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Anyone else dislike/hate Christmas?

  • 02-12-2025 11:06PM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭


    Shops full of Chinese Christmas crap, the same songs on the radio every year, domestic violence going off the richter scale, consumerism running wild etc, etc..…

    I mean what's not to hate about the Christmas season?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,399 ✭✭✭T-Maxx


    Indeed. Time for a reset.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,536 ✭✭✭gipi


    Not fond of it - always hated the "enforced gaiety" at work Christmas parties and buying presents for family I hardly know (and being Irish, we could never ask for something we might want!).



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 4,318 ✭✭✭StevenToast


    My kids get a kick out of it so I am happy to suck it up and go along with it ...

    As I suspect most people do.....

    "SUBSCRIBE TO BOARDS YOU TIGHT CÙNT".....Plato 400 B.C



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 23,747 ✭✭✭✭dxhound2005


    It starts earlier every year, don't mention the C word, I had to work in a shop one year and it did me head in. etc. etc.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39 PatMcGoo


    Sure it's only once a year, you get to eat turkey and pull crackers, what's not to like!



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 37,362 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    Must be the most overused saying this time of the year!

    If it started earlier every year based on people saying it starts earlier every year, we should be starting it around March or April by now.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,399 ✭✭✭T-Maxx


    Well in fairness it definetly started before Halloween this year. I mean WTF Christmas shopping in October??



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,512 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    The Brown Thomas Christmas has opened the 3rd Thursday in August for about 15 years now and every year it blows people's minds.

    Similar the shops have Tubs of sweets and selection boxes in September for about 20 years now.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,429 ✭✭✭deandean


    No.

    You're on your own, ya auld Grinch ya.

    Buy a present for someone you don't like and make their day.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭Cyclingtourist


    They will feel obliged to buy me one and then they will hate me for making them spend money.

    At least if you confine your present giving to children they won't feel obliged to return the favour.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,161 ✭✭✭taxAHcruel


    Not particularly bothered. Or at least by the bits you list.

    Shops are always full of some cheap tat - Valentines, Paddys Day, Easter, Halloween…

    Radio is always the same songs over and over. Consumerism never stops. Domestic violence is ever present in society.

    So noticing any of these in particular at Christmas rather than noticing/ignoring year round - might be more a you thing?

    I quite enjoy some aspects of Christmas and New Year. But we avoid following blindly after tradition too. Never once did the Santa thing with our kids for example. Though 2 of our 4 kids are over 10 now. Nor any desire to have Turkey. We keep geese at home all year to slaughter instead.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 548 ✭✭✭New Scottman


    the banks close for three working days every Christmas and yet every year, loads of people ask what days they're open / closed

    [this year they're off Thursday 25th, Friday 26th and Monday 29th]



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,320 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    I don't dislike it as much since becoming self employed a few years ago. No more forced fun. I usually go back to work on the 27th now which suits me fine.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 446 ✭✭Charlo30


    I've no real interest in it. But I greatly appreciate the time off, as increasingly more and more people seem to have to work through most of it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 OrangeNinja


    Always have despised it even as a kid. Spent last Xmas with my daughter out in Perth and it was a breath of fresh air. No in your face or constant adds, music, talk about it on radio/TV, cheap tat everywhere etc… just spent a nice day cooking a dinner and going for a lovely walk in the evening.

    The amount of absolute idiots who go overboard here putting up their tree in November, going into debt buying gifts etc.. is truly pathetic.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭Cyclingtourist


    Don't get me wrong I'm all for the religious side of Christmas, Christianity after all can be viewed as a form of humanism. Also have no problem with the Santa myth and giving presents to young children.

    It's the adult excess and uncontrolled consumerism that's gotten out of hand.

    During every Christmas period there's an upsurge in home homicide whether within families/relationships or at house parties. The shops are full of tat and pullovers that only get worn one time in the year. The 'tradition' of pub crawls. The students at St. Pat's teacher training college in Drumcondra had theirs at the end of November.

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    Spilling out onto the road.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 783 ✭✭✭weadick


    In the line of work I'm in you see a different side to Christmas. Domestic violence does indeed go off the scale at this time of year. Its a nice time for children, but adults ruin it with greed and stupidity.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 1,305 ✭✭✭z80CPU
    Darth 8-bit


    Have the OP on ignore but yeah 💯 agree here.

    The fupping late late "toy" show on Friday heralds the start of the clusterfu(kery in earnest.

    Ending abruptly on 26th December.

