C&H sex discussion thread

Eric Cartman · 03-06-2009 05:34PM

Aisling(",) wrote: »

explain?

making a statement about it being better when in love is fine , but for the moment, randomers in nightclubs and my 2 playthings will do just fine

turgon · 03-06-2009 10:02PM

Its all personal choice I suppose. I dont know would I feel as comfortable with a "randomer," although I probably would.

I was pretty young when I first had sex - 15. Any comparisons?

I think its too young. 16 maybe, but at 15 I just didnt have a ****ing clue! And Ive enjoyed it way more in the 3 and a half years since.

Proper sex education needs to be in this country.

Pygmalion · 03-06-2009 11:42PM

I don't particularly want to have sex, and I'm a 16 year old guy. I'd probably be too embarassed to admit that I don't want to to my friends. It's a kind of weird backwards situation, but I guess not wanting to and not getting any is preferable to wanting to but not getting any, so I suppose I'm better off than many my age.

It's not like I don't think about it (a lot), just can't imagine myself wanting to actually do it any time soon.

magicianz · 03-06-2009 11:49PM

Im right there with ya pygma, 16 too and really couldnt give a crap about having sex, why the hell should we? I dont know about everyone else but i have enuff crap to sift through in my life atm and adding trying to be one of the 'cool' kids by boinking some slut in an alley aint exactly what i want to do! When i feel i want to be sexually active i will go out there and do who ever but til then i really couldnt care less.

A-Bit-Dodge · 04-06-2009 07:41PM

Lost mine due to pressure. It was a friendship thing. Really regret it now because when I did actually feel ready to have sex with a boyfriend a year and a half later, HE was apprehensive because he was a virgin and I wasn't. I think his ego was a bit bruised or something

. Anyway, it did play a huge role that we didn't lose it to each other. It was kind of awkward and nothing I could say or do put his mind at ease because I knew the only thing he kept thinking about was whether he was doing it "right" or not. Broke up a month later.

College though. Great fun. :pac::pac::pac:

A-Bit-Dodge · 04-06-2009 07:43PM

Ginja Ninja wrote: »

B-I-N-G-O

Biology practical "study" and all that

R*dbull ad.. R*dbull ad.. R*dbull ad.:D

don't want anny infringements now do we?

phic · 07-06-2009 02:02PM

kingtut wrote: »

Hell ye! The complete outer body experience you get the minute you put the pen down and realise the exam is over is way better than any orgasm you could have during sex!! Exams.....soooooooooooo good

I don't think you're doing it right...:rolleyes:

Mialuvzfun! · 07-06-2009 07:45PM

So what we talkin about? Sex? Ye?

Fad · 07-06-2009 08:49PM

Mialuvzfun! wrote: »

So what we talkin about? Sex? Ye?

No, obviously not.

Michellenman · 07-06-2009 10:41PM

Mialuvzfun! wrote: »

So what we talkin about? Sex? Ye?

Were we? I hadn't noticed.

magicianz · 07-06-2009 11:05PM

Michellenman wrote: »

Were we? I hadn't noticed.

And here i am thinking we were talking about pie :<

p1akuw47h5r3it · 08-06-2009 05:42PM

A-Bit-Dodge wrote: »

R*dbull ad.. R*dbull ad.. R*dbull ad.:D

don't want anny infringements now do we?

Why can't u say Redbull?

Aisling(",) · 08-06-2009 05:44PM

DanDan6592 wrote: »

Why can't u say Redbull?

caffine related nervous twitch?

Mialuvzfun! · 09-06-2009 09:19AM

magicianz wrote: »

And here i am thinking we were talking about pie :<

No need to go getting smart I was just conversing! lol:pac::pac:

WolfForager · 10-06-2009 07:55PM

18, virgin, don't care. I don't understand the pressure around sex these days... Is it some right of passage that's been passed down from generation to generation? No. It means jack noodles.

Actually i'd say about 50% of the lads in my year are virgins (6th year), probably even more.

But hey? What's college really for eh? :P

magicianz · 10-06-2009 10:46PM

College is for holding hands and playing rousing games of scrabble! :-D

I think that its just sad that having sex is on teenagers minds! Its secondary school! Your meant to have parties and spend your summers lying around in a park relaxing with friends, not trying to take advantage of some drunk girl/guy or whatever.

phic · 14-06-2009 08:05PM

the whole virgin/not virgin thing is ridiculous.
There are much better ways to define oneself than if having had sex or not.
It's really not that life altering experience that there need to be so much fuss over it.

Lollipop95 · 19-06-2009 11:13PM

With some teens, the law makes no difference. Some don't care. They just hook up with some random guy and get themselves up the duff.

Teutorix · 20-06-2009 12:14AM

Nearly 17 and a virgin a good few of my friends are too.

And can somebody clarify on the age of consent? ive had more than a few arguements over it.

Professey Chin · 20-06-2009 12:18AM

Teutorix wrote: »

Nearly 17 and a virgin a good few of my friends are too.

And can somebody clarify on the age of consent? ive had more than a few arguements over it.

17

Teutorix · 20-06-2009 10:29AM

thanks, for some reason nearly everyone i know are under the misconception that its 16

magicianz · 20-06-2009 10:32AM

Teutorix wrote: »

thanks, for some reason nearly everyone i know are under the misconception that its 16

I think it was 16 but it was increased to 17 in the last year or two. Not 100% sure of that though!

Piste · 20-06-2009 10:40AM

No it was always 17. People (mainly teenage girls) think it's 16 because they read British magazines like Sugar and Bliss which harp on about the age of consent being 16 and they automatically think it applies here too.

turgon · 20-06-2009 10:53AM

If you are in with a group of people who actually care about whether or not you are a virgin, then its time to get new friends.

FredBaby! · 29-08-2009 12:44PM

i know a few (ok alot) of people who claim they have lost their virginity but, really, have they looked in the mirror lately!? they have faces only a mother could love like.

Virgins are cool, liars are not.

Jesus Juice · 29-08-2009 01:48PM

FredBaby! wrote: »

i know a few (ok alot) of people who claim they have lost their virginity but, really, have they looked in the mirror lately!? they have faces only a mother could love like.

Virgins are cool, liars are not.

Well maybe it was with their mothers then!!

soccymonster · 29-08-2009 01:59PM

Jesus Juice wrote: »

Well maybe it was with their mothers then!!

LOL!
know a few people my age (15) that have done it with 19 year olds. Well, i know one person anyways :P. Mank!

Bobalicious93 · 29-08-2009 03:13PM

soccymonster wrote: »

LOL!
know a few people my age (15) that have done it with 19 year olds. Well, i know one person anyways :P. Mank!

Sounds like a classic "I have this friend..." story :pac:

Aisling(",) · 29-08-2009 04:27PM

soccymonster wrote: »

LOL!
know a few people my age (15) that have done it with 19 year olds. Well, i know one person anyways :P. Mank!

4 years aint exactly a big gap though

my mate is 18 her boyfriend is 33,now thats nasty!

JC 2K3 · 29-08-2009 11:20PM

I don't want this thread to go off topic or to include potentially flame inciting posts. So while you are perfectly entitled to start a new thread on young people's attitudes to large age gaps in a relationship, don't comment on what Aisling has said above.

You can have some banter on this thread, just don't let it spin off into flames or off topic discussion.

Thanks,
JC

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