Advertisement
Help Keep Boards Alive. Support us by going ad free today. See here: https://subscriptions.boards.ie/.
https://www.boards.ie/group/1878-subscribers-forum

Private Group for paid up members of Boards.ie. Join the club.
Hi all, please see this major site announcement: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058427594/boards-ie-2026

Referendum on Gender Equality

1111112114116117124

Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,447 ✭✭✭MrMusician18


    I understood that the term "other durable relationships" was open to interpretation. That is not good enough, it needs to be crystal clear.

    What is a durable relationship?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,596 ✭✭✭leath_dub


    The concept of a citizen's assembly has some merit, but the way they are operated in this country discredits theme somewhat.


    Political parties have a huge local resource to tap into, by consulting their local grassroots organisations to establish what the current public mood is. Unfortunately not many of the major parties have any interest in the knowledge that can be gleaned from their grassroots.


    I guess The Dail is the ultimate Citizen's Assembly and, if the members were doing their jobs, their would be no need for these flawed institutions.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5 fgordonie


    A song I remember fondly probably sums it up, it goes something like

    "you're out of touch, I'm out of time", something, something, something.

    If you are "ahead" of the electorate, whatever that means in a democracy,

    you just don't get elected again.

    It betrays an attitude to the citizen and voting public that is very worrying indeed.

    Democracy now :-)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,447 ✭✭✭MrMusician18


    I'd also argue that civil servants should not be permitted to be members of politically active NGO's as well as a ban on NGO's in receipt of state funding being politically active.

    If people want to campaign, it should be on their own dime.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,235 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,066 ✭✭✭gym_imposter


    Those who attend ( having been selected from the public) might be a broad representation of the public but those who go to work on them certainly aren't

    Whole thing is effectively astroturf consensus creation



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,767 ✭✭✭tom23


    Iv said it before, we need to curb the influence of some of these NGO's. I vote for Politicians to make policy not NGO's, regardless of their intention.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,235 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    This is disgusting lies. Nobody is advocating for paedophiles.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,447 ✭✭✭MrMusician18


    99 members of the public, of which a few were found to be contacts of the red c recruiter in one CA.

    The selection though is not the real issue, but the self selection. Only certain demographics will be able to offer over a suite of Saturdays to participate in a talking shop. That leads to bias.

    Furthermore each table had a facilitator and note taker. While I presume the notetaker stayed quiet a facilitator has great leverage in steering groups to an outcome. I understand members and tables rotated as well which can prevent blocs of opinions forming.

    To a great extent the government who sets the terms, the chair and facilitators who define and implement the discussions have a greater impact than the actual participants themselves.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,890 ✭✭✭✭briany


    So, look at ways of improving the functioning of citizens' assemblies, then. Work cross-party to figure out how they can more accurately gauge the public mood.

    It's sort of a truism to say an institution is flawed since human beings are flawed and so will any organisation of them be. It's about minimising those flaws, or at least trying to do that first, before saying a thing should be gotten rid of entirely.

    I'd much rather the citizens' assemblies we have here and sober attempts to build political consensus than the deepening divisions in the UK and especially the US. Let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater.



  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,181 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    I'd say quite a few of those NGOs could be merged and consolidated. But empire building and jobs for the chosen is paramount instead.

    Outsourcing of vital social policy and messaging to NGOs is anti democratic IMV. Time for a rethink. I think.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,629 ✭✭✭Augme


    I've no interest in discussing what is a durable relationship, it's irrelevant at this point. My point was that Leo was correct when he said a lot of people didn't understand the words in the proposal. And attempts to almost rewrite history and claim that wasn't the case and everyone understood is wrong.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,689 ✭✭✭dmakc


    Regardless as to whether or not people understood the wording, you can bet Leo was referring to just the no voters with that statement.

    Ask yourself this, were it a landslide Yes, would Leo still say a lot of people didn't understand the wording?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,596 ✭✭✭leath_dub




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,754 ✭✭✭plodder


    I don't think so. Often when someone says they don't understand something, they're really just saying they aren't convinced by it. They might not have the legal background to say out loud that they literally don't see how the words that were in the referendum proposals would lead to outcome A, B or C; or they wouldn't lead to outcome X, Y or Z. So, they'll just say they don't understand it.

