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Finding my potential child

  • 12-03-2021 11:40PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19


    Hi folks,

    I had a one night stand about 20years ago, I was 19 at the time, met someone from I remember she was around 30 at a nightclub. We had unprotected sex, no phone numbers swapped and I went home afterwards. I always had a strange feeling about that moment, Like any young man I would be out and about all the time. I remember seeing what I thought was the same woman about a year later wheeling a buggy into the local pub that was attached to the nightclub where we met. I wasn’t even sure if it was her but I ran out of the pub.. I never returned back to the pub again. I can’t be sure if it was the same woman but I always had this strange feeling. I moved away from the area, I know I’m not a nice person if it was, I was young, naive and stupid and I regret not saying something the time but it’s always been on my mind. Again I’m not 100% sure but I would like to find out if I am the father, I wouldn’t know where to start.. if anyone who has experienced something like this..


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,091 ✭✭✭catrionanic


    Do you know her name?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 158 ✭✭Zebrag


    Hi OP

    Starting with did you get her name? Maybe a friend seen you leave the club with her and could potentially know her? If you got her name search through FB. Maybe if you really feel brave enough, make a post of FB yourself? Social Media has its negatives but its been positive too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,091 ✭✭✭catrionanic


    Also where did you sleep with her? Was it her house? If so would whoever lives there now have contact details for her?


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 19,022 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    try doing a 23andme or similar DNA test? maybe she is searching too?
    Do you have any details about the girl at all?


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