Buy me a drink??

steddyeddy · 16-07-2010 06:59PM #1

I was out last night with a good mate and my mate got talking to girl, they werent talking long but she seemed to really like him and they were getting on great. Then she asked him to buy her a drink, after he did that she said im going to the toilet and she and her other friend said they would be right back. Needless to say everytime she say my mate she ran. This isnt the first time this happened i seen it with other girls and other men, they girls were all fairly young and this seems to be a new tactic!

My mates at fault for buying the drink but surely pretending to like men in order for them to buy you drinks is a bit hookerish, the girl who did this on my mate was a law student so hardly scum or anything!

mink_man · 16-07-2010 07:00PM

if it gets him hole... he should do it...

drunkmonkey · 16-07-2010 07:06PM

he should have slipped a ruffie in it, that would sort her out.

easyeason3 · 16-07-2010 07:07PM

steddyeddy wrote: »

I was out last night with a good mate and my mate got talking to girl, they werent talking long but she seemed to really like him and they were getting on great. Then she asked him to buy her a drink, after he did that she said im going to the toilet and she and her other friend said they would be right back. Needless to say everytime she say my mate she ran. This isnt the first time this happened i seen it with other girls and other men, they girls were all fairly young and this seems to be a new tactic!

My mates at fault for buying the drink but surely pretending to like men in order for them to buy you drinks is a bit hookerish, the girl who did this on my mate was a law student so hardly scum or anything!

Scum can be intelligent enough to get onto a law course too you know, providing of course she wasn't telling your friend porkies.

Carlos_Ray · 16-07-2010 07:08PM

steddyeddy wrote: »

I was out last night with a good mate and my mate got talking to girl, they werent talking long but she seemed to really like him and they were getting on great. Then she asked him to buy her a drink, after he did that she said im going to the toilet and she and her other friend said they would be right back. Needless to say everytime she say my mate she ran. This isnt the first time this happened i seen it with other girls and other men, they girls were all fairly young and this seems to be a new tactic!

My mates at fault for buying the drink but surely pretending to like men in order for them to buy you drinks is a bit hookerish, the girl who did this on my mate was a law student so hardly scum or anything!

Most girls don't do this, but it is quite common. If a girl asks for a drink it usually is a good indicator that she is a cnut anyway, so avoid.

With a bit of luck the girl in question will have ended her night with an STD and vomit in her handbag.

Dr. Zeus · 16-07-2010 07:08PM

Not as hookerish as thinking a girl owes you something because she is bought a drink!

The running away is a bit off though!

zuroph · 16-07-2010 07:09PM

steddyeddy wrote: »

I was out last night with a good mate and my mate got talking to girl, they werent talking long but she seemed to really like him and they were getting on great. Then she asked him to buy her a drink, after he did that she said im going to the toilet and she and her other friend said they would be right back. Needless to say everytime she say my mate she ran. This isnt the first time this happened i seen it with other girls and other men, they girls were all fairly young and this seems to be a new tactic!

My mates at fault for buying the drink but surely pretending to like men in order for them to buy you drinks is a bit hookerish, the girl who did this on my mate was a law student so hardly scum or anything!

lol. Ya don't get out much, do ya!?

sh1tstirrer · 16-07-2010 07:10PM

If she pulls that stunt on the wrong person it will backfire on her.

Hazys · 16-07-2010 07:11PM

steddyeddy wrote: »

I was out last night with a good mate and my mate got talking to girl, they werent talking long but she seemed to really like him and they were getting on great. Then she asked him to buy her a drink, after he did that she said im going to the toilet and she and her other friend said they would be right back. Needless to say everytime she say my mate she ran. This isnt the first time this happened i seen it with other girls and other men, they girls were all fairly young and this seems to be a new tactic!

My mates at fault for buying the drink but surely pretending to like men in order for them to buy you drinks is a bit hookerish, the girl who did this on my mate was a law student so hardly scum or anything!

Why being a law student suddenly disqualifies you from being a scumbag?

By the looks of things maybe your buddy was full of himself (because he is in college studing a degree with very few jobs available at the moment and itll take him 8 or so years to get qualified), and the girl saw him was an easy target to get a free drink off of.

tbf your buddy was probably a bit slow, if he couldnt see the signs he was being used and if he thought there was real rapport between him and the girl.

Dr. Zeus · 16-07-2010 07:11PM

drunkmonkey wrote: »

he should have slipped a ruffie in it, that would sort her out.

Horrible post!

g5fd6ow0hseima · 16-07-2010 07:12PM

mink_man wrote: »

if it gets him hole... he should do it...

would ya want to go near a retard like that though?

alwaysadub · 16-07-2010 07:14PM

Definitely not a new thing-have seen that going on for years.
I'd never ask anyone i've just met to buy me a drink.

DamoNolan · 16-07-2010 07:15PM

girls always try this..only a fool falls for it..

Eddie Ere · 16-07-2010 07:15PM

Definitely not a new tactic. I know girls who just don't want to spend any money and get a cheap thrill out of it.

