractive.

Um, It can be a choice. It is not always a choice. But it can be.

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#22 21-09-2010 10:19PM

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HardLuckWoman wrote: »

Why do they do it?

Fancied a guy for ages. 5 or 6 years to be precise. Didn't do anything cause i worked with him but since i left the job a couple of weeks ago, i thought fk it il try it anyway.

Gave him my number and he was more than happy to give me his and he went to kiss me on the lips.

He rang me a couple of times and even asked me would my flatmates mind if he came into my room if he came to visit me. Wtf does all this mean?

Am i right to be mad at him since he's all talk and he's been ignoring my messages. Even had the neck to tell me the kiss was no big deal. Yes it was when he asked to come into my room.

What does he want? Sersiously i understand dogs more. And before anyone says women can be assholes too, yes i know they can.

So this one guy is representative of "men"? And he's not an asshole for not wanting the same as you want.

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#23 21-09-2010 10:19PM

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Ouch, that's rough liking someone for years and finally finding out they are a complete waste of time!

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#24 21-09-2010 10:20PM

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OP, you probably pushed back too much so he moved on in his mind. I doubt if he is that much of a player if you fancied him for 5-6 years it sounds like you both were single for most of that. So he got your number, tried a kiss, tried to wrangle an invitation to your house, in fact your bed. None forthcoming so he gave up.

Girls have to move faster than they think.

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#25 21-09-2010 10:21PM

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galwayrush wrote: »

You're hoping he's on AH?;)

Exactly

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#26 21-09-2010 10:21PM

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HardLuckWoman wrote: »

How can i give it to him when he wasn't coming for it?

How to rape? Ask Larry Murphy or someone of his ilk.

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#27 21-09-2010 10:22PM

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He wants to know what love is -pause- & he wants you to show him...

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#28 21-09-2010 10:23PM

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Sersiously i understand dogs more

... you know dogs are after the same thing!:D

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#29 21-09-2010 10:23PM

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Maybe he changed his mind and he doesn't know how to tell you? How many messages did you leave him? and over what period of time? If you started leaving a lot of messages in a short space of time it would put a lot of people off.

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#30 21-09-2010 10:23PM

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kylith wrote: »

He tried to use you for sex.

She didn't use him for sex. Must be a lesbian.

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#31 21-09-2010 10:24PM

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Terry wrote: »

Your post does not contain enough info for us to judge both your and his actions.

1: Pics or GTFO.
2: Pics of GTFO
3: More info and stuff.

Agreed. Tosser tbh.

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