    "Stephens day" - anyone still going to mass that day?? 😁



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 13,041 ✭✭✭✭Cluedo Monopoly


    I love Xmas but I think I really like the period from 26Dec-1Jan more than the run up. The prep for Xmas can be hard work but the week after is so relaxing and fun. The yearly reboot.

    What are they doing in the Hyacinth house?



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Arts Moderators, Sports Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 54,566 CMod ✭✭✭✭magicbastarder


    oh yay. another mug. i needed a mug.



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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 4,692 Mod ✭✭✭✭dory


    I had the increased traffic near shopping centres, the lines in grocery shops. The general panic. The pressure to take days off work when it's expensive to fly to the sun.

    I can't think of much I like tbh….the Christmas lights around the place I suppose. And that there's always chocolate lying around the place.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,749 ✭✭✭yagan


    I can normally block it out but this year we're looking after an elderly who loooooves being in the busiest shops at the busiest times for the buzz.

    Normally I grocery shop in my local Lidl/Aldi at quiet times but we took her to a Dunnes Store the other day and it really was overwhelming, and a lot of it was elderly people piling shyte into trolleys that you know will mostly get binned.

    I grew up in the 70/80s when most houses were broke and towns only turned on xmas lights two weeks before xmas day, so the months long retail xmas has has pretty much reduced the occasion to meaningless.

    I do enjoy quiet weeks after, but depending on where you live that also mean hearing scrambler bikes constantly until they're either confiscated or the rider ends up dead.

    I did work in retail once and xmas behind the till was actually fine as you're too busy to notice the nonsense.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,323 ✭✭✭Glaceon


    Me.

    When I grew up, Christmas was a December thing. Now it starts in August. The music drives me nuts. And the stress and expectations of it are too much for me. I'd be happy to just skip it to be honest.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭Cyclingtourist


    "Have the OP on ignore but yeah 💯 agree here."

    Putting someone on ignore because you disagree with them defeats the object of debate.

    I have only ever put someone on 'ignore' for personal abuse.

    But if you're reading this and agreeing 100% maybe you might reconsider.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,512 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    Some people put people on ignore because they find them annoying and they want to enjoy the internet a little more.

    They dont use the Internet/forums for debate.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 4,684 ✭✭✭thomil


    As someone without family, Christmas in general is pretty tough for me. I do still enjoy the holiday season in general, but Christmas Day itself is always a gut punch.

    Having said that, I absolutely love the lights everywhere, that extra bit of brightness in the darkest time of the year, especially since I struggle with these dark months anyway. And thank goodness for the presence of Lidl and Aldi, as they still stock the Christmas stuff I know from back home, Lebkuchen, Stollen, etc.

    I wrote this blog post here way back in 2018, as I was facing my second Christmas without my parents. It's been a while for me since then, and many lonely Christmases, but it still holds true even to this day: https://thomil-english.blogspot.com/2018/12/thoughts-on-christmas.html

    Good luck trying to figure me out. I haven't managed that myself yet!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,362 ✭✭✭Photobox


    Don't really like it anymore. Two close loved ones are gone now. Plus the consumerism on steroids is off the charts, it depresses me. It seems to me to be a predominantly an Irish thing? Speaking to people from other European countries, the emphasis is on quality not quantity and handmade gifts. That said I do enjoy the 26th to the 1st like other posters have said, it's relaxation time!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,545 ✭✭✭lucalux


    people saying it's gotten worse with the shops starting earlier every year..

    almost 25 years ago I worked in Penneys, where the christmas department opened every year in August

    the lights probably go on earlier in towns now but I dont mind those. except the awful cold blue ones

    christmas itself I ignore fully, to the best of my ability (can't avoid aldi/lidl silliness and shops blaring Xmas music)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,823 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    being agnostic, the ould chap that died on the cross, just done that, twas nothing to be doing with us, we ve read a bit too much into it, but if its your bag, rock on!

    yea we ve made a right mess of this whole Christmas thing, destroying our minds and the planet with the rubbish created.

    but if we want to reduce consumption ,we re gonna have to introduce much more significant welfare protections, as it creates a shite load of jobs!



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  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 13,248 Mod ✭✭✭✭Say Your Number


    I'm largely indifferent to it, I remember watching the Rugby World Cup Final on 22nd November 2003 and making note of the first Christmas ads that year,the last 10 odd years it's seems once Halloween is done (even before it) it's CHRISTMAS! CHRISTMAS! CHRISTMAS!

    Was in a supermarket a few weeks ago they were already playing Christmas songs, absolute torture for the staff putting up with that for 6 weeks.

    I do like that weird week where I've no idea what day it is, watching films and horsing into a box of Celebrations.



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