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Nuala O'Faolain...

  • 15-04-2008 10:46AM
    #1
    kelly1
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    Hello all,

    I just listened to a very sad an moving interview with Nuala on the Marian Finucane program.

    She has terminal cancer and she finds the prospect of dying very depressing and bleak. All she has is her memories and knowledge and she believes this will all disappear when she dies. She doesn't believe in an "afterlife" or the Christian God. As she said herself she finds herself insignificant in a massive universe. Pod cast is at:

    http://www.rte.ie/podcasts/2008/pc/pod-v-120408-40m53s-marianfinucane.mp3

    I would urge everyone on this forum to pray for her conversion and repentance. She was baptised as a child but lost her faith along the way. She finds the idea of God meaningless so what she needs now more than anything is a sense of hope. I pray to almighty God to grant her hope in Jesus Christ.

    God bless,
    Noel.


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  • #2
    Akrasia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 23,690 ✭✭✭✭Akrasia


    kelly1 wrote: »
    Hello all,

    I just listened to a very sad an moving interview with Nuala on the Marian Finucane program.

    She has terminal cancer and she finds the prospect of dying very depressing and bleak. All she has is her memories and knowledge and she believes this will all disappear when she dies. She doesn't believe in an "afterlife" or the Christian God. As she said herself she finds herself insignificant in a massive universe. Pod cast is at:

    http://www.rte.ie/podcasts/2008/pc/pod-v-120408-40m53s-marianfinucane.mp3

    I would urge everyone on this forum to pray for her conversion and repentance. She was baptised as a child but lost her faith along the way. She finds the idea of God meaningless so what she needs now more than anything is a sense of hope. I pray to almighty God to grant her hope in Jesus Christ.

    God bless,
    Noel.
    She is a lesbian, finding god now might cause her a more anguish than remaining an atheist. Should she forsake her lover in the hope that she would get into heaven?

    Nell MccAferty, her partner, was on newstalk yesterday emotionally pleading for the right to euthanasia for terminally ill people so that they might die with dignity and the program was flooded with texts from christians opposing euthanasia for purely religious reasons.

    Why should an atheist be forced to suffer and die in agony because of a religious belief held by others?

    Chomsky(2017) on the Republican party

    "Has there ever been an organisation in human history that is dedicated, with such commitment, to the destruction of organised human life on Earth?"



  • #3
    Pompey Magnus
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    Akrasia wrote:
    She is a lesbian, finding god now might cause her a more anguish than remaining an atheist.

    Quite right, I think her current position of finding the concept of death as being bleak and depressing is far, far better than suddenly believing there is a God and then being in absolute fear and terror of the impending eternity of pain, torment and suffering awaiting her.
    Why should an atheist be forced to suffer and die in agony because of a religious belief held by others?

    I can't get my head around it to be honest. I am in favour of euthanasia but I would not dream of supporting a system which enforces euthanasia on anybody yet there is not a reciprocal respect from the religious community for other peoples point of view. Why do they have the right to interfere in a non believer's life? If they want to die a long a painful death then fair enough but I would like the choice to be given the same treatment that even an old dog would get in the circumstances please.

    Simiarly if a child of mine required treatment for severe burns which involves stem cell research I would like to have the choice to make use of this, they can let their child suffer in agony if that is what their good book tells them but I don't want to be forced to abide by their bizaare laws.


  • #4
    JimiTime
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    Akrasia wrote: »
    Why should an atheist be forced to suffer and die in agony because of a religious belief held by others?

    Well, i think thats a fairly naive view tbh. I personally don't think euthenasia is illegal because of religion. I think there are other things to think of. Children, bumpin off their parents/grandparents for insurance/inheritance. Or making the ill person feel that they are so much of a burden that they actually ask for it.

    I think there is alot to consider. I agree though, if it is in the law due to some lingering religious reason, Its not right. But i don't think it is.


  • #5
    JimiTime
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    Depeche_Mode wrote: »
    Simiarly if a child of mine required treatment for severe burns which involves stem cell research I would like to have the choice to make use of this

    So would I. However, using my limited forsight, I could see potential issues ethically. Ok, if a state allow abortion, then they can hardly condemn stem cell research. However, what about people harvesting babies for stem cell research when demand increases etc. I would certainly have no problem with the ends, the means however, defo no. Obviously again, though, if you see an unborn child as just a collection of cells, its no biggie. IMO though, we'll see stem cells, abortion and assisted suicide before too long. Then those who are for it, can use it, those who are against it, can refuse it. But mark my words, we'll also see some dodgy stuff happening with their introduction.


