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What makes a "slut"?

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  • #122
    ibarelycare
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58,456 ✭✭✭✭ibarelycare


    DigiGal wrote: »
    I asked their opinion, they gave it...not behind my back but to my face.


    I'm not going to stop being friends with people o've known for 6/7 years who i study and work with jut because they don't agree with my being with someone i've just met. Just like they wount stop being friends with me because they don't agree with what I did.

    If one of them is going out with a guy and he is an arse, i'll tell her straight up, instead of discussing it with the rest of the group....I think thats much better than what goes on with the groups of friends i see in college and in work and people i used to go to school with...

    At least i'm sure if they have a bad opinion or are annoyed at me about something, it will go no further than me, not everyone they meet on the street that week

    Do you not think it's wrong that they call you a slut for hooking up with a guy (not even shagging him??) that you just met?? What age are you and they if you don't mind me asking??


  • #123
    DigiGal
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,434 ✭✭✭DigiGal


    Na, its not like they meant it maliciously, they just explained that it was a bit slutty, but I asked, they didn't just start ripping into me or anything, and they were right about the guy in the end too.


    I'm 19, they range from 22 to 26


  • #124
    veryangryman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,736 ✭✭✭veryangryman


    Karl Hungus wrote: »
    A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that's opened by many keys is a sh*tty lock.

    That has to be post of the year. Id thank you twice if i could. Well done dude! :D


  • #125
    mcmoustache
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,237 ✭✭✭mcmoustache


    DigiGal wrote: »

    Now somehow, despite only sleeping with one man I have rep for being a slut.
    And it was my female friends who perpetuated this....

    What is a slut anyway....define? Is it a woman who has many partners at once, someone who has loads of one night stands...both...something else?

    It was mentioned before in the thread already but guys don't call women sluts unless they are slagging or are junkie scumbag types. It's women who do this to other women. I think there was another thread a while back about if/why women are so nasty to each other. I don't know if it ever got sorted but I think this whole "slut" business is just a part of it.


  • #126
    ibarelycare
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58,456 ✭✭✭✭ibarelycare


    DigiGal wrote: »
    Na, its not like they meant it maliciously, they just explained that it was a bit slutty, but I asked, they didn't just start ripping into me or anything, and they were right about the guy in the end too.


    I'm 19, they range from 22 to 26

    You're 19 and you were in a relationship for 7 years?


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  • #127
    DigiGal
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,434 ✭✭✭DigiGal


    ibarelycare wrote: »
    You're 19 and you were in a relationship for 7 years?
    Yes...and? , I actually am 20, I wrote 19 as a force of habit, I was 20 in february


  • #128
    Terry
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    DigiGal wrote: »
    I recently broke up with my OH, of 7 years who was the only man I have ever been with. About 2 months after I went to see a friend pay a gig in Galway and i ended up getting off with the bass player. I did'nt sleep with him but other things happened.

    When my female friends found out the all reacted the same way : you're a big slut, you got used, you acted likea hoe etc.

    Where as my male friends took the piss out of me for not sleeping with him etc..

    Now somehow, despite only sleeping with one man I have rep for being a slut.
    And it was my female friends who perpetuated this....

    What is a slut anyway....define? Is it a woman who has many partners at once, someone who has loads of one night stands...both...something else?
    You agitated the surface of the soil around plants, to remove weeds?
    Bitches.

    Also, **** the begrudgers.


  • #129
    ibarelycare
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58,456 ✭✭✭✭ibarelycare


    DigiGal wrote: »
    Yes...and? , I actually am 20, I wrote 19 as a force of habit, I was 20 in february


    Wow, very young to be with someone that long!

    Anyway, don't mind your friends...their opinions are wrong :cool:


  • #130
    HavingCrack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,847 ✭✭✭HavingCrack


    DigiGal wrote: »
    Exactly, I even find myself doing this, I think "what a slut" as if its conditioned in my brain....

    My point exactly. Even you're admitting that you do naturally without any real concious thought being put into it. I honestly just can't understand why :confused:


  • #131
    Red Hand
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,983 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    ibarelycare wrote: »
    Que?!

    It was, like so many other things in life, a Simpsons reference.


    I dislike the word personally, find it very inslutting.


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  • #132
    The Waltzing Consumer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,949 ✭✭✭The Waltzing Consumer


    DigiGal wrote: »
    I recently broke up with my OH, of 7 years who was the only man I have ever been with. About 2 months after I went to see a friend pay a gig in Galway and i ended up getting off with the bass player. I did'nt sleep with him but other things happened.

    When my female friends found out the all reacted the same way : you're a big slut, you got used, you acted likea hoe etc.

    Where as my male friends took the piss out of me for not sleeping with him etc..

    Now somehow, despite only sleeping with one man I have rep for being a slut.
    And it was my female friends who perpetuated this....

    What is a slut anyway....define? Is it a woman who has many partners at once, someone who has loads of one night stands...both...something else?

    Maybe your female friends like your ex-boyfriend and are just not used to seeing you single. You have been in a very long relationship and after two months, to be with someone else, they may have felt betrayed if they were hoping you two would be back together. It is nasty for them to say those things, but talk to them and see what they say.