Well at least someone gets a bit of enjoyment from it :pac:

drunkmonkey · 16-07-2010 07:15PM

Dr. Zeus wrote: »

Horrible post!

Maybe, but it sure would stop her taking drinks from strangers.

sh1tstirrer · 16-07-2010 07:15PM

Ashton Tangy Radio wrote: »

Brother John

I know you aren't you Big John Cannon?

Zen65 · 16-07-2010 07:16PM

steddyeddy wrote: »

My mates at fault for buying the drink but surely pretending to like men in order for them to buy you drinks is a bit hookerish, the girl who did this on my mate was a law student so hardly scum or anything!

If she had stayed chatting and they ended up together that night, because of one (or more) drinks he bought, surely that would be more like a hooker?

He had the choice whether or not to buy the drink, she had the choice whether or not to stay chatting. Get over it!

Be at peace,

Z

Dr. Zeus · 16-07-2010 07:19PM

I agree it's a bit off but it appears that if the girl was a student she no doubt was young! If she is older and doing that kind of thing, really should know better.

I know when I was a teenager, I did some really dumb stuff like stealing drinks in night clubs etc. Thought it was hilarious at the time. Obviously, wouldn't dream of doing that now but at the time was young and stupid and really didn't know any better.

Mackleton · 16-07-2010 07:20PM

DamoNolan wrote: »

girls always try this..only a fool falls for it..

Bit of a sweeping generalisation there no?

NoHornJan · 16-07-2010 07:23PM

Where is that party place and what is your friends name?

Scuid Mhór · 16-07-2010 07:25PM

steddyeddy wrote: »

I was out last night with a good mate and my mate got talking to girl, they werent talking long but she seemed to really like him and they were getting on great. Then she asked him to buy her a drink, after he did that she said im going to the toilet and she and her other friend said they would be right back. Needless to say everytime she say my mate she ran. This isnt the first time this happened i seen it with other girls and other men, they girls were all fairly young and this seems to be a new tactic!

My mates at fault for buying the drink but surely pretending to like men in order for them to buy you drinks is a bit hookerish, the girl who did this on my mate was a law student so hardly scum or anything!

not feeling much sympathy.

ballsymchugh · 16-07-2010 07:27PM

this has only happened to me once. was chatting to a girl for a few mins, until she announced 'well if you're not going to buy the lady a drink then this chat is over'
my response was.. 'Lady???'
she moved on.

if i'm chatting to someone for a bit i'd offer to buy them a drink, but i'm not too impressed by them pushing the need for you to buy it.

Klingon Hamlet · 16-07-2010 07:28PM

Maybe he said/did something that put her right off him? Or yeah, she used him. Personally if a girl came right out and asked me to buy them a drink I'd say no. No decent person asks that of someone they just met.

Wibbs · 16-07-2010 07:41PM

ballsymchugh wrote: »

this has only happened to me once. was chatting to a girl for a few mins, until she announced 'well if you're not going to buy the lady a drink then this chat is over'
my response was.. 'Lady???'
she moved on.

if i'm chatting to someone for a bit i'd offer to buy them a drink, but i'm not too impressed by them pushing the need for you to buy it.

Pretty much this. I have never bought a woman a drink if I dont know them for a while(in the sense of chatting for a good while on the night). Same way Im not gonna buy a bloke a drink in the same circumstance. If we're all doing rounds and a man or woman I dont know is in it then yes but otherwise no.

tony1kenobi · 16-07-2010 07:45PM

If I'd been talking to her a few minutes I'd already have her purse and phone so buying her a drink before she f*cked off wouldn't be a big deal.....

Klingon Hamlet · 16-07-2010 07:47PM

By the way I don't like the sweeping generalisations. I've had a fair few ladies buy me drinks before I could reach for the wallet---and I'm nothing special trust me. Most ladies are exactly that---ladies:)

lemonjelly · 16-07-2010 07:54PM

This happened me before OP. Just the once as others said on the thread any decent girl doesn't ask for a drink and **** off. They don't ask full stop.

Pauleta · 16-07-2010 07:57PM

Whenever somebody asks me for a drink i just say no and laugh in there face and then stroll off like im John Shaft

Klingon Hamlet · 16-07-2010 08:02PM

Does this happen often to people? If some girl said to me, "So, you going to buy me a drink?" I'd tell her I was until she asked. And walk away.

I doubt that any user would want to sleep with their targets, so nothing lost:)

Besides, no romp is worth that indignity.

FlutterinBantam · 16-07-2010 08:15PM

Best answer I gave when asked' So, Big Boy, When are you going to buy this girl a drink?' 'Sure honey' says I, When I have my knob up to the root in your hole, I'll buy you all the drink you want'

Sorts out the 'ladies from the 'girlettes.;)

Leeg17 · 16-07-2010 08:38PM

NoHornJan wrote: »

Where is that party place and what is your friends name?

In my pants. And you're ALL invited.

Buy me a drink??

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