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am i Crazy change a house

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  • #62
    AndrewJRenko
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,203 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Student_111 wrote: »
    This post is 100% a wind up. She's barely literate ...

    How many languages beyond your native language do you know well enough to use when posting on bulletin boards?


  • #63
    Dtp1979
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,922 ✭✭✭✭Dtp1979


    AndrewJRenko wrote: »
    How many languages beyond your native language do you know well enough to use when posting on bulletin boards?

    To be fair it’s quite easy to fake


  • #64
    YellowLead
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,027 ✭✭✭YellowLead


    amIcrazyhouse wrote: »
    Thank you. We plan see fertility specialist soon.

    I know we have plenty time until the baby born and need her own bedroom.

    Just the shortage of new house in this area is very very few.. Plus the house can alway increase or at least hold the value, and we have the ability pay the mortgage.

    What does your husband think?


  • #65
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 103 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    AndrewJRenko wrote: »
    How many languages beyond your native language do you know well enough to use when posting on bulletin boards?

    I asked her native language - the question was evaded. I wonder where she is working in Dublin for such good money without a decent grasp of English.
    And to answer your question - I'm fluent in English, Spanish and French. I also speak Italian fairly well but haven't written in Italian in years so wouldn't be comfortable. But I don't expect others to be even bilingual, hence why I asked her native language.

    But basically that's all irrelevant because the OP is taking the piss.


  • #66
    ted1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,400 ✭✭✭✭ted1


    amIcrazyhouse wrote: »
    He has more than a million, but all in stock,
    I think it’s reasonable and safe to cash out some regardless buy the house or not.
    200k is a fraction of all,

    Have you heard of capital gains tax? The government will take 30% of any profit he makes on shares


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  • #67
    ted1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,400 ✭✭✭✭ted1


    Student_111 wrote: »
    I asked her native language - the question was evaded. I wonder where she is working in Dublin for such good money without a decent grasp of English.
    And to answer your question - I'm fluent in English, Spanish and French. I also speak Italian fairly well but haven't written in Italian in years so wouldn't be comfortable. But I don't expect others to be even bilingual, hence why I asked her native language.

    But basically that's all irrelevant because the OP is taking the piss.

    Not really. I know several people who did very well with Bitcoin, Tesla and other stocks. Very plausible for people to get wealth fast from shares


  • #68
    AndrewJRenko
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,203 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Student_111 wrote: »
    I asked her native language - the question was evaded. I wonder where she is working in Dublin for such good money without a decent grasp of English.
    And to answer your question - I'm fluent in English, Spanish and French. I also speak Italian fairly well but haven't written in Italian in years so wouldn't be comfortable. But I don't expect others to be even bilingual, hence why I asked her native language.

    But basically that's all irrelevant because the OP is taking the piss.

    If you've a problem with the post, report it. Her written language skills are irrelevant.


  • #69
    amIcrazyhouse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17 ✭amIcrazyhouse


    ted1 wrote: »
    Have you heard of capital gains tax? The government will take 30% of any profit he makes on shares

    we know, that is after tax.


  • #70
    Caranica
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,229 ✭✭✭✭Caranica


    amIcrazyhouse wrote: »
    Thank you. We plan see fertility specialist soon.

    I know we have plenty time until the baby born and need her own bedroom.

    Again, you're assuming. Or not genuine.


  • #71
    YellowLead
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,027 ✭✭✭YellowLead


    OP it would really help if you told us what your husbands thoughts were!

    Does he not really want kids? Or only want ones and thinks the two bed will do? Are you guys on the verge of breaking up? Is he worried about his stock plummeting? Does he just want to wait for a few more years?

    Otherwise this thread does look kind of fake...

    By the way if this is how you communicate with him I’m not surprised you have ended up married yet with different paths planned....


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  • #72
    amIcrazyhouse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17 ✭amIcrazyhouse


    Deeec wrote: »
    OP it seems very unreasonable that your husband doesn't contribute more than 1000 to the running of the house considering how well he is doing. It's a very good deal for him!! It's doesn't matter that you can afford to pay the mortgage and bills. - he should still contribute. Don't borrow from your friend to buy - that's a crazy idea. Does he think the house you want to buy is overpriced?



