What age did you lose your virginity?

darkman2 · 21-01-2008 01:53AM

I cant count the number of my friends who thought losing their virginity so young was great but a few weeks later, miraculously matured, had serious reservations about it. I mean quite upset - like they had allowed themselves to be violated in some way (when your virginity is gone so is one of lifes held secrets for most of your young days). Many do regret it when its not with somone they have true feelings for esspecially if the sex was dire (according to them).........apparently there is nothing worse then your first time being disappointing. Luckily I dont have to worry. Im still a virgin and in fact im proud of it. So many times ive been tempted and asked but somehow (despite drunkeness) managed to withstand the pressure. Im happier for it - I can gaurentee you. When I think of what I could have done and with some girls whilst drunk! Im still very young and want the circumstances to be better then simply being drunk and doing it with some girl I dont really know and that Im unlikely to maintain a relationship with. Maybe thats just me but I do feel good about it unlike others whom were so bloody eager in Secondary school - so much so they deeply reget it now and thats an understatement - one guy got a girl preggers unintentionally at the age of 16. Just one consequence.

pisslips · 21-01-2008 02:57AM

Rattlehead_ie wrote: »

+ 1 for 17 - 18. I'm gona show my stupidity today as say the 12 or less ppl have to be taking the piss right?? I mean..................... <<scratches head>>

Hmmm....I dunno, I mean I've met one girl before who said she lost it at twelve.Now if you think about how many people voted and the anonymity of it, it seems possible that some are telling the truth.

randylonghorn · 21-01-2008 04:43AM

pisslips wrote: »

Hmmm....I dunno, I mean I've met one girl before who said she lost it at twelve.Now if you think about how many people voted and the anonymity of it, it seems possible that some are telling the truth.

I'm hoping most of them are taking the piss. I'm afraid a couple may not be ...

JustHalf · 21-01-2008 05:36AM

I'm still a virgin at 25. Though I would be rather pissed if I am still one in five years, I highly doubt that the women of this world will allow such a travesty to come to pass.

thefinalstage · 21-01-2008 05:38AM

JustHalf wrote: »

I'm still a virgin at 25. Though I would be rather pissed if I am still one in five years, I highly doubt that the women of this world will allow such a travesty to come to pass.

I'm sure they would survive.

BTW: Hookers for the win/aids!

Dudess · 21-01-2008 10:08AM

pisslips wrote: »

I've met one girl before who said she lost it at twelve.

Oh that is so horribly fuked up. When I was 12 I started getting into clothes and experimenting with make-up but I was still barely out of dolls stage.
Maybe some of the people who are in the 11-12 category were sexually abused.

thefinalstage · 21-01-2008 10:27AM

Dudess wrote: »

Oh that is so horribly fuked up. When I was 12 I started getting into clothes and experimenting with make-up but I was still barely out of dolls stage.
Maybe some of the people who are in the 11-12 category were sexually abused.

Or sat on their dolls.

kev_s88 · 21-01-2008 11:05AM

im 19 and im still waiting.

and i have no problem waiting.its not that im looking for "the one", i justhave no interest in going out and getting it over and done with for the sake of doing it

Bitz n Pieces · 21-01-2008 11:36AM

I lost my virginity when I was 14. It wasn't a good experience, I regretted it after and I didn't have sex again until I was 16. I lost my virginity on a one night stand, I was drunk, they guy thought I was 17. I still don't know why I did it.

Dudess · 21-01-2008 11:43AM

For some unknown reason I was skimming through an interview with Shayne Ward :rolleyes: the other day and he was asked this very question. His reply was "15 or 16. I wasn't an early starter at all." 15 or 16 late? Nice.

Tar.Aldarion · 21-01-2008 11:47AM

Dudess wrote: »

Oh that is so horribly fuked up. When I was 12 I started getting into clothes and experimenting with make-up but I was still barely out of dolls stage.
Maybe some of the people who are in the 11-12 category were sexually abused.

That is only our recent social convention. No other society really tjhought like this. Nature gives girls a period at an age for a reason.

togster · 21-01-2008 11:54AM

I know someone who lost hers when she just turned 13. She is a well balanced individual and says she just wanted to and she did. She wasn't abused, is a happy well rounded person. She doesn't regret it at all.

Riesen_Meal · 21-01-2008 12:00PM

I was 15, all I know is her name was Julie, and she was from Blanchardstown.....