    “The opposite of 'good' is 'good intentions'”



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,395 ✭✭✭✭Furze99


    Establishment getting a good thrashing now on Joe Duffy's Liveline - for once the public's voice is being heard on that show.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,462 ✭✭✭PokeHerKing


    Coincidentally I've been randomly selected for jury duty and off the top of my head 4 family/freinds whove been selected over the years.

    I know nobody who's been selected for citizens assemblies.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,395 ✭✭✭✭Furze99


    Why are you continuously repeating this nonsense? You've had your answer. Voters did understand that what was proposed was deeply flawed and that's all. And that's why they voted NO in large numbers. Take your loss and stop trying to insult the intelligence of others.



  • Posts: 3,065 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Whenever there is a vote that goes against what political parties want it seems to be written off as a protest vote or something the public couldn't understand. It's very condescending. I'll bet some people who voted yes knew less than barristers like Michael McDowell and Michael McNamara who advocated a no vote.

    It's an interesting time for debate in Ireland. It's a country that generally has had very little tolerance of dissenting social views. That's changing a bit now.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,596 ✭✭✭leath_dub


    Not really. He should be asking Yes voters why they made that choice as well. Instead, it's the "No" voters that have to explain themselves



  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 393 ✭✭KevMayo88


    Yea, its like "come here to me and tell me why yez all went out and did the maggot by votin' no".



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,395 ✭✭✭✭Furze99


    He did have a couple.

    One who voted Yes, Yes - because all the parties advised this and she never bothered to think for herself and was now ashamed.

    And a second chap who claimed he understood constitutional law as he was well educated but that the unwashed public were incapable of understanding the niceties and shouldn't have been allowed to vote more or less.

    So there you have it! Led by donkeys with followers like sheep!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,447 ✭✭✭MrMusician18


    Of course you don't, because you can't.

    Everyone fully understood that the wording was intentionally vague.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,061 ✭✭✭crusd


    There have been a handful of citizens assemblies. There are hundreds of jury trials every year. Not knowing anyone who has sat on one is not indicative of anything other that the are rare



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,501 ✭✭✭eeepaulo


    And a second chap who claimed he understood constitutional law as he was well educated but that the unwashed public were incapable of understanding the niceties and shouldn't have been allowed to vote more or less.

    Augme did you call liveline?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 393 ✭✭KevMayo88


    You never had an interest in discussing what a "durable relationship" was, just like the government, and that's why you all lost.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,629 ✭✭✭Augme


    I very much doubt he would.


    It's not nonsense though. You said yourself you didn't understand the words before the referendum. At least have the decency to stand over that fact after the referendum and trying to pretend that isn't the case. No one has claimed it has anything to do with intelligence either, except you.


    Agreed, as I've said, people didn't understand the term.


    In the build up to the referendum I has plenty of discussions about the term.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,629 ✭✭✭Augme




  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators Posts: 11,174 Mod ✭✭✭✭Jim2007


    So we can assume then that you have never joined a party, worked your way through getting a policy on to a manifesto and worked on an election… but are willing to believe whatever crap you are fed on social media because it’s convenient, it’s what you want to hear and does not require any effort. Well I have on several occasions and you have not got a clew how the game is actually played!



  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 377 ✭✭whatisayis


    The more Leo and other government apologists repeat their belief that the public just didn't understand, the bigger the hole they are digging for themselves.

    Listening to Joe Duffy there is a lot of anger from some of those who voted Yes and now realise they were duped into it by believing the spin.

    Mary Lou saying that Sinn Fein will run another referendum to remove the women's place in the home from the Constitution shows they really have no idea why c70% of the citizens voted No. Most, if not all, women knew they were voting to keep women and mothers in the Constitution and are fully aware it is a protective provision and definitely not an insulting and archaic imposition.

    The NWCI have never in all their existence called for support for stay at home mothers. Even yesterday the head of the organisation said words to the effect that they will learn from this vote and push for more state funded childcare for working women. It's about time they tried pushing for more state support for stay at home parents.



Advertisement
Advertisement