Question for the ladies.

sunzz · 07-07-2006 11:57AM #1

Do People often take over confidence as a sign of cockiness, and just wondering if many girls/women like this trait?

Dragan · 07-07-2006 12:00PM

sunzz wrote:

I would consider myself to be a good-looking guy (am 21) Pm f you want pics

And your wondering why people think your cocky????

In all seriousness , most girls i know will say that they wouldn't go out with a cocky guy.....doesn't seem to stop them though!!!

Beruthiel · 07-07-2006 12:04PM

sunzz wrote:

random birds

Your problems starts here

sunzz · 07-07-2006 12:05PM

Beru so basically your saying if you seen an attractive girl in the night club you wouldn't go up talking to them or their group of friends?

Zillah · 07-07-2006 12:09PM

Wait... so whats the topic? Are you just in the mood for getting abused or something?

Dragan · 07-07-2006 12:12PM

Zillah wrote:

Wait... so whats the topic? Are you just in the mood for getting abused or something?

Yeah, the poor chap has kinda left himself open for a lot of abuse alright!!!

Beruthiel · 07-07-2006 12:13PM

sunzz wrote:

Beru so basically your saying if you seen an attractive girl in the night club you wouldn't go up talking to them or their group of friends?

well, that went right over your head...

oh
and to answer your question, I can safely say, I've never done that

Zillah · 07-07-2006 12:14PM

You lie!

Beruthiel · 07-07-2006 12:17PM

Zillah wrote:

You lie!

A girl came up to me once...
Now that was a surprise

sunzz · 07-07-2006 12:18PM

Okay edited as to not sound like a cock:D
Told you tho it's in my nature

Hobbes · 07-07-2006 12:22PM

pm for pics

Just as well you edited it.

Kiera · 07-07-2006 12:22PM

sunzz wrote:

Okay edited as to not sound like a cock:D
Told you tho it's in my nature

You’ll probably grow out of it, with any luck.

sunzz · 07-07-2006 12:23PM

beru, sorry did go over my head

Dragan · 07-07-2006 12:26PM

sunzz wrote:

Okay edited as to not sound like a cock:D
Told you tho it's in my nature

#

Well, there are two kinds of dudes who are cocks....there are the desperately wanna be cocks because they think it's cool. These poor souls are normally best left alone.

Then there are the actual, genuine cocks who treat people like ****....these poor fools can normally be found face down outside whatever club there were in after some dude gets sick of their ****.

So which one would you be then?

07-07-2006 12:26PM

Depends how the guy is, if he can pull it off then its charming to a certain extent if its overly so in an obnoxious way then its a turn off!!!

EWheelChair · 07-07-2006 12:32PM

lol grom, you really are an idiot.

08-07-2006 07:33AM

Confident is good, over-confident not.

LadyJ · 08-07-2006 03:26PM

OP,you should try and reaise that there is a difference between being cocky
and being confident.

You can be confident,without being or seeming cocky.

So do that.

spurious · 08-07-2006 03:29PM

Over-confidence, or 'cockiness' comes across to me as trying too hard and trying too hard is definitely not attractive.

Once someone can make me laugh, they're half way there. Self-deprecating humour always a winner in my book.

Doomspell · 08-07-2006 04:38PM

Don't be cocky be...funny, I personally don't care if you are 6ft have a fecking hot body, can swim,dance,sail,do everything* Its your personality that I care about, oh and humour is a big thing for me!

*though that helps........ALOT!!!!

AngryBadger · 08-07-2006 06:32PM

I think the biggest problem with cockiness/confidence, and all that jazz is that people worry about it too much. If you're confident then you're confident, you could spend your entire lifke trying to ensure that everyone realises your confident and not just cocky, but you'll never get everyone to think that, and tbh if you're that concerned about it you're obviously not confident or cocky at all.

Faith · 08-07-2006 06:44PM

Cockiness and arrogance are two of the biggest turn offs in the world for me.

Question for the ladies.

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