    It's not like that.
    He always very generous, like all the big expenses etc for the family he always insists to pay, give me gifts etc.. and told me to let him know if i have financial issue.
    I just comfortable manage the bills and my existing mortgage, so never ask.


  • #73
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 19,178 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    amIcrazyhouse wrote: »
    It's not like that.
    He always very generous, like all the big expenses etc for the family he always insists to pay, give me gifts etc.. and told me to let him know if i have financial issue.
    I just comfortable manage the bills and my existing mortgage, so never ask.

    Seems strange to me that he told you to let him know if you have financial issues?
    You really should know more about your joint finances.
    Maybe this way works for ye, but I think they would have to change if you have a family.


  • #74
    amIcrazyhouse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17 ✭amIcrazyhouse


    YellowLead wrote: »
    OP it would really help if you told us what your husbands thoughts were!

    Does he not really want kids? Or only want ones and thinks the two bed will do? Are you guys on the verge of breaking up? Is he worried about his stock plummeting? Does he just want to wait for a few more years?

    Otherwise this thread does look kind of fake...

    By the way if this is how you communicate with him I’m not surprised you have ended up married yet with different paths planned....


    He wants kids. Yes, i need find out more details about his thoughts, just tell me i'm crazy is not enough..

    No! Of course not, never!
    We had never argued or had any issues from the beginning.
    We have the best relationship.
    I know his proportion about different investments, it's pretty much safe, if plummeting someday, the amount after plummeting i suppose is still a decent amount. because the amount now is quite big, so not really need to worry about.
    And for the worst situation I said in the previous post, he just left his job around half year, his previous job is high skilled desirable well paid job, he always can get back to his previous job and I can support as well.


  • #75
    amIcrazyhouse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17 ✭amIcrazyhouse


    bubblypop wrote: »
    Seems strange to me that he told you to let him know if you have financial issues?
    You really should know more about your joint finances.
    Maybe this way works for ye, but I think they would have to change if you have a family.

    We had the discussion about set up a joint account since last year.
    And this year when we got married, we got over 10k from family members.
    Just because the lockdown and he is very busy every day, we still not go to the bank yet and that 10k still sit down in the drawer.


  • #76
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 2,264 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Handy cash for your blueberry habit then.


  • #77
    YellowLead
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,027 ✭✭✭YellowLead


    amIcrazyhouse wrote: »
    He wants kids. Yes, i need find out more details about his thoughts, just tell me i'm crazy is not enough..

    No! Of course not, never!
    We had never argued or had any issues from the beginning.
    We have the best relationship.

    Maybe that is why you feel like you have a great relationship - you never have any real conversations!

    How can all he say is you are crazy and not give more detail - do you not ask?

    There is no great relationship without good communication. How will you deal with having kids of you can’t agree on houses and finances.

    It sounds like you are quite separate in terms of finances which is rather bizzare....


  • #78
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 103 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    AndrewJRenko wrote: »
    If you've a problem with the post, report it. Her written language skills are irrelevant.

    Report it? I suspect its a piss take and I've said as much. What are the moderators going to do - investigate it? Cop on. I'm entitled to my opinion and I've stated it so that others also cast a critical eye over this nonsense.


  • #79
    Hannibal_Smith
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,441 ✭✭✭Hannibal_Smith


    Mod Note

    OP, Personal Issues is a place where people come to for advice on how to resolve an issue affecting them. 5 pages on and there's no resolution to your issue, because unless your husband is willing to consent to a sale of the family home and move - no one here can help you.

    On that note I'm going to close the thread, because I don't see what you can gain from it - other than considering whats already been said.

    On another note, I think a few posters might benefit from reading the Charter here, and in particular taking note of this part:-


    If you have an issues with a post or a thread report it, do not post "I think this is a troll" as it will be considered off topic posting and by now you should all know off topic posting can resulted in infractions and/or a ban from this forum.

    Report the posts let the Mods make a call on it, it could be well that the thread started out as an attempt to troll but there could well be people out there struggling with that issues and the thread maybe helpful to them now or when they search boards.

    Again replying to a thread to state you think it is a troll attempt will be considered off topic posting.

    Thanks

    HS


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