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Disability Parking questions?

  • 12-08-2025 02:41PM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,088 ✭✭✭


    I have a few questions about the disability permit recently granted to my elderly mother. She has severe mobility issues and is awaiting surgery to help restore her mobility. She uses a walking stick or a walking aid depending on her pain levels.

    My mum has good days and bad days. When she’s feeling well, she can drive herself. When she’s unwell, she can barely get out of bed — a lot depends on her dosage of pain relief.

    I just want to be clear on the rules so we don’t accidentally break the law or get a parking fine.

    From my understanding, the disability permit is linked directly to the disabled person, whether they are the driver or a passenger. For example, if I drive my mother to the doctor or the shops in her car, can we park in a disability space with me as the driver and her as the passenger accompanying me?

    Before she had the disability permit, we used to drop her off, then I would park in a regular space once she had gone inside. Now that she has the permit, would she need to be the one driving in order to use the disability space, or is it fine if I’m driving and she’s present?

    If I borrow her car for any reason (which I sometimes do when mine is in the garage), I know I can’t park in a disability space because the permit is in her name.

    Regarding private car parks (like Dunnes Stores) and council car parks — when using the disability permit, do you still have to pay the parking fee and display a ticket on the dashboard, or is disabled parking free?

    And what about barrier-gate car parks in multi-storey buildings or airports? It’s unlikely we’ll use these, but I’d like to be sure.

    Finally, if my sister takes my mother somewhere in her own car, can she display the disability permit in her car’s windscreen while my mother is with her?

    We just want to make sure that my sister, father, or I — all of whom help care for her — don’t accidentally get a parking fine.



Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,412 ✭✭✭GavPJ


    The permit can be used in any car that your mother is a passenger in

    at the time the badge is displayed.

    My Mam has one too and we change it from car to car depending on who

    is carrying her. Like your mother, my mother sometimes drives too so she

    puts the badge in her own car when driving it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,326 ✭✭✭✭ELM327


    Once either the badge holder is driving or being driven, that's the only time the badge should be used.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,312 ✭✭✭Dr_Colossus


    Your understanding above is correct, the permit is linked directly to the disabled person with their picture/name on the reverse so as long as they're in the car as driver or passenger the disabled permit can be used. You or a family member without your mother obviously can't use it but the permit can be moved from car to car as needed.

    Private car parks have no consistency and most in my experience only offer the conveniently located spots but with no concessions with regards fees. Some do offer free or reduced parking charges but it's in the small print and not always obvious. Often you have to submit your parking ticket to a separate manned booth along with your disabled parking permit details to avail of the concessionary rate rather than submitting it at the regular payment kiosks.

    With Dublin airport for instance you have to obtain a PRM (Person Reduced Mobility) code by submitting your disabled parking permit details and then once in possession of that code can pre-book parking at a reduced rate online. However when trying to book that the past couple of years there was no PRM parking availability despite travelling in the off season.

    Hospitals I find can be particularly bad, given their nature they're often frequented by disabled patients and there is only a minimal amount of disabled parking available so you're at the mercy of their exorbitant rates.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,295 ✭✭✭Miscreant


    For the Disability permit, the individual is covered no matter what car they are in. You will still have to pay any parking charges however as a general rule (barrier controlled or not).

    My mother has a permit and we use it when I bring her places in my car, as does my brother. As long as your sister is with you, you can display the permit on the windscreen of your car as you are not breaking any laws or rules.

    Short story: Your mother can use the permit no matter who she is with or what car she has travelled in. Parking charges still need to be paid.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 17,651 ✭✭✭✭elperello


    As stated above the badge can be used in any car as long as the holder is a driver or passenger.

    There is also more useful information in this link.

    Disabled parking permits - Irish Wheelchair Association https://share.google/WDGDitpOazjcK4MEl



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,178 ✭✭✭Buffman


    In relation to charges OP, generally all public parking is free with a valid permit but private car parks like shops are case by case and you'll have to check directly with them.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,177 ✭✭✭Eggs For Dinner


    Well done OP for enquiring if you are doing the right thing with thr blue badge. Too many abuse it. From what you describe, you are doing the right thing



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,871 ✭✭✭horse7


    What is the cost for the permit?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,511 ✭✭✭RosieJoe


    A disability, something most would forego not to have one



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,326 ✭✭✭✭ELM327




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,326 ✭✭✭✭ELM327




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,405 ✭✭✭witchgirl26


    It costs €35 to apply but it is based on criteria and not just paying the fee. For example my dad got it because he had cancer & his breathing/ability to walk distances was majorly impacted.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 64 ✭✭ross81


    sounds like you're very conscientious about what you can and can't do with the permit so good on you. I've had one for many years as an amputee. It's amazing how i still get looks and even the odd comment from other motorists when they see me get into or out of the car, despite the permit being clearly visible on the dash! 🙄 The privatisation of parking services in many of Dublin's hospitals (I don't know about other cities) has been a real kick in the nuts, either for me having to go in or if visiting a relative. In Beaumont for example I think there's only 2 or 3 public disabled spots near the front entrance. It's a sick joke for an 850 bed hospital with likely many times that in visitors. Sadly you'll get nothing but a standard copy-and-paste reply from the hospital authorities if you complain.

