Excluded from afterschool

Signed up my son for collection with Play together carlow, from Educate Together - the primary school next door. He was due to attend for 1 hour per day in order to catch the bus home. He attended for half an hour on his first day, a Thursday to which I personally collected him as had no details of his bus information to send him home via bus. His second day, Friday I also had to collect him as received a phone call that he was still at the afterschool at 2.30pm when he should have been already on his bus home. The lady I received the phone call from, was nothing short of rude. Saying they had not received his bus information in time - which had been sent that morning. Upon my arrival to collect my son, I received the same rude response - in front of my autistic 5 year old son. Following on from this I received a phone call the following Monday morning to which I was informed, my son could no longer attend the facility as "he is a flight risk"!! This baffled not only myself but other's as when I applied for the 1 hour afterschool per day, the establishment was more than well informed of my son's difficulties including the one mentioned, that he was a flight risk!!! My son attended in total for less than 2 hour's & not once was I contacted on Thursday, Friday or over the weekend of any problems that had occurred!! I am not one to create problems or drama but this is something that I feel is highly unfair & unreasonable. As advised, I will be taking the matter further. If we ourselves don't stand up for the rights & inclusiveness for our children, who will!?