Too big

LegacyUser · 29-04-2009 12:02PM #1

The only way for my girlfriend to enjoy sex is for her to be on top, so she can control how much of my penis goes inside her.. because if i go all the way in (which is what i like to do), it hurts her.

We've tried loads of oral, all sorts of positions, lube etc

She's kinda given up and just said, "i'll just go on top". But i like to do it from behind obviously, and i like going all the way in, which i just can't do. Its making sex less exciting for me and i can't seem to reach orgasm from penetration.

She's a small girl, but not tiny, nor is my penis massive
Anyone with any helpfull knowledge on the subject?

Cuddlesworth · 29-04-2009 12:55PM

She needs to go to a doctor.

LegacyUser · 29-04-2009 01:18PM

Cuddlesworth wrote: »

She needs to go to a doctor.

+1

Old ex of mine used to have this problem. She had a medical condition which resulted in internal scarring etc. so she knew what was causing it.

Get her to talk to her doc.

AARRRGH · 29-04-2009 01:34PM

She might have 'vaginaitis' (probably spelt wrong) which is where a psychological problem causes the vagina to not fully relax.

Has she had this problem with other boyfriends?

Is she a little bit messed up in the head, e.g. very low self esteem, history of abuse, or something like that?

Beruthiel · 29-04-2009 01:38PM

Get her off to the GP for a check up.

Too big

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