    Anyway, all the best to your Mum, may she make a full recovery.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 4,812 ✭✭✭...Ghost...


    Some people are thick though. Unless you're a 90 year old on a zimmer frame, or fall out of the car roaring in pain, they think you're abusing the blue badge. I've seen a rise in people having stickers on their car window saying "not all disabilities are visible" or similar. This is because of ignorant morons approaching badge holders and accosting them. By all means, Question someone who has no badge displayed, but fcuk off and mind your own business if there is a badge on display, because your assumption means nothing. You might see a person jump out of a car in a disabled spot, but you don't know their condition, or reason for using the space. They could be collecting the badge holder too.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,405 ✭✭✭witchgirl26


    100% agree with this. To the naked eye my dad probably looked fine. And he was still able to drive himself a bit. But any amount of walking over a couple of mins left him with breathing issues because you can't always see the effects of chemo and cancer. I will always challenge someone in a disabled bay who has no blue badge but if they have one, I'm not saying anything to them. Also it's so hard to actually get a blue badge here that if they've managed to be approved for one, they must actually need it. Like my dad - cancer doesn't automatically grant you a blue badge but his doctors had written reports and letters as they felt he'd need it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 70 ✭✭Dex Dexta


    A friend of mine with throat cancer suffered wicked abuse. He wore a cravat to cover the hole in his throat and I don’t know if it was the cravat or the V12 Merc that did it. Anyway, he thought he had to park in a designated spot to use the badge until I told him he could use the badge anywhere - seems to be a common misconception.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,312 ✭✭✭Dr_Colossus


    Well said, reminds me of this case a number of years ago.

    I've questioned numerous people with no blue badge parked in disabled spots (pics in the bad parking thread) but once the car has a badge then they're compliant.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,127 ✭✭✭creedp


    I know its not popular as it seems to be one of the sacred cow topics but you cant definitively say the blue badge isnt abused. It most certainly is by a few who take advantage of its convenience. Im sure the guy I saw parking next door to Lidl door and then off at a trot across to oposite side of the busines park car park absolutely needed to park in that disabled spot or maybe he was taking advantage of the fact a relative was legitimately awarded the badge and sure why not take advantage of it! Sometime you shouldnt automatically attack the messenger because you dont like the message



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,942 ✭✭✭User1998


    I know someone who has had a badge since they are 18 and has always drived a flash car. Constantly gets abused by strangers for parking in the disabled bay even though he is entitled to do so and has severe back issues



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,127 ✭✭✭creedp


    I’ve no doubt the majority of blue badges are being used appropriately but there is no doubt that a small number are being abused, because people can and therefore will. Not sure if the ‘fcuk off’ response to raising this possibility is reasonable



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 4,812 ✭✭✭...Ghost...


    I agree with the first part. Some abuse the blue badge just like some abuse social welfare, disability benefits, medical cards, carers allowance etc etc. There is a difference with blue badges in my opinion.

    If you see someone park in a blue badge spot with a badge on display and you see the person exiting the car with little to no problem and walk toward the supermarket/clinic/office building and you feel compelled to approach them to confirm their credentials and entitlements, you are probably doing what numerous other people have done that month, which is to question the person about their disability or why they are otherwise parked in a disabled bay. Can you imagine how quickly that would get old?

    Nobody using a blue badge has to explain to a member of the public why they are using it. The "fcuk off" response is better than constantly engaging doubting Thomas. If there is a genuine and likely abuse of the badge, it should be reported. Don't approach the person who has it displayed, because your assumption is most likely wrong and can lead to an altercation if you are right, or wrong. It is not worth it. Badges also get stolen and are abused, so report cases you believe there is abuse, but don't approach the badge holder.

    Want a sense of the experience of a healthy looking badge user? So, you don't have, or need a blue badge. Correct? Thats good for you. You drive a car, right? OK, now imagine if every other time you parked your car legally at the supermarket, or at work, or in town, you were questioned by a random stranger about where you drove from and why you didn't just walk, or use public transport. That you should be able to show a need to drive to that location in your car. Would you be happy to explain every time? Now imagine being polite to these strangers while in pain.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,127 ✭✭✭creedp


    I’ve never approached a person parked on a disabled spot asking them to confirm their legitimacy nor do I support others doing so. TBH the only time I witnessed that happening was when the guy I referenced earlier parking in a disabled spot in one corner of a car park and trotting to the opposite side stopped to question a guy parked in a nearby disabled spot while helping a blue badged driver start his car which led to an animated response.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 4,812 ✭✭✭...Ghost...


    I wasn't accusing you and didn't think you had been one of those busy bodies. I wanted to make the point clear, because this stuff happens every day and can end badly.

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