Friendship??

jo jo d eskimo · 09-05-2009 11:13AM #1

i have a friend who, lately, im finding really hard to get along with. all she does is complain about how she looks but its only so me and the rest of my friends will complament her. she also treats me very badly and is always being very bitchy. what should i do??:(

star-pants · 09-05-2009 11:40AM

What age are ye both?

Does she look to you for reassurance?

jo jo d eskimo · 09-05-2009 01:41PM

were both 24. i feel like i need to pull away from this friendship. i get angry when i'm around her because i just feel like screaming at her to stop and just be happy with herself. all our other friends say she's jealous of me as she even copies what clothes i wear. she's very needy and i feel like myself and my other close girlfriends have to demean ourselfs just to make her feel better!!

Taltos · 09-05-2009 02:40PM

jo jo d eskimo wrote: »

she also treats me very badly and is always being very bitchy:(

Think you know the answer. The difficulty may be you share friends, but try not to get left alone with her or get forced/bullied into doing things together - just let your reply be "will let you know" or "not sure will get back to you on that"

But someone who treats you badly and is doing your head in is not someone I would be keen to spend any time around. Life is too short to let others pull you down.

bluecell99 · 09-05-2009 04:08PM

Drop her like a hot potato and move on.She will drag you down to her level.Do you want this?End it,cut her out and hold your head high.Loads of people out there to meet.Get crackin and leave this loser behind.

jo jo d eskimo · 09-05-2009 06:36PM

thanks so much for yer help. this has been getting to me for the last year. i now no what i need to do but it will be hard because were such a close group of friends. i need to do it for myself though because i'll go mad otherwise. thanks again!!

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