Unprotected Oral Sex

wealthyman · 15-09-2010 11:16PM #1

Ok the thing is I have met a genuine guy who I want to be with, and obviously I would like to engage in oral but I don't want to use a condom because it just would not be as enjoyable. We are both clear of STD's and it our first time to do anything like this as guys together, so should we be safe? Do many people here use condoms when giving head? Also this guy DOES NOT sleep around and neirther do I.

hotmail.com · 16-09-2010 12:51AM

wealthyman wrote: »

Ok the thing is I have met a genuine guy who I want to be with, and obviously I would like to engage in oral but I don't want to use a condom because it just would not be as enjoyable. We are both clear of STD's and it our first time to do anything like this as guys together, so should we be safe? Do many people here use condoms when giving head? Also this guy DOES NOT sleep around and neirther do I.

If you are both clear of STDs and you're relationship is monotonous (EDIT: monogamous :-) ) (and his willy is clean), I don't see why you need to use a condom for oral sex.

AndrewJD · 16-09-2010 09:41AM

I certainly hope his relatioship isn't monotonous

Dull, tedious, and repetitious; lacking in variety and interest.

Haha. Not to scare you, but the big 4 for oral sex are chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea and genital herpes. Mainly syphilis. Most STI's can be transmitted either way, so it wouldn't matter who's giving or receiving. It's certainly a bit safer than anal or (eek) vaginal, but you're right to be wary of the risks. At the end of the day, if you trust that he'll be clean, that's as good as it gets. Condom's are the best bet if you want to be protected, but you're right, they're not the best in these situations.

EDIT: Just thought there, do you mean you've both been checked out by a doctor for STI's or just that neither of you have any symptoms? There's a big difference.

But have fun

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