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Boxed in the face

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  • #122
    Jequ0n
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    Seriously, what is it with people recommending to broadcast this and back her into a corner. They broke up and agreed to keep it civil - that includes the OP, and not just her.



  • #123
    Mongfinder General
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,992 ✭✭✭Mongfinder General


    Start looking for another job. That kind of rage won’t go away. It will manifest in other ways. Watch what she does - not what she says.



  • #124
    Sunny Disposition
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,984 ✭✭✭Sunny Disposition


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/119792537#Comment_119792537

    I hope tayto lover is not right, but this may well be the case, people who are damaged enough to be violent can be very manipulative also.

    Absolutely have no contact with her, be sure you have her blocked on your phone and social media.



  • #125
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    A bit of nuance required here. Let’s give the OP the benefit of the doubt and that he can gauge if things become toxic.

    There’s no need to change jobs, and he also knows this person very well after 6 months and he’d know if she was likely to be a virago at work. Chill.

    She did something bad, not someone you’d consider an intimate partner of choice, but she may be perfectly in control when sober.



  • #126
    70swally
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4 ✭70swally


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/119790097#Comment_119790097

    I booked a room in a different hotel, we'll end up on the same plane but not sitting together and won't be seeing each other outside of the work commitments



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  • #127
    manonboard
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,106 ✭✭✭manonboard


    Congratulations OP. Very pleased and relived to hear you took action and left the violent emerging relationship. You are truly wise in that. Well done. Its sooo easy to listen to the excuses and soft spots our brains make. You will look back at this moment in the future with great pride for your reasoning



  • #128
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 8,385 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Report it to the authorities, immediately, even if you don't wish to pursue. Get that record in place in case it all goes sidewards after the break up



  • #129
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/119824432#Comment_119824432

    He said, she said.

    He’s moved on, for the best.



  • #130
    Hannibal_Smith
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,426 ✭✭✭Hannibal_Smith


    Given the OP has resolved their issue by ending the relationship I'll close this one off.

    OP if you need it reopened for further advice just let one of the mods know and we can do that for you.

    Thanks to everyone who took the time to offer advice.

    HS



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