Woman jailed after sex with 12-year-old 200 times!!!

Bonito wrote: »

That's not a troll that's a genuine question relating to the thread

Millicent wrote: »

And thanks for such a serious and well thought out answer.

Bonito wrote: »

I've taken note of your posts and you don't come across as argumentative

Millicent wrote: »

Thank you very much.

/checks forum address

Okay, who's been spiking the Sunny Delight with Tequila again? :pac:

There just seems to be a widespread notion that:

Woman and underage boy - automatically consensual (unless she's not hot, but still, it's an older experienced woman)

Man and underage girl - automatically non-consensual (physical attractiveness or lack thereof - not relevant)

Also, "when I was 13 I'd have jumped on anything" - again, one 13-year-old boy does not speak for all 13-year-old boys.

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Little ****.
I was at least 20 before i'd clocked up 200 rides!!

Meaning you were about 30?

your son, you'd still hit the roof obviously but you'd kinda secretly think, go you little stud too.

What a load of macho tripe. YOU might secretly think it...

bazmaiden wrote: »

Reminded me of this...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8hdbns1Xdk0

Great episode. Annoying edit.

How is it a 12 year old boy is allowed to be pissed at a New Years party, and apparently stay over then? Where were the parents?

ottostreet wrote: »

its a joke? from south park? this is AH.

It's a real story , a real 12 year old kid and I don't give a fcuk if it is AH. We don't all base our moral standings on the comedy writings of a few Canadian stoners

(Note: I'm using an anonymous duplicate account to protect my identity. Mods, I hope this is ok. Also, I wouldn't go through all the hassle of setting up a new account to just troll)

I've resisted replying to this thread until now, but I simply must reply after reading through all these ignorant responses.

I should mention first that I am male.

I first started masturbating when I was 6. I just realised one day that it felt nice to rub 'down there' and I just picked it up from there. I hadn't a clue that it was sexual though. And when my parents found out, they just told me it should be done in private and left it at that.

By the time I was 8 I had taught many of my friends about masturbating, and we eventually started masturbating each other. Then some girls got involved and we figured out how girls can masturbate as well. Some porno magazines brought to us by my best friend filled in many of the gaps in our sexual knowledge and we started expirimenting. I think the best day was discovering the joy of orgasms! It was likely discovering the best kept secret in the world.

By aged 10, I was actively seeking sexual contact with others and had a crush on a few teen girls & women I knew. I would, in my own very awkward way, flirt with them and see what sort of responses I got.
Aged 11, I got the response I was looking for from a 19 year old neighbour. Not exactly 'hot' looking, but I really didn't care. She was interested, and I encouraged it. It wasn't long before she got the courage to kiss me. Quite gentle and kinda 'half innocent' at first, but slowly becoming more sexual as I obviously enjoyed it. Within weeks we were naked, masturbating each other and I was getting oral sex. I didn't want to 'return the favor', and although she was quite pushy about it, she accepted that. I did eventually do it for her birthday as a present though.
By aged 12, we were doing everything, and quite frequently. It only stopped when my family moved to another area over 80 miles away, and my parents to this day still don't understand why I protested so much about moving. Mobile phones weren't common at the time so we lost touch.

Now, according to all the posts above, I was sexually abused and suffered a horrendously traumatic childhood that has probably left me emotionally damaged. But I can tell you, those were by far the best years of my life. I felt loved, had something to look forward to, and I thought things couldn't get any better. All of the boy/girls that I still have contact with from those years of fooling around with each other, appear to be normal happy adults now. All but one is married and most have kids of their own.

So why am I a happy, well adjusted adult despite all this 'abuse'? Because it wasn't abuse. The trauma comes from being forced, or from the shame of being forced. I was neither forced nor ashamed.

Try to see it this way....
Intercourse can be one of the most amazing things or earth, of it can be the most traumatic, invasive and pyschologically hurtful thing. In rape & consensual sex, the physical act is identical. The ONLY difference is the consent. You remove the consent, and you create extreme trauma & shame. This applies to children as well as adults..

Most of these stories you hear in the news about sexual abuse revolve around people who were forced. And I'm right there with my pitchfork and torch looking to maim, torture and kill those responsible for this abuse.

Only rarely do we see a case where there was consensual sex which only accidentally was discovered. And when this occurs, we apply the same anger, disgust and hatred that we reserve for the true abuse cases. People assume abuse, they assume injury, they assume coercion & trauma even when there likely was none. In this particular case, the boy was probably quite happy to continue having sex with this woman. As for the gifts, when was the last time you bought your girlfriend/boyfriend a gift? Of course, we don't really know the exact nature of their relationship. Perhaps it was abusive. I don't know. But I'm not willing to automatically assume it was abusive like 99% of the people in this thread, and indeed in society.

Society considers sex to be dirty and wrong. People, especially children naturally feel shame when doing something dirty & wrong. This shame causes a lot of the trauma associated with abuse. They rest comes from the feeling of helplessness, the breach of trust & the fear instilled by abusers.

BTW, I have a unique experience in that I was sexually assaulted by a male when I was 14. I know exactly what it feels like to be abused, and more importantly, I know the difference between that and the consentual sexual activity that I was involved in previously.

I'd also like to point out that I am aware that many children are not mature enough to consent, and would be physically harmed by many sexual activities. I do not support anything that would harm a child. But I do believe that the 'age of consent' concept is extremely flawed as some children are indeed able to consent, and would not be harmed in the right circumstances, especially when it comes to child-child sexual contact.

I'd also like to make it extremely clear that I personally have no sexual interest in children. I am happily married to a wonderful women and have 2 children (aged 6 and 10). I am extremely protective of my children, and understand just how vunerable they are. But I'm also aware that they are sexual beings. Both my boys masturbate and it appears to cause them no harm. If they choose to 'fool around' with friends as I did, I wouldn't stop them so long as nobody was being forced.

In summary, please accept and be aware that children can, in the right circumstance, enjoy sexual actively and benefit greatly from it. It's not always abuse. Remember, you will almost never ever hear about all the cases of consentual sexual activity that occurs daily between children and between adults & children. E.G. my story...

I would ask the mods not to delete this post. I know it is perhaps a little graphic for AH, but it's a genuine posts based on genuine experiences and people need to see all sides.

Thank you all.