Why do men far outweigh women on dating sites?

Because men just want a ride. End of. Internet dating is shallow. It’s a great method for shallow bastar.s to get a good ride from women who are easily fooled and lied to. They sell vulnerable women a good sob story and it’s good enough to get a ride. Hit and run. The only way to meet people is face to face.

I’m glad I’m wrong so . I don’t know this world and am glad that mens motives are generally sincere.

Dating sites used to be a complete sausage fest but it's not so bad anymore.

Plenty of women use tinder purely for hookups too. And are content with the arrangement. They’re not getting taken advantage of.

I think it goes both ways because when I didn't have sky sports I used to go to sports bars. There were often women just hanging around and they weren't watching the matches.

Sometimes women will pop up in places which are "men-centred" for lack of a better word.

In terms of getting matches and dates, it’s much easier for women. In terms of finding a relationship, it’s much easier for guys.

How do you figure? Assuming a is a prerequisite for b, if you're getting much more of a, surely it follows b is more likely. I imagine its easier for men on dating sites who do get dates to turn that into relationships, but that first step seems difficult. Speaking as someone who never used a dating site.

Yeah if the guy is genuinely looking for 'something serious' there will always be women interested. Age, looks, dress sense etc. can all be got around. I suppose if he was living on the streets he might struggle but as long as he has a reasonable income and established 'place in the world' he's good to go.

Honestly, I would say it is probably like 50 men to every woman or something.

Did a Google search and eHarmony claim it's 52.4% Men and 47.6% Women. Bollocks lol. Of course they, and any other dating website, would say that. What bloke is going to use site that openly says 80% of it's users are men.

We're randy lads us men

Funny you should mention that! I've known people who used Another Friend - back when alot of people posted cash to join as many didn't have a credit card! They say the same, internet dating was easier back then.

I have a theory as to why. This is based on nothing more than what I think and that is about 20 years ago there was a really big stigma about online dating (which was silly) But it also means you had more genuine people joining. You know, maybe the social circle wasn't great or whatever. As internet dating grew every Tom, Dick, Harry and Mary Jane signed up. So what was once an alternative to meet people become the norm and with that the garbage.