  • #6
    kelly1
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    Akrasia wrote: »
    She is a lesbian, finding god now might cause her a more anguish than remaining an atheist. Should she forsake her lover in the hope that she would get into heaven?
    Yes I know she had a romance will Nell but I don't think they're an item any more. I'm talking about a bigger issue though. Where is she going to spend eternity after she dies? She doesn't believe in an afterlife. She has no interest in God as she said in the interview. What she seems to be most concerned about is that she will cease to be and that all the knowledge and memories she has will disappear with her. I really do feel for her and her lack of faith has left her in a very dark place. Did you listen to the interview? She's very depressed about the future.
    Akrasia wrote: »
    Why should an atheist be forced to suffer and die in agony because of a religious belief held by others?
    :confused: Where is the suffering and agony going to come from?? She's suffering terrible anguish as it is. How would turning to God make things worse for her? She needs hope! Right now she has none, she's despairing totally.

    She needs to know that God is merciful and always ready to forgive regardless of how much we've sinned. She doesn't realize this and it's such a tragedy!! God help her!!!


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  • #7
    CerebralCortex
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    kelly1 wrote: »
    Yes I know she had a romance will Nell but I don't think they're an item any more. I'm talking about a bigger issue though. Where is she going to spend eternity after she dies? She doesn't believe in an afterlife. She has no interest in God as she said in the interview. What she seems to be most concerned about is that she will cease to be and that all the knowledge and memories she has will disappear with her. I really do feel for her and her lack of faith has left her in a very dark place. Did you listen to the interview? She's very depressed about the future.

    :confused: Where is the suffering and agony going to come from?? She's suffering terrible anguish as it is. How would turning to God make things worse for her? She needs hope! Right now she has none, she's despairing totally.

    :confused:

    1. She doesn't believe in god which she said.
    2. She has TERMINAL CANCER OF COURSE SHE IS DEPRESSED
    3. God can't help her thats quite obvious might have something to with his distinct lack of existence.


  • #8
    robindch
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    kelly1 wrote: »
    How would turning to God make things worse for her?
    By removing her self-respect? She could, after all, be somebody who views religion as something which replaces the certainty of death with a false hope of life.

    And regardless of whether or not she believes what christians believe will stop her from dying, all of her memories and thoughts certainly will be lost to humanity. And for a thoughtful person, that is a pain which religion doesn't really do much to relieve.


  • #9
    Pompey Magnus
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    JimiTime wrote: »
    So would I. However, using my limited forsight, I could see potential issues ethically. Ok, if a state allow abortion, then they can hardly condemn stem cell research. However, what about people harvesting babies for stem cell research when demand increases etc. I would certainly have no problem with the ends, the means however, defo no. Obviously again, though, if you see an unborn child as just a collection of cells, its no biggie. IMO though, we'll see stem cells, abortion and assisted suicide before too long. Then those who are for it, can use it, those who are against it, can refuse it. But mark my words, we'll also see some dodgy stuff happening with their introduction.

    There may be dodgy practices which will result from the legalisation of stem cell research, I can't say for sure that there won't be, I still don't think this is reason enough to halt scientific progress. After all I presume you would not be in favour of making organ transplant illegal, after all we know for a fact that there are people exploiting poor people in the third world to extract their organs. The good however far outweighs the bad and I feel that stem cells would be the same.


  • #10
    kelly1
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    CerebralCortex wrote: »
    1. She doesn't believe in god which she said.
    OK and your point is?
    CerebralCortex wrote: »
    2. She has TERMINAL CANCER OF COURSE SHE IS DEPRESSED
    The point is that the greater a person's faith, the less concerned they should be about death. For the person who loves God, death is the beginning of a better life and a reward for faithful service to God.
    CerebralCortex wrote: »
    3. God can't help her thats quite obvious might have something to with his distinct lack of existence.
    I'm not talking about a cure! It's time for her to reconcile herself with God. How acts towards God between now the time she dies will determine her eternal fate. Kinda important really...


