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Is it easier for guys to pull women or women to pull guys?

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  • #32
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    One of them muppets would be me :p

    Sorry :o

    :D
    alwaysadub wrote: »
    I start to chat up a fella,i'm a slut. I don't, and i'm frigid!! It's easier for men :)

    You don't have to start catting him up and why would you think that is easy?

    In general, a girl just has to make eye contact and smile at a guy.

    If I'm with mates and we see a girl checking out one of our mates, we will all be like: "Oh, you're in there .. that blonde girl keeps checking you out" .. and he'll more than likely go and say hello.

    I was at a function last year (in a hotel) and we were at the bar and she said she hoped she'd pull that night, I broke up laughing.

    I told her that almost every guy that has walked past has checked her out and she was oblivious. How can that be?

    Jesus, when a girl gives me the glad eye, I remember .. forever :p

    Granted, I don't have to many to remember but jeez lousie, women can't be blind ffs.


  • #33
    Tar.Aldarion
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,119 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    Latchy wrote: »
    Well despite what the statistics and liars say , if you (cliched examples only )have the looks of George Clooney / Brad Pitt or Jennifer Aniston / Kate Hudson you aint gonna be having any trouble pulling anybody .

    We can always work on the good / bad personality traits later :pac:

    ye for some guys it's easy, obv. But it's a lot easier for a girl too still, of any attractiveness. She just has to be there :p
    It's easier to find guys who will have sex with anybody


  • #34
    Tar.Aldarion
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,119 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    OutlawPete wrote: »

    Jesus, when a girl gives me the glad eye, I remember .. forever :p

    Granted, I don't have to many to remember but jeez lousie, women can't be blind ffs.

    You can spot these things! You have the elusive 'signals' gene. I want that. /goes back to clueless corner :D


  • #35
    feckthepeas
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18 ✭feckthepeas


    JuneBug29 wrote: »
    I want to hear more from women cause i think it's mostly guys.

    Also i would like to know how many of the 52 who answered are guys?

    I'm a girl and I defo think that it's easier for guys. I'm a normal looking girl and I see how guys never seem to have trouble in nightclubs or on nights out. They also seem to have been with waaaay more women than I've been with men. I defo think guys have the upper hand in that way. They seem to be able to pick and choose girls on nights out. I've seen friends of mine drunk and willing on nights out...nice looking girls...and they've had no luck whatsoever. That makes no sense to me!


  • #36
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Tar.Aldarion wrote: »
    You can spot these things! You have the elusive 'signals' gene. I want that. /goes back to clueless corner :D

    I think it all comes down to eye contact, it's that simple.

    If a girl likes you, she looks at you and then looks away .. and repeats it with a smile maybe.

    If you ignore her or just are clearly oblivious, her friend will usually shove her against you as you walk past, embarrassing the fcuk out of her :p


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  • #37
    arybvtcw0eolkf
    Closed Accounts Posts: 24,608 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    Aim low is the trick, and stay sober.

    If riding is all its about, fuck what she looks like, give 'er a lash and leg it.

    If on the other hand its love your after, well love finds its own level with or without your help.


  • #38
    Latchy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,190 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Tar.Aldarion wrote: »
    ye for some guys it's easy, obv. But it's a lot easier for a girl too still, of any attractiveness. She just has to be there :p
    Yes , just be there ...and dont move K ? :D
    It's easier to find guys who will have sex with anybody
    For sure , even the loser guys get lucky sometime to :p


  • #39
    Mrmoe
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,216 ✭✭✭Mrmoe


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    One of them muppets would be me :p
    Maybe it's just cos i'm quiet,but i think its easier for a fella to start chattin to a girl than vice versa. I start to chat up a fella,i'm a slut. I don't, and i'm frigid!! It's easier for men :)

    You make it sound like slut is a bad thing;)


  • #40
    TheTosh
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 919 ✭✭✭TheTosh


    Women easily

    The best chat up line for a woman is the worst for a man

    ''Wanna f*ck''


  • #41
    Tar.Aldarion
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,119 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    I think it all comes down to eye contact, it's that simple.

    If a girl likes you, she looks at you and then looks away .. and repeats it with a smile maybe.

    If you ignore her or just are clearly oblivious, her friend will usually shove her against you as you walk past, embarrassing the fcuk out of her :p

    haha it's the latter I am better at spotting, them approaching you backwards :p
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055717847
    that or they have to be attached to my face, 5 mins later I think, oh maybe she likes me ??? :pac:


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  • #42
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Mrmoe wrote: »
    You make it sound like slut is a bad thing;)

    Yeah, doesn't it just mean:

    Sexually Liberated Uses Toys


  • #43
    alwaysadub
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    OutlawPete wrote: »

    In general, a girl just has to make eye contact and smile at a guy.

    .

    Yeah,and i usually get '
    what the fcuk are you looking at' rather than 'hey,how are you' :D

    And,as has already been mentioned,a lot(not all) of blokes will pull a girl even if he doesn't fancy her. Which gives him a bigger chance again!


