"Wistful soul"

Hi, going unregged for this one because Im a little shy about this topic.

I always seem to be unlucky in love all do I feel I have a lot of love to give and I have a pinning for having someone who I could love and who would love me. And every girl I get involved with it takes me ages to get over them. Im still not over my last ex.

I couldnt get my head around what was wrong with me so I decided to take an online personality test and I was classsed as a "Wistful Soul". See below for more detail.

About Wistful Soul
You're someone who doesn't have much luck in the
romance department. You've got such a lot of
love to give but it keeps getting lost in
transit. You probably think it was about time
that you had your share of romance. But if you
were lucky in love, would you really be happy?
Have you ever thought that maybe part of you
actually enjoys pining for the one you love..?
If you really want your fair share of love,
perhaps you need to set your sights on a more
realistic object of affection?

Your Emotions
You are a deeply emotional person. So sometimes
you cant help feeling disappointed and
frustrated when things don't go your way in
affairs of the heart. Loneliness is a real
demon. Maybe you feel you deserve some more love
in your life. Right now you may be feeling abit
fragile and disillusioned by love. But remember,
there's plenty more fish in the sea.. You never
know what's waiting round the corner...

Perceptions
The world can be a very lonely place when love
isn't going the way you'd like. You'd like
nothing than to just feel completely relaxed and
comfortable in love. It would beat all the
heartache you seem to put yourself through. Your
choice of animal shows an inate kindness and a
playful spirit. You like to be open and
communicative with your lover.

Aspirations
You're a real romantic at heart. Sometimes you
actually quite enjoy a spot of heartache. Pining
for the one you love can be good for the soul
and for the creative spirit! The physical side
of love is essential to you. Touching really
helps you to connect with the one you love. You
dream of being reunited with the one you love.
And you're a really social animal. Its really
important to you to be with someone who makes
you laugh. Having fun is what keeps the magic
alive. Once the spark of passion has died down,
this is what will truly endure...


So im looking for help on how to over come this problem. I have no problem being romantic and everything positive about being a "wistful soul", my problem lies in the negative side of this personality...How do I stop this.?