Why am I falling for a girl??

LegacyUser · 26-02-2010 05:15PM #1

Ok, so i've been straight all my life. Im 32 now, and have always liked guys. Sure, I look at other women and can say they are beautiful, but ive never had any feelings towards them. I did experiment when I was in my 20s, and made out with a girl, but it wasnt my cup of tea. I am very much a girly girl and never found the more masculine looking females attractive.

Then! I saw this girl a few weeks back and my stomach flipped! I started getting butterflies in my tummy and her smile is to die for! I see her online most nights, and I know she is openly gay.

But I dont understand why all of the sudden I cant stop thinking about her, and when I see her come up on chat my stomach flips!!! All I can think about it how much I would love to kiss her!

Whats going on with me??!?!!

mullyllum · 16-03-2010 01:57AM

What happened in the end?

tenfour · 16-03-2010 02:25AM

Maybe you just didn't have the right one in your twenties. This could be different also if she is online is it not a safer fantasy?

Dwn Wth Vwls · 16-03-2010 09:03PM

Well, things change, or you just never met someone that got your attention before. Chances are you're just not 100% straight, but somewhere between straight and bisexual.

Just because you're a girly girl doesn't mean anything really. It certainly doesn't mean you have to pair up with someone masculine, male or female. It's not always opposites attract.

What's going on is probably just that you have a crush. If you want to do something about it, then go for it. Unfortunately, this girl may not want to get involved with you because of your inexperience with women. She could easily be afraid that you'd just be experimenting on her. You won't know until you talk to her though.

Four-Percent · 16-03-2010 09:13PM

Christ almighty.

L.Jenkins · 16-03-2010 09:13PM

I smell a life time ban!

Tea_Bag · 16-03-2010 09:24PM

I can hear the hammer coming.....

BAM!

Why am I falling for a girl??

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