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Relationships vs On The Pull

  • 21-03-2010 02:23PM
    #1
    formula1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 28 ✭


    Would you prefer to go out every night and shaft some random young one you might never see again?

    or

    would your prefer to be going out with someone?

    Relationships vs On The Pull 248 votes

    Be in a relationship
    0% 0 votes
    Be single and try to pull all around you
    100% 248 votes
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  • #2
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    formula1 wrote: »
    Would you prefer to go out every night and shaft some random young one you might never see again?

    or

    would your prefer to be going out with someone?

    I take it this question is just for the guys? Only I've nothing to shaft with...


    Both have their good and bad points.

    /shrugs


  • #3
    tman
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,339 ✭✭✭✭tman


    When I go out "on the pull", the only thing I usually end up pulling at the end of the night is my own todger.
    Hollow loveless sex isn't much of an attraction either...

    So relationships ftw for me!


  • #4
    mikom
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    What would Tiger do?


  • #5
    TPD
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,814 ✭✭✭TPD


    mikom wrote: »
    What would Tiger do?

    Hunt Deer?


  • #6
    Kasabian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    A relationship full of love, mutual respect and trust with common goals and ambitions for the future spent by the sea in that little white cottage.


    I am a romantic at heart.


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  • #7
    Abi
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    lonad wrote: »
    A relationship full of love, mutual respect and trust with common goals and ambitions for the future spent by the sea in that little white cottage.

    Someone pass me a bucket :p




    Wait till Biggins sees this thread, he'll have a field day 0/


  • #8
    El Siglo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,803 ✭✭✭El Siglo


    mikom wrote: »
    What would Tiger do?

    This is a good answer to that question.
    Personally, I blame the 'Wizard Alien'...:D


  • #9
    alwaysadub
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    I'd prefere to be in a relationship.
    I did all the meaningless sex in my younger days,would prefere to be waking up to the same person every morning these days than a stranger.


  • #10
    Kasabian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    Abitar wrote: »
    Someone pass me a bucket :p




    A bucket for collecting mussels and crabs to have with the salad growing in the garden and the fresh bread baked from the stone oven, yes your getting the picture now ;)

    I'd swap that for any meaningless shafting anyday:P


  • #11
    AckwelFoley
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    do both ftw


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  • #12
    alwaysadub
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    Abitar wrote: »
    Someone pass me a bucket :p




    Wait till Biggins sees this thread, he'll have a field day 0/

    I had presumed it was Biggins when i was reading it,till i looked over at the username:D


  • #13
    rainbowdrop
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,294 ✭✭✭rainbowdrop


    When I was in a relationship, I wanted to be free and single, go on the pull and shag all round me!! Now that I'm single, I'm sick of one night stands, and would give anything to be in a relationship........

    I'd say a lot of people would be like this, thinking the grass is greener on the other side, when, in actual fact, it's not!!:(


  • #14
    gonnaplayrugby
    Closed Accounts Posts: 453 ✭✭gonnaplayrugby


    relationship.


  • #15
    Kasabian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    I had presumed it was Biggins when i was reading it,till i looked over at the username:D

    Oiii , behave


  • #16
    El Siglo
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    snyper wrote: »
    do both ftw

    And end up like Tiger Woods?;)


  • #17
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 3,226 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    formula1 wrote: »
    Would you prefer to go out every night and shaft some random young one you might never see again?
    or

    would your prefer to be going out with someone?

    You make it sound like that's a given. :( Not true, and the grass is not always greener on the other side


  • #18
    Kasabian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    rainbowdrop wrote: »
    When I was in a relationship, I wanted to be free and single, go on the pull and shag all round me!! Now that I'm single, I'm sick of one night stands, and would give anything to be in a relationship........

    I'd say a lot of people would be like this, thinking the grass is greener on the other side, when, in actual fact, it's not!!:(


    Ring that person , you'd never know they might be missing you too ;)


  • #19
    rainbowdrop
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    lonad wrote: »
    Ring that person , you'd never know they might be missing you too ;)

    Haha, she does, but she's living in Australia now....... There's long distance relationships and there's LONG distance relationships! Guess I'm destined to be alone forever *sob*


  • #20
    Dudess
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    Generally speaking, relationship - but a lot depends on where you're at in life. You might not be ready for a relationship after a bad break-up, so then, casual encounters are the preference. Although ridin' someone different every night wouldn't be for me personally - now and again though.