  • #11
    kelly1
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    robindch wrote: »
    By removing her self-respect? She could, after all, be somebody who views religion as something which replaces the certainty of death with a false hope of life.
    So someone who turns to God has to give up self-respect? What a load of rubbish!
    robindch wrote: »
    And regardless of whether or not she believes what christians believe will stop her from dying, all of her memories and thoughts certainly will be lost to humanity. And for a thoughtful person, that is a pain which religion doesn't really do much to relieve.
    Whose loss are you concerned about? I'm concerned with the salvation of her soul! Memories etc don't really a whole lot in the grand schema of things.


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  • #12
    kelly1
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    Depeche_Mode wrote: »
    Quite right, I think her current position of finding the concept of death as being bleak and depressing is far, far better than suddenly believing there is a God and then being in absolute fear and terror of the impending eternity of pain, torment and suffering awaiting her.
    There really is nothing to fear. All she has to do is turn to God and trust in His mercy and her sins will be forgiven. All she needs to be saved is a genuine contrite confession.


  • #13
    Akrasia
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    kelly1 wrote: »
    The point is that the greater a person's faith, the less concerned they should be about death. For the person who loves God, death is the beginning of a better life and a reward for faithful service to God.
    Um, for an atheist, death is literally nothing to us. There is far less to be concerned about than whether or not you've been a good enough christian to avoid hell. (according to some christians, only very very few people will actually get in and there is no clear concensus on what the criteria for salvation actually are. You're faith is just as much in yourself (your own interpretation of god) as it is in god himself.)
    I'm not talking about a cure! It's time for her to reconcile herself with God. How acts towards God between now the time she dies will determine her eternal fate. Kinda important really...
    I think she probably has better things to do with the last moments of her life than praying to an imaginary friend and hoping for an afterlife that doesn't exist.

    Chomsky(2017) on the Republican party

    "Has there ever been an organisation in human history that is dedicated, with such commitment, to the destruction of organised human life on Earth?"



  • #14
    JCB
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    robindch wrote: »
    By removing her self-respect? She could, after all, be somebody who views religion as something which replaces the certainty of death with a false hope of life.

    Interesting, so anyone who changes their mind on their religious belief (or anything for that matter) loses their self-respect? Are you seriously posing that question?
    robindch wrote:
    And regardless of whether or not she believes what christians believe will stop her from dying, all of her memories and thoughts certainly will be lost to humanity. And for a thoughtful person, that is a pain which religion doesn't really do much to relieve.

    If you are an atheist of course. I don't think anyone was suggesting she should fake a belief in God. Belief in God does relieve those pains.

    Besides whether you believe or not, it doesn't change the status of God anyway.


  • #15
    JimiTime
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    Depeche_Mode wrote: »
    . After all I presume you would not be in favour of making organ transplant illegal, after all we know for a fact that there are people exploiting poor people in the third world to extract their organs. The good however far outweighs the bad and I feel that stem cells would be the same.

    Hmmm. I'm afraid, from a principled point of view, that doesn't cut it for me. Thankfully i've never had to look into the 'organs trade', but if what you say is factual, then i would certainly say that could be held up as a reason why stem cells from children who were killed in the womb, and euthenasia should be seriously re-considered. Then i would seriously lok into tightening the net on the organs trade, not sure about stopping it, I'm too ignorant of its workings at this moment in time.

    i'm assuming you don't follow the death penalty reasoning of 'if it saves even 1 innocent person, the the abolition of the death penalty is a good thing'?


  • #16
    CerebralCortex
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    kelly1 wrote: »
    OK and your point is?

    The point is that the greater a person's faith, the less concerned they should be about death. For the person who loves God, death is the beginning of a better life and a reward for faithful service to God.

    I'm not talking about a cure! It's time for her to reconcile herself with God. How acts towards God between now the time she dies will determine her eternal fate. Kinda important really...

    No its not god doesn't exist.


  • #17
    CerebralCortex
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    kelly1 wrote: »
    There really is nothing to fear. All she has to do is turn to God and trust in His mercy and her sins will be forgiven. All she needs to be saved is a genuine contrite confession.

    Showing how infinitely petty your god is. He couldn't just accept her for the person he made her to be no? Would that hurt "his" pride? Oh wait a second he doesn't exist.


  • #18
    JCB
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    CerebralCortex wrote: »
    No its not god doesn't exist.
    I see you're on a roll here, so I hate to interrupt but.....

    You think God doesn't exist because any evidence present thus far has not exceeded your belief threshold. Some disagree.

