In a group conversation, the person talking doesn't look at you

Alexus25 · 01-03-2024 01:42PM #1

Does it bother anyone when in a group conversation, say three people, you've asked a person a question and they look at the other person when answering the question. Or being in a group conversation in general and the people don't look at you when talking, but look at the other people.

Personally it triggers me and it's one of my pet hates, what's other people's thoughts on this?

Wanderer78 · 01-03-2024 02:14PM

some can struggle with social anxiety and social awkwardness, hence struggle to look into others eyes during conversations, i have autism myself, and this is very common with the disorder....

HildaOgdenx · 01-03-2024 02:23PM

Mod - Moved to AH as it seems to be a discussion thread as opposed to looking for advice.

Local charter now applies.

Alexus25 · 01-03-2024 02:28PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121837705#Comment_121837705

Apologies, I thought AH was only for night time (after hours) talk, thank you

Alexus25 · 01-03-2024 02:29PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121837627#Comment_121837627

That's fair enough, but that doesn't necessarily explain why they can look into the other person's eyes while talking 🤔

Wanderer78 · 01-03-2024 02:37PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121837745#Comment_121837745

...makes perfect sense, it may reduce whatever anxieties that maybe occurring, thats if it is the case, theres no logic in such situations, as its an emotional response....

SharkMX · 01-03-2024 02:44PM

Usually the person speaking looks at the people who look interested in what they are saying. Some people just have a vacant look on their faces so dont really get targeted by the talker.

Badly Drunk Boy · 01-03-2024 02:48PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121837745#Comment_121837745

Maybe you're just so gorgeous that they have to avert their gaze...😵

Alexus25 · 01-03-2024 02:49PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121837806#Comment_121837806

Yeah maybe there are anxieties hence why they might look away from me or you or another person 🤔

Alexus25 · 01-03-2024 02:50PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121837852#Comment_121837852

I always make an effort to include everyone when I talk, probably because I don't like that feeling of being excluded and wouldn't want others to feel that way

Alexus25 · 01-03-2024 02:51PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/121837883#Comment_121837883

🤣🤣🤣 I'll tell myself that next time it happens, thanks

One eyed Jack · 01-03-2024 03:18PM

Can’t say I’ve noticed 😂

01-03-2024 06:50PM

I feel the person might feel a bit anxious or perhaps just trying to keep everyone else in the conversation, so glancing around to everyone.

In a group conversation, the person talking doesn't look at you

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