  • #21
    Mrmoe
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    Neither.


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  • #22
    Abi
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    lonad wrote: »
    A bucket for collecting mussels and crabs to have with the salad growing in the garden and the fresh bread baked from the stone oven, yes your getting the picture now ;)
    Sweet jesus...

    /logs off

    :pac:
    alwaysadub wrote: »
    I had presumed it was Biggins when i was reading it,till i looked over at the username:D

    oh believe me... you'll know when hes hit the thread.. it'll be like a short story :D


  • #23
    Darlughda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,886 ✭✭✭Darlughda


    That poll is shyte.
    Totally depends on the relationship, stage of life you are at, and whether you mean 'on the pull' as in dating, or you mean drunkenly grabbing the last human left standing as the club shuts.

    Being in a relationship is fantastic when it is fantastic.Otherwise wouldn't swap the thrill and excitement of never knowing who you might meet next, who you might fall in love with, not to mention how much better sex is when its still got that freshness.

    Nothing worse than being in a bad relationship, or having to psyche yourself up for the bedroom because you can't admit to yourself your sick of the sight of him and familiarity really can breed contempt.


  • #24
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    Darlughda wrote: »
    That poll is shyte.
    Totally depends on the relationship, stage of life you are at, and whether you mean 'on the pull' as in dating, or you mean drunkenly grabbing the last human left standing as the club shuts.

    Being in a relationship is fantastic when it is fantastic.Otherwise wouldn't swap the thrill and excitement of never knowing who you might meet next, who you might fall in love with, not to mention how much better sex is when its still got that freshness.

    Nothing worse than being in a bad relationship, or having to psyche yourself up for the bedroom because you can't admit to yourself your sick of the sight of him and familiarity really can breed contempt.
    Nail on the head tbh.


  • #25
    Dudess
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    Is that advice for Darlughda, Abi? :pac:


  • #26
    bronte
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    D'you know that bit at the beginning where you both haven't a clue what's going on but it's ridiculously exciting.
    You fancy the pants off each other and everyone else is teasing you about it.
    You feel like your 15 year old self in the midst of an intense crush on (insert 15yr old self's crush here!)
    When you have to find something to lean against every time he walks in the room because it genuinely feels like you're going to fall over.

    That.

    I want to have that forever, whatever it is!
    It makes me stupidly happy!
    I may also try and bottle it and sell it to people.


  • #27
    Abi
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    bronte wrote: »
    D'you know that bit at the beginning where you both haven't a clue what's going on but it's ridiculously exciting.
    You fancy the pants off each other and everyone else is teasing you about it.

    This rawks :)


  • #28
    Bolag_the_2nd
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    rainbowdrop wrote: »
    When I was in a relationship, I wanted to be free and single, go on the pull and shag all round me!! Now that I'm single, I'm sick of one night stands, and would give anything to be in a relationship........

    I'd say a lot of people would be like this, thinking the grass is greener on the other side, when, in actual fact, it's not!!:(

    aaahhhh, i so want to give u a hug right now :o


  • #29
    Tar.Aldarion
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    Much prefer a relationship but sometimes you just can't be in one after the last...like now. So this having random sex thing is ok for now, can be quite exciting, but I'm a relationshipy person moreso. I like looking after somebody hehe. Nothing feels better than the right person, well maybe a bj.


  • #30
    gonnaplayrugby
    Closed Accounts Posts: 453 ✭✭gonnaplayrugby


    i dont have any desire to go on the 'pull' im not religious at all but my first time will be with the one i love. thats just my personality tho


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  • #31
    Tar.Aldarion
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    gonnaplayrugby wrote: »
    i dont have any desire to go on the 'pull' im not religious at all but my first time will be with the one i love. thats just my personality tho

    Hey I did the same thing, best of luck to you, was worth it I think!
    Much more casual with sex after that.


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