    Unless you've been to the end of the world and back to confirm otherwise, it is legitimate to profess a belief in God without being ridiculed.


  • #19
    robindch
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    kelly1 wrote: »
    So someone who turns to God has to give up self-respect? What a load of rubbish!
    That's not what I said. All I pointed out is that she could be somebody for whom changing a life-long belief causes her to lose self-respect. For example, imagine how all the world's christians would feel if it was Mohammad who descended from heaven in a golden chariot and hauled up outside the White House?

    That's not "a load of rubbish", but just simply an attempt to show how she might view things differently from you.
    kelly1 wrote: »
    Whose loss are you concerned about? I'm concerned with the salvation of her soul! Memories etc don't really a whole lot in the grand schema of things.
    When you believe that there is no such thing as a soul, and that the ideas of "salvation" and staying alive after you die are pious lies, then feelings and memories are all that's left. In this case, I think it's really quite reasonable that she's depressed that these are being lost.

    Can you see where I'm coming from?


  • #20
    JCB
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    robindch wrote: »
    That's not what I said. All I pointed out is that she could be somebody for whom changing a life-long belief causes her to lose self-respect. For example, imagine how all the world's christians would feel if it was Mohammad who descended from heaven in a golden chariot and hauled up outside the White House?

    People make forward looking decisions, otherwise people confine themselves to the mistakes of the past.
    Example: Someone takes a wrong turn and falls into a pit of quicksand.
    Another person offers them a lending hand out of the quicksand.
    Should that person not accept the lending hand because they may lose their self respect?
    People make decisions and often the wrong ones--, but unless you think that people aren't capable of making what they think is the right decision for themselves given the circumstance in front of them,-- no-one should be limited by their past choices or lose their self respect.


    On a separate note, I do acknowledge that for an atheist, the run up to death can be a depressing and scary experience and I am not trying to take from that.


  • #21
    robindch
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    JCB wrote: »
    Interesting, so anyone who changes their mind on their religious belief (or anything for that matter) loses their self-respect? Are you seriously posing that question?
    "somebody" is not "everybody" -- see the response above!
    JCB wrote: »
    If you are an atheist of course. I don't think anyone was suggesting she should fake a belief in God. Belief in God does relieve those pains.
    It certainly does. And likewise, if I believe I'm going to I will win the lottery tomorrow, it's superficially reasonable to spend all my cash today, isn't it? Or is it?
    JCB wrote: »
    Besides whether you believe or not, it doesn't change the status of God anyway.
    Again, agreed; and your comment works the other way too -- the existence or otherwise of competing deities like Allah, Ram, Jehovah, Thor and so on, are unrelated to whether or not you believe they exist. Have you seriously considered the possibility that you might be bowing down to the wrong deity, and thereby irritating the right one?


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  • #22
    JCB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 306 ✭✭JCB


    robindch wrote: »
    "somebody" is not "everybody" -- see the response above!

    Do you consider poor Nuala's situation unique? Is this not an experience you may have to face too?
    robindch wrote:
    It certainly does. And likewise, if I believe I'm going to I will win the lottery tomorrow, it's superficially reasonable to spend all my cash today, isn't it? Or is it?

    Interesting, equating religious belief to financial wrecklessness.:pac: You seem to think that religious belief equates to losing something.
    robindch wrote:
    Again, agreed; and your comment works the other way too -- the existence or otherwise of competing deities like Allah, Ram, Jehovah, Thor and so on, are unrelated to whether or not you believe they exist. Have you seriously considered the possibility that you might be bowing down to the wrong deity, and thereby irritating the right one?

    :rolleyes: Which again makes no difference to whether God exists or not


  • #23
    robindch
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    JCB wrote: »
    Example: Someone takes a wrong turn and falls into a pit of quicksand. Another person offers them a lending hand out of the quicksand. Should that person not accept the lending hand because they may lose their self respect?
    In that simple example, yes, of course that's what most people would do. But where personal politics are concerned, you know as well as I do that people won't back down even if it's in their best interests to do so.

    Can you really imagine JC or the pope becoming muslims if Mohammad turned up as above, or Brian Cowan suggesting that Bertie was a fraud?
    JCB wrote: »
    the run up to death can be a depressing and scary experience and I am not trying to take from that.
    Strange. In my own limited experience, it seems that christians are more worried about death than us atheists. Perhaps it's just that there are more christians about and they flap more.