Kinda shouldve waited I suppose, I had a long term girlfriend a yr or so after.....

Ah well!

Dudess · 21-01-2008 12:23PM

togster wrote: »

I know someone who lost hers when she just turned 13. She is a well balanced individual and says she just wanted to and she did. She wasn't abused, is a happy well rounded person. She doesn't regret it at all.

People develop at different rates I suppose.

Mad_Max · 21-01-2008 05:20PM

Dudess wrote: »

If there's no sexual attraction there's no "wet hole"!

lmao, that explains a few things

randylonghorn · 22-01-2008 02:41AM

Tar.Aldarion wrote: »

That is only our recent social convention. No other society really thought like this. Nature gives girls a period at an age for a reason.

12 might not have been considered way out of line when people were usually dead by 35 / 40, when life was a hell of a lot harsher, and kids had to grow up a lot more quickly. Even at that, I think most societies would have considered 12 somewhat young ...

Certainly, nowadays, it is very young, even allowing that some kids mature far faster than others (I mean mentally / emotionally, rather than physically).

That said, I would see a big difference between, say, a man of 20 with all his mental faculties having sex with a 12 or 13 year old, and two kids of that age "experimenting" with one another. I wouldn't be thrilled about either scenario, but I would argue that they are very different issues.

Jigsaw · 22-01-2008 03:08AM

Lost the auld virginity at 17. It was very nice. I then had a long term relationship during which I became very good at sex. That, combined with porn means that any woman who wants to get down to it with me is gonna have a good time. PMs welcome. I don't have sex as often as some but when I do it, mountains are moved. ***

***This can neither be confirmed nor denied.

lolipops · 08-02-2008 11:31PM

im 15 and still a virgin.. i want to wait for the right person, i dont think im emotionally mature enough to do it yet. id like to wait until im 17 or so. :rolleyes:

Kold · 09-02-2008 12:10AM

lolipops wrote: »

im 15 and still a virgin.. i want to wait for the right person, i dont think im emotionally mature enough to do it yet. id like to wait until im 17 or so. :rolleyes:

Pics of hymen or you're a 40 yr old slut.

lolipops · 09-02-2008 12:42AM

Kold wrote: »

im a perverted weirdo look at me! quote]

lolipops · 09-02-2008 12:44AM

Kold wrote: »

im a perverted weirdo look at me.

erm i dont need to prove myself to you lol and why they hell would someone take pictures of their hymen and send them to some potential child mincing pedofile who is 40 and lives with their mom.
well hmmmmmmmm?

Kold · 09-02-2008 12:48AM

lolipops wrote: »

Kold wrote: »

im a perverted weirdo look at me! quote]

Da'g can't believe I'm still letting that slip.

tampopo · 09-02-2008 01:58AM

I lost my virginity to another virgin, which was quite cute. First time wasn't....'brilliant', it took till the third attempt to get the hang of it. And that was after several attempts over the previous few weeks!!! Innocent times!!

randylonghorn · 09-02-2008 02:06AM

tampopo wrote: »

... the hang ...

That was probably the main problem ...

09-02-2008 02:52AM

Was 14!We broke up two weeks later, then she faked pregnancy!:(

randylonghorn · 09-02-2008 03:04AM

At 14?!!

Lol ... sounds like something that would happen to you all right, Dazzler!

(jeez, that must have been a fright though!

)

09-02-2008 03:24AM

randylonghorn wrote: »

At 14?!!

Lol ... sounds like something that would happen to you all right, Dazzler!

(jeez, that must have been a fright though! )

She only told me when she found out I was going to tell my parents.I didn't have sex for 3 years after that.

randylonghorn · 09-02-2008 03:39AM

Deleted User wrote: »

She only told me when she found out I was going to tell my parents.I didn't have sex for 3 years after that.

Jeez, I can see why!

I was going to say "little bitch" but then again I suppose she was very young too ...

Peared · 09-02-2008 03:40AM

Guy I know lost his on holiday. All fine and dandy til few weeks later hes back and gets a phone call and its from a DJ with a surprise person who wants to get in touch with him. He says fine, calls around mates and family, tells them hes gonna be on the radio. Takes the call in work, tis yer woman "Im preggers". Live on the feckin radio.

Dunno how old he was but hey, thats a good virginity losing story.

mikeruurds · 09-02-2008 09:17AM

24... to my wife

We chose to wait. Each to his/her own.

What age did you lose your virginity?

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