    Your male friends took the piss out of you for not sleeping with this stranger? That is more shocking than what your girl friends did. It sounds like your guy friends may like you more than "just friends".

    I would never encourage or slag a female friend for not having sex with a stranger, bizarre.


  • #133
    The Waltzing Consumer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,949 ✭✭✭The Waltzing Consumer


    Jeremiah 16:1 wrote: »
    It was, like so many other things in life, a Simpsons reference.


    I dislike the word personally, find it very inslutting.

    Orange? ;)


  • #134
    Wolfe Tone
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,670 ✭✭✭✭Wolfe Tone


    Your male friends took the piss out of you for not sleeping with this stranger? That is more shocking than what your girl friends did. It sounds like your guy friends may like you more than "just friends".


    What? Not at al IMO. If they did they would hardly be slagging her for not having sex with another guy.


  • #135
    HavingCrack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,847 ✭✭✭HavingCrack


    MUSSOLINI wrote: »
    What? Not at al IMO. If they did they would hardly be slagging her for not having sex with another guy.

    You're spot on there. Surely if they liked her as more than a friend they'd be pissed off that she was with another guy, not egging her on:confused:


  • #136
    Wolfe Tone
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,670 ✭✭✭✭Wolfe Tone


    HavingCrack wrote: »
    You're spot on there. Surely if they liked her as more than a friend they'd be pissed off that she was with another guy, not egging her on:confused:
    Yeah exactly.


  • #137
    The Waltzing Consumer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,949 ✭✭✭The Waltzing Consumer


    MUSSOLINI wrote: »
    Yeah exactly.

    Stop agreeing with each other ;)

    Na, but think about it. If they are slagging her for not being very promiscuous, maybe they kinda fancy her and are hoping she will become promiscuous with one of them. They want to be a rebound.


  • #138
    Jesus Wept
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    What has sleep got to do with anything?


  • #139
    Wolfe Tone
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,670 ✭✭✭✭Wolfe Tone


    The Waltzing Consumer wrote: »
    Stop agreeing with each other ;)

    Na, but think about it. If they are slagging her for not being very promiscuous, maybe they kinda fancy her and are hoping she will become promiscuous with one of them. They want to be a rebound.
    I disagree.


  • #140
    Red Hand
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,983 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    The-Rigger wrote: »
    What has sleep got to do with anything?

    "Sl" is common to both "slut" and "sleep".

    It is also present in "slime", "slip", "slide", "slow", "slurp", and "slack".


  • #141
    minidazzler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,650 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    The Waltzing Consumer wrote: »
    Stop agreeing with each other ;)

    Na, but think about it. If they are slagging her for not being very promiscuous, maybe they kinda fancy her and are hoping she will become promiscuous with one of them. They want to be a rebound.

    I'd agree with you here.


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  • #142
    HavingCrack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,847 ✭✭✭HavingCrack


    minidazzler wrote: »
    I'd agree with you here.

    I disagree :pac:


  • #143
    Dean820
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    ibarelycare wrote: »
    One of the girls broke up with a very long term boyfriend recently. She went through a phase of about 3 months of having a different guy on the go every couple of weeks. We'd all just have a laugh about the stories she'd come back to us with after a weekend...she was having a laugh, enjoying herself and not hurting anyone.

    Best weekend of my life and then she went and broke my heart... the slut.


  • #144
    LarrytheLantern
    Closed Accounts Posts: 176 ✭✭LarrytheLantern


    Iran has the right idea when it comes to dealing with these slags.

    Buried up to their head in sand, and .............:eek:


  • #145
    Drumpot
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,306 ✭✭✭✭Drumpot


    What makes a slut ?

    Two people of the opposite sex doing what sluts do best . . Giggidey Giggedy . . .


  • #146
    NoHornJan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 553 ✭✭✭NoHornJan


    LarrytheLantern wrote: »
    Iran has the right idea when it comes to dealing with these slags.

    Buried up to their head in sand, and .............:eek:

    Let he who has no sin cast the first stone...


  • #147
    stovelid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Somebody who has the misfortune to sleep with am idiot, often.


  • #148
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    NoHornJan wrote: »
    Let he who has no sin cast the first stone...
    This "Don't criticise anything that's not western, even if it's brutal torture/murder, because you're not an angel yourself" stuff is becoming contagious on Boards...


  • #149
    Ridley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,270 ✭✭✭Ridley


    Dudess wrote: »
    This "Don't criticise anything that's not western, even if it's brutal torture/murder, because you're not an angel yourself" stuff is becoming contagious on Boards...

    As long as it's not sexually transmitted...

    ----

    "slut [sluht]

    –noun
    1.
    a dirty, slovenly woman.
    2.
    an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute"

    That's what a dictionary says. I would have said a slut doesn't even have the foresight to at least turn a profit.


  • #150
    tommyboy2222
    Closed Accounts Posts: 914 ✭✭✭tommyboy2222


    a slut is an easy female .

    Why the long thread ?


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  • #151
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    I dunno. How long is a piece of thread?


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