  • #24
    DublinWriter
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    kelly1 wrote: »
    I just listened to a very sad an moving interview with Nuala on the Marian Finucane program.
    I heard it too and had very mixed emotions about it.

    My Mum died last year of a brain tumour at 62 and always had a strong faith in the Catholic Church. I believe it was this faith that made her never cry once and laugh about things and remain positive right to the very end.

    While I myself renounced my Catholic/Christian roots many years ago, at this stage in my grieving I'm only beginning to look at the experience objectively and I am suddenly noticing how her faith carried her through.

    This may sound very harsh, and I do realise that Nuala O'Faolain is most probably in a lot of distress right now, but I found her attitude very self-indulgent, whingy and mawkish.

    I'm not saying she should stay quiet about her illness, but many suffer a lot more than she has and don't have the platform she has to complain about it. We may have a third-world A&E service, but Palliative care in this country is second-to-none.

    Again, I felt quite guilty thinking the above thoughts when I heard her interview, but I still felt a need to express them.


  • #25
    robindch
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    JCB wrote: »
    Do you consider poor Nuala's situation unique? Is this not an experience you may have to face too?
    In all probability, I'm going to die at some point and I've little doubt that I'm going to be cheesed off about it, unless I'm suffering from some terrible disease in which case it's likely to be a relief.

    However, on my death bed, I would hope that my brain would continue working to the extent that I could continue to see that the fundamental belief at the core of christianity -- that I won't be tossed into a lake of burning sulfer if I believe that the deistic counterpart of a first-century Palestinian carpenter created the universe and then killed himself in a grisly blood-bargain he struck with himself -- is fundamentally preposterous.
    JCB wrote: »
    Interesting, equating religious belief to financial wrecklessness.
    No, I was equating action based upon unsubstantiated belief in one area with action based upon unsubstantiated belief in another area!
    JCB wrote: »
    You seem to think that religious belief equates to losing something.
    In the sense that I've quoted in previous posts, yes, one can lose one's self-respect -- intellectual and otherwise -- which I'd imagine is really quite important in one's dying days.


  • #26
    JCB
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    robindch wrote: »
    In that simple example, yes, of course that's what most people would do. But where personal politics are concerned, you know as well as I do that people won't back down even if it's in their best interests to do so.

    It's so sad, so many deaths/quarrels could be otherwise saved.:(

    robindch wrote:
    In my own limited experience, it seems that christians are more worried about death than us atheists. Perhaps it's just that there are more christians about and they flap more.

    Interesting point. Personally I think that it's more to do with old age tbh. I wouldn't imagine many of the atheists in Ireland are over the age of 60, when realities of death begin to kick in.

    Actually back on topic, I remember Nuala saying that the thing that mattered most (or words to that effect) was 'passion'. She unashamedly withdrew that and said that 'Health' and I think 'reflection' was much more important.

    I'd imagine that as we get older our priorities change.


  • #27
    JCB
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    To answer your points worth responding to...
    No, I was equating action based upon unsubstantiated belief in one area with action based upon unsubstantiated belief in another area!

    It's funny actually, to go back to your lottery example, the snag is that you presuppose that someone automatically spends all their money with the promise of the ticket the next day. How can you assume this? The only loss incurred is the price of the ticket.

    In the sense that I've quoted in previous posts, yes, one can lose one's self-respect -- intellectual and otherwise -- which I'd imagine is really quite important in one's dying days.

    You've done it again, losing self-respect = religious belief, why do you keep saying this? It implies people are unable to make reasonable decisions. Then again if you think that people would automatically spend all their money based on a lottery ticket, then I guess I shouldn't be surprised.


  • #28
    seamusob
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    Listening to Nuala O F was difficult for me. I had a very close shave with a terminal illness recently and I am not out of the woods by a long shot. I had mixed feelings about the interview. She in a very dark and painful place and I hope that she can find laughter again before she is gone.

    Death is something that people these days think about less and less. It may have something to do with the change in family sizes i.e. they are smaller now and as children we don't see close family members dying, or it could have something to do with materialism, I don't know, but whatever it is we are less able to cope with death. A stunning set of photographs was published recently dealing with how close life and death are. Have a look here.

    I do not believe in God, and neither do I feel that the universe revolves around me, I am unimportant in the grand scale of things. If it turns out that when I die I end up in the clouds with angels twanging away on harps I'll laugh my arse off at the absurdity of it - that would be fine. If there is nothing then there is nothing, as terrifying as that is it also acts as a universal kick up the hole to me to try to change this world for the better as there is no other.


