Male friend in a quandary over girl

katie99 · 21-03-2010 06:40PM #1

A male friend met a girl recently and fancies her! He met her through work, but she doesn't work with him.
He says they got on fine and she text him and said how lovely it was to meet him. She told him she looked forward to meeting again.
All very fine up to now.
What she also told him is that she has a boyfriend!!
He aked me for my advice from a women's perspective and I gave it to him.
I am interested to hear from guys and girls as to what he should do next.
Afraid he has it bad!!!

My advice to him was this.
1) You met her once
2) You don't know her well
3) It is inconceiveable she would 2 time her bf. (they are both in their 30s)
4) Just be friends and get to know her
5) If she likes him she will break off with her current bf.
6) Don't read too much into messages from her
7) She may like him but that doesn't mean she will break off her current relationship.
8) Let her know he likes her

wylo · 21-03-2010 08:19PM

its a tough one, the texts are fairly direct to be fair to him , although what does it say about her if she has a boyfriend and is texting like that to people she may fancy or barely know. (thats presuming she is into him)
I say avoid!
She has a boyfriend, and until they break it off hes no right to go messing things up.

Ickle Magoo · 21-03-2010 08:32PM

Whether she is interested in having a relationship with your friend or is just being friendly & considers the fact she's said she has a bf to ensure no misunderstandings is hard to say. Either way I'd advise your friend keeps it cool until she's single and indicated she wants to get involved with him or it could just get nasty from herself or the bf...

Male friend in a quandary over girl

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