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Very little sex drive

  • 13-05-2009 01:31AM
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Hey. I'm a 19 year old fella.
    In the last few months Ive noticed that my desire for sex has diminished greatly from where it was when I was 12 or 13. I was never completely obsessed by it but I had a very healthy level of interest in it! I'm still interested in it but when I come (from porn or from a girl) I hardly feel anything in comparison to what I used to and there is way less volume than there once was! id say i come about 3 times a week whereas i used to do over double that. I am completely straight by the way!

    So, is this normal?

    I feel like I'm missing out on what should be the best time of my life for stuff like this and feel jealous of others my age who are having loads of mad sex :(


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yeah I'm the same dude. I'm 24 and I have nowhere near the levels of sex drive I had as an 18 year old. Not only that I find it very difficult to get erect unless I'm with a girl and same as you the volume ain't what it used to be! However I know plenty of fellas who are the same and can only cum with porn or with a girl. You see men respond best to visual stimulation and I think our generation has become heavily reliant on porn etc. to the extent our imagination won't do it. Also as a teenager you've all your hormones in overdrive which contributes to you feeling like a god when it comes to sex.

    If it's really that bad you can always go to your doctor just to make sure you've no underlying problems but like I said I'm the same and I've never really thought too much into it.


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