  • #29
    JCB
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    seamusob wrote: »
    Listening to Nuala O F was difficult for me. I had a very close shave with a terminal illness recently and I am not out of the woods by a long shot.

    So sorry to hear this and I hope that you will get better soon :)
    I do not believe in God, and neither do I feel that the universe revolves around me, I am unimportant in the grand scale of things. If it turns out that when I die I end up in the clouds with angels twanging away on harps I'll laugh my arse off at the absurdity of it - that would be fine.

    Angels twanging away on harps :D

    Disney has such an effect on our lives :D


  • #30
    robindch
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    JCB wrote: »
    I wouldn't imagine many of the atheists in Ireland are over the age of 60, when realities of death begin to kick in.
    It's interesting that you seem to believe what's referred to as the "rational-choice" argument for religion which isn't believed to be very accurate description. I'd agree that there are far more atheists in the younger generations, but that's because atheism is now socially acceptable (mostly), whereas in previous generations, it was verboten to be irreligious.
    JCB wrote: »
    Actually back on topic, I remember Nuala saying that the thing that mattered most (or words to that effect) was 'passion'. She unashamedly withdrew that and said that 'Health' and I think 'reflection' was much more important.
    I didn't listen to the interview myself, but I disagree with her about downgrading passion -- personally, the world would be an infinitely dull place if it were full of people who valued endless health-obsessed reflection, rather than passion :)
    JCB wrote: »
    I'd imagine that as we get older our priorities change.
    Yes, they do, and as death approaches, one's interest in preserving one's life's work seems to become important to many people, hence Nuala's concern.
    JCB wrote: »
    To answer your points worth responding to...
    Miaow :)
    JCB wrote: »
    It's funny actually, to go back to your lottery example, the snag is that you presuppose that someone automatically spends all their money with the promise of the ticket the next day. How can you assume this? The only loss incurred is the price of the ticket.
    I was referring to the case of somebody spending all their cash (metaphor for spending all their life) with the expectation that they would win something tomorrow (not dying). Putting all one's cash onto a single bet is a bad idea, as any gambler will tell you.
    JCB wrote: »
    You've done it again, losing self-respect = religious belief, why do you keep saying this? It implies people are unable to make reasonable decisions. Then again if you think that people would automatically spend all their money based on a lottery ticket, then I guess I shouldn't be surprised.
    Pfff, don't you read anything I write? :)

    Last time now -- in my earlier post(s), I am saying that FOR NUALA ALONE, it MIGHT HAPPEN that SHE IS somebody who views religion as something which replaces the certainty of death with a false hope of life. And IN HER CASE, that might cause her to lose her self-respect. I am not saying that this applies to everybody, or even very many people; I am saying that it MAY apply to NUALA ALONE.

    Capeesh?


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    Soul Winner
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    kelly1 wrote: »
    Hello all,

    I just listened to a very sad an moving interview with Nuala on the Marian Finucane program.

    She has terminal cancer and she finds the prospect of dying very depressing and bleak. All she has is her memories and knowledge and she believes this will all disappear when she dies. She doesn't believe in an "afterlife" or the Christian God. As she said herself she finds herself insignificant in a massive universe. Pod cast is at:

    http://www.rte.ie/podcasts/2008/pc/pod-v-120408-40m53s-marianfinucane.mp3

    I would urge everyone on this forum to pray for her conversion and repentance. She was baptised as a child but lost her faith along the way. She finds the idea of God meaningless so what she needs now more than anything is a sense of hope. I pray to almighty God to grant her hope in Jesus Christ.

    God bless,
    Noel.

    In situations like this Noel it would be very difficult, nay impossible, to do anything worthwhile, especially because she finds the idea of God a meaningless one. Did she request prayers in her interview? (Don’t want to listen to it to be honest) You can't save people who do not want to be saved. Sorry if this sounds harsh but I find it vainglorious to pray for people who don't want you to pray for them. Let her ask Jesus to help her if she wants to. He’s only a word away for those who would but ask Him. If she doesn't want to do that then that is her choice. If she is right about God then she has nothing to worry about has she? Dead is just dead. Either she and people like her are the ones that should be pitied, or we are, for being concerned about their eternal salvation.


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