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Brian Dowling and Arthur Gourounlian expecting first baby.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,325 ✭✭✭cuttingtimber22


    It is what it is but what happens if something does not go to plan. Regulation is needed badly.




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,524 ✭✭✭✭Fr Tod Umptious


    Wow that's some story.

    As an neanderthal like myself who only found out and only wanted to know the sex of my children when they were born, this sort of story makes me shudder.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,496 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    Everything which was commonplace in the past needs changing

    Progressive ideology 101



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,189 ✭✭✭Brucie Bonus


    Couples use sperm and egg donors all the time. They use surrogates too. That's couples and singles who want but can't have a child for whatever reason. Thank **** we are getting away from parochial times, albeit slowly.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe



    Of course you are not framing this in anyway as to suggest such appalling behaviour is the preserve of gay couples.

    That would be ...silly.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,325 ✭✭✭cuttingtimber22


    I certainly was not. And I said regulation not prohibition which is a far different thing. Dig a little and anyone in their right mind would agree it is needed.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,177 ✭✭✭Fandymo


    How do they know the baby’s gender when it can’t even talk yet??



  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,292 Mod ✭✭✭✭pc7


    With certain tests now you can find out gender at 9-10 weeks

    Post edited by pc7 on


  • Posts: 3,773 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Absolutely. They announce "we're expecting" as if it's the most natural thing in the world. Any everyone has to pretend it's normal and congratulate the happy couple and not ask any difficult questions.


    It's amazing how the woman gets shunted off the stage at a moment like this. Completely erased from the story.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,370 ✭✭✭joseywhales


    Isn't that the thing with having a baby, you don't know what you are going to get, a poet or a psychopath, with ambitions to be a doctor or a puppy. I thought that was the fun of it? It's like a roulette but you have to love and accept whatever you get?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,323 ✭✭✭✭Kermit.de.frog


    I'm shocked at the amount of thanks the opening post doesn't have



  • Posts: 6,775 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Perhaps because people have strong views on surrogacy.

    I'm a member of the LGBT community myself but I'm against surrogacy. In the event that it does happen, I believe it preferable to happen for a man and a woman (so the child benefits from role models from both of the biological sexes).

    Just because you can do something doesn't make it the most optimum decision to make. I think depriving a child of the right to their mother and a female role model, for the sake of paying the mother to stay silent, is morally questionable.

    I can't help but think that selfishness is driving both sides of the equation and this puts the child second, not first.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 193 ✭✭UID0


    I'm not against surrogacy, but I am against commercial surrogacy (especially international, for various reasons). Pretending that a child is actually the child of the commissioning parents is depriving the child of the right to know who they are. It's no better than the situation in mother ad baby homes where children were taken from their mothers to be adopted. I think that we need to learn from the past, and record on a child's birth cert the child's legal parents, their genetic parents and their gestational carrier. For cases where there only two parents involved (which is the majority of births in this country), we can reduce those to "Mother" and "Father."

    I also don't think that there should be any anonymous donation allowed. It is very important for any child to be able to find out the details of their genetic families' medical history.

    While surrogacy advocates keep saying that Ireland is behind Europe in legislating for surrogacy, they conveniently neglect to mention that in most of Europe surrogacy is completely illegal, that if you try to apply for e.g. Italian citizenship for a child born of a surrogate you can end up fined €1m and spending 3 years in prison, that in Greece the approval of the court is required prior to any implantation, and that it is only available to single women or heterosexual couples. There is no EU country in which commercial surrogacy is legal (in fact, article 3, 2c of the Charter of Fundamental Rights of the European Union can be interpreted as being an EU-Wide ban on commercial surrogacy.) We shouldn't be legislating to infringe on the rights of women in non-EU countries that are considered non-violable inside the EU.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,237 ✭✭✭Pussyhands


    So whose spunk is it or did they both squirt into a tub and they swished it all around?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,177 ✭✭✭Fandymo


    Biological sex surely? Gender is based on how your feeling at any point in time nowadays.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,184 ✭✭✭85603


    expecting.


    😐️



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,033 ✭✭✭✭Richard Hillman




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,349 ✭✭✭Wombatman




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,852 ✭✭✭take everything


    Can't help thinking:

    Sasha Baron Cohen's Bruno and his gayby. That was hilarious. This isn't at all.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,115 ✭✭✭StevenToast


    Do RTE think making a documentary about this will encourage people to pay a licence fee?

    I believe it will prove the opposite....

    I would literally pay money to not watch this....

    "Don't piss down my back and tell me it's raining." - Fletcher



  • Site Banned Posts: 916 ✭✭✭Denny61


    Disgusting..Dowling and co .not a ounce of talent between them .wx have heard nothing of them for years..so suddenly friends of theirs in rte..belonging to our good friends lgbt .and what ever else. Decides we the irish people need them.in our lives to entertain them..and now with their new found glamorous life they think we should know they are expecting..give us a life..go sling yer Hook.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,778 ✭✭✭✭MEGA BRO WOLF 5000


    I guess because when it boils down to it, most people think it's absolutely disgusting. The only people who seem to think this is ok are the media.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,154 ✭✭✭MrMusician18


    It's absolutely sickening that they are using this for self promotion.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,710 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    I'd hang this more on RTE than them tbh. It's so stereotypical of RTE to make this kind of doc, in these times.

    Their careers like all z celebs depend on being promoted, constantly in the media. You go out of the limelight and that's it, forgotten very fast. It prolly wasn't their idea.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,033 ✭✭✭✭Richard Hillman


    As I said before in the thread, I don't have too much of a problem with with Dowling and his partner are doing, as it is an arrangement between the family. Although they did go down the Buy-A-Baby route and failed.

    I have great issues with what Rosanna Davison and Mark Fehlihy did after buying babies.

    If RTE are going to make a documentary about this, it is their journalistic and public service duty to challenge them. I don't watch much RTE but I highly doubt that they challenged celebrity baby buyers when they were on to promote their cause. There is a concerted attempt by the media to normalise it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,273 ✭✭✭xxxxxxl


    Would this not just be similar to laundries back in the day. Rich buying babies ? 🤔



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,959 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    It's like a cross between the Truman Show, Borat, Father Ted, Fame, Weird Science, Zoolander, Three Men and a baby, ...

    🤣

    Post edited by SuperBowserWorld on


  • Posts: 17,847 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I think that surrogacy deserves a thread if it’s own. Especially discussion around its legality. Practical advice etc.

    Re Brian Dowling, best of luck to them and any other parents who went down the surrogacy route.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 664 ✭✭✭MakersMark


    Buying poor peoples children is okay, especially since its for equality.



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