Should i take the job

Declan1965 · 02-06-2025 01:44PM #1

Hi

I have been out of work since the end of January this year and have had a number of interviews for various roles , i really would like to stay in automotive but my last role did not work out for me as a service advisor (high stress, impossible targets). Massive turnover of staff in this role

I have been offered office customer support role with a company 30 mins from home , 30k a year , monday to friday

no sales targets etc but different industry. I really dont know if its the right fit for me but i am in my late fifties and dont want to go back long commute as I worked in Dublin before. My last couple of jobs have been around 30mins door to door so it fits the bill

Should I accept the role or hold off until I find my perfect job.

Raichų · 02-06-2025 02:27PM

30 mins from home, 30k presume it’s a 9-5 mon Friday gig?

I’d say take it and if something else comes up more suitable take that, no? If you’re out of work and want to get back into it I’d say what’s the harm OP!

Etc · 02-06-2025 02:32PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058413790/should-i-take-the-job

Take it, it’s money in your pocket, one less thing to worry about and it’s true what they say, it’s always easier to get another role when you’re in a role.

Mrs OBumble · 02-06-2025 02:39PM

Take it. Keep looking - but take it for now. It's only just over minimum wage, so they don't see you as long term, you shouldn't see them that way either.

And TBH in you 50s, the chances of actually getting offered the perfect job are slim.

Etc · 02-06-2025 02:49PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123508530#Comment_123508530

That’s a ridiculous comment, you have no idea what the posters ideal job is and whether age will affect their chances, it’s just your prejudice.

GerardKeating · 02-06-2025 02:54PM

@Declan1965

If this role is financially viable for you then take it, even as a stop gap until your "ideal role" and who know, you might find the change in role suits you better.

eastie17 · 02-06-2025 03:45PM

always easier get a job when you have a job. Take it, you never know what else might come out of it

Jim2007 · 02-06-2025 04:10PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123508546#Comment_123508546

I wish it was, but unfortunately it's a reality for many people and if a support role is all that is on the table after nearly six months, the OP would be foolish to pass it up.

Etc · 02-06-2025 05:14PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123508688#Comment_123508688

Did you read my comment in the context of the original ? Every situation is unique, generalising in this context is totally subjective. In my original post on this I’m completely supportive of the poster taking this role.

xyz13 · 02-06-2025 05:45PM

If you are ok with such a low salary... take it.

*Before you say yes * make sure there's a marginally decent benefits package on offer, pension at minimum.

Rubberchikken · 02-06-2025 05:51PM

It doesn't sound like a forever job and it's probably easier to get a job while in one so you've nothing to lose and experience to gain by taking it.

Either way, best of luck.

Mrs OBumble · 02-06-2025 05:54PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123508546#Comment_123508546

The comment is based on my experience: interviews dried up once I hit 49.5.

The OP being jobless since January does not bode well for them.

Raichų · 02-06-2025 07:20PM

is it common to put your age on CV?
I never have. It’s never been asked either when I have attended interviews.
in fact, I’ve often been considered as older by employers than I am. That’s their impression I mean.

Not sure why being 40/50 odd precludes you from a job.

Kalimah · 02-06-2025 07:25PM

Your age can be guessed quite readily looking at your work history. College qualifications if you have any will also give away your age.
I got my present job at 59 - no issues at all. My experience stood to me.
I’d take the job. Always easier to get another if you have one .

babyducklings1 · 02-06-2025 09:18PM

No such thing as the perfect job is there. As others have advised take it. And true too better to be in a job when you are looking for another.Good luck with it.

Ozmodya · 02-06-2025 09:27PM

Of course you should take it. 🤷‍♀️

It pays more than the dole, it's convenient commute-wise, it takes you out of the unemployment rut you've been in for over four months, it puts you in a better position for looking for another job in time (plugs the gap on your CV). I'm puzzled as to why you would even consider not taking it.

And it's true that there is shocking ageism in recruitment. It's prejudice all right, but not on the part of the person who warned about it. A gap on the CV doesn't help either. It would be bizarre not to take this job.

davegilly · 02-06-2025 09:53PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123508546#Comment_123508546

As much as I'd like to say that you're wrong (I'm a >50 male) this is reality. I'm a hiring manager for non manager roles and anyone older than 35ish is not even considered.

We've hired older people before and unfortunately, they are generally harder to change and deal with, stuck in their ways so to speak so we no longer entertain them.

I wish it were different in case I need to look for a job but that's the reality for non management roles as you get older.

Jim2007 · 02-06-2025 10:35PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123508809#Comment_123508809

Go back and read your post then because no where did you advise the OP to take the job and the harsh reality is that people make generalisations all the time and particularly when it comes to ageism no matter how much you'd like it to be otherwise.

Etc · 02-06-2025 10:38PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123509513#Comment_123509513

I’m not sure what sector you work in, but I’m 50+ and many of my peers and friends have moved and secured roles and continue to do so in both management and non-management roles. I was offered a new job in January.

Etc · 02-06-2025 10:39PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123509619#Comment_123509619

Read post 3…..

Declan1965 · 03-06-2025 04:35PM

Just to add to the story, I have been offered another job about 45-50 mins from home with more money about 4k more 34k a year. It would be further away with earlier start .

Job is a better fit but longer commute in peak traffic, all motorway driving.

Not sure what to do

Etc · 03-06-2025 04:39PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123511725#Comment_123511725

Write out the pros and cons of each and what are the most important considerations. Putting it down on paper will help solidify and clarify it.

And very well done btw !

KaneToad · 03-06-2025 04:54PM

Well done. A choice of job offers.

I'd always go for the job that suits my lifestyle. Work to live rather than live to work. But realistically I know a certain level of renumeration is required to live comfortably. Your personal circumstances will decide this for you; rent/mortgage levels, dependents etc...

At your (slightly) older age, convenience should play a part in your decision making processes.

Patrick2010 · 03-06-2025 05:14PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123509513#Comment_123509513

After a redundancy at the age of 50 I picked up a Cisco certification and have added and recertifed certs until now in my mid sixties. A number of my colleagues had similar career changes from completely different jobs, bike courier, mechanic and plumber, two of which are now earning 6 figure sums. All were in their mid forties, lucky our HR has a more open mind than you. All very smart and very tech savvy.

In the past I’ve worked with lads in their twenties who were totally useless but because my previous company had the same age limit as you were hired.

...Ghost... · 03-06-2025 05:57PM

the extra 4k per year will add hours to your week and the after tax difference will be eaten up by fuel and maintenance. The real question is whether the position is worth it to you

C3PO · 03-06-2025 07:41PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123509146#Comment_123509146

And I got my present job in my 50s too … in a completely different industry than I’d worked in before! Agree … take the job and see how it goes.

Declan1965 · 03-06-2025 09:37PM

Guys I don't have any Mortage left on my house it's paid off, no kids at home

I really enjoy working it's just my generation I guess

gameoverdude · 03-06-2025 09:40PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123508506#Comment_123508506

100% op. Listen to this.

Easier to get another role when getting a pay cheque. Go for it!

Declan1965 · 06-06-2025 10:05AM

so just an update i went to see the job yesterday and i really dont think its a good fit

its customer support for a waste management company , just got a bad vibe from the place

should i stay looking and consider being out of work for a longer period or take it and possibly hate it

Should i take the job

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