  • #44
    TheTosh
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 919 ✭✭✭TheTosh


    This sums up a man's philosophy on sex

    'A holes a goal'


  • #45
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    Yeah,and i usually get '
    what the fcuk are you looking at' rather than 'hey,how are you' :D

    What??

    That's just weird.

    Have you thought about coming back to Dublin :p


  • #46
    alwaysadub
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    What??

    That's just weird.

    Have you thought about coming back to Dublin :p

    That's Galway men for ya, different breed altogether :pac:

    /suddenly remembers where two of the mods are from..

    Mean that in a good way of course :D


  • #47
    ddef
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 426 ✭✭ddef


    I hate the negative use of the word slut. Sluts are great! dont have to spend much money on drinks for them, dont waste as much time chatting and getting to know them. quickly in and stay as long as you want. when yer done go find another slut!
    girls...SLUT UP!


  • #48
    TheTosh
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 919 ✭✭✭TheTosh


    ddef wrote: »
    I hate the negative use of the word slut. Sluts are great! dont have to spend much money on drinks for them, dont waste as much time chatting and getting to know them. quickly in and stay as long as you want. when yer done go find another slut!
    girls...SLUT UP!

    I bet you wouldn't have that opinion if your mother/sister/daughter was like that or your girlfriend had that reputation


  • #49
    Augmerson
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 6,162 ✭✭✭Augmerson


    Easier to pull yourself OP.

    has anybody made that joke yet?


  • #50
    Mits
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 154 ✭✭Mits


    Guys do the pulling. So they have to be better at it.

    Have you ever seen a girl walk into a group of guys at a dance and says "fancy a dance, okay, how about your friend" and repeat this until you score.


  • #51
    Genrikh Yagoda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 56 ✭✭Genrikh Yagoda


    woman are generally much fussier and arrogant so it makes sense.:pac:


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  • #52
    Irish_wolf
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 291 ✭✭Irish_wolf


    My first thought was depends on the situation but then I realised that it's definitely easier in any situation for a girl to pull a guy than the other way round.
    Obviously attractive men and women are pretty much on the same level but
    generally speaking, if an unattractive girl goes around trying to get with a lot of fellas shes labelled a slut but will still get some,

    If an unattractive man goes around trying to get with a lot of girls he's labelled a creep and is usually ignored.


  • #53
    digme
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,584 ✭✭✭digme


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    I'm a woman,i think it's easier for a fella to pull.


    EDIT: I seem to be alone in my thinking.
    Maybe i'm just doing it wrong :pac:
    I'd question you interpretation of the word pull


  • #54
    Raekwon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,535 ✭✭✭Raekwon


    It's so easy for women to pull it's actually bordering on ridiculous! :pac:


  • #55
    derfderf
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,588 ✭✭✭derfderf


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    I'll talk to anyone who talks to me. Doesn't mean i'm gonna shag someone just for the sake of it.

    maybe that's what's wrong, all the lads you're interested in can see your chastity belt through your large baggy jumper :)


  • #56
    4zn76tysfajdxp
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    i think its easier for a fella to start chattin to a girl than vice versa.)

    ;) Hey, how are yo-...

    alwaysadub wrote: »
    That's Galway men for ya, different breed altogether :pac:

    What the fuck are you lookin' at? :mad::mad::mad:


  • #57
    LoanShark
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 949 ✭✭✭LoanShark


    I'm a ride, So I have No bother getting women..


  • #58
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    It's 1 millions times easier for a girl. She doesn't have to do anything, even if she doesn't look at a guy during the night she will probably still get approached.

    And if she makes a move, even if she gets shot down, 99.9% of the time the guy will be polite about it. Unfortunately guys aren't returned the same courteousy.

    The only time a girl might have it difficult is if it's me she's interested in. I never notice girls eyeing me up and even if I think they are, I'm almost always wrong. So the one's that are interested don't stand a chance unless they come over and introduce themselves as I'll probably never notice/believe they're giving me the come-on.

    It probably doesn't help that my eyes dart away all the time too. Almost like I don't want them to feel uncomfortable that I might be interested in them. Low self-esteem is such a great thing :D


  • #59
    Magi11
    Closed Accounts Posts: 240 ✭✭Magi11


    Male.

    Its easier for a a woman to pull guys because women have boobs:)


  • #60
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    I'm useless with guys. I'm a crap flirt and never pick up on them flirting with me. Even if they stand there and ask for my number. I'm just useless. Guys need to smack me over the head and tell me they like me or i wont cop it.


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  • #61
    nice1franko
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,300 ✭✭✭nice1franko


    Kiera wrote: »
    I'm useless with guys. I'm a crap flirt and never pick up on them flirting with me. Even if they stand there and ask for my number. I'm just useless. Guys need to smack me over the head and tell me they like me or i wont cop it.


    istockphoto_9528065-caveman-dragging-cave-woman.jpg

    :D


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