I want to get a dog

myNewName · 03-01-2021 10:33PM

memomtoo wrote: »

Definitely ill be prepared for all that
I work so can afford for another baby

All we want to cuddles too
Thats the reason i started researching on everything
Really thanks for all headsup
But still confused when checking online sellers
Whats the best thing to check first and what to prepare with
And how much its gonna cost
Example someone advertised for 2500e for pomeranian puppy
Someone for 1500 what could be so different
Whom to trust best

I have a rescue “teacup” pomeranian, got her at a couple of weeks old and is 13 now. She hates kids, when kids come up looking to pet her out and about I’ve to warn the parents she bites. Most of them say it’s ok their kids are good with dogs, that’s not fair on my dog, she’s not good with kids!
She’s cost an absolute fortune in vet bills, is very loud and demanding when wanting food or exercise. I wouldn’t change her, but I’d think long and hard about it OP!

anewme · 03-01-2021 10:53PM

Zak Flaps wrote: »

It's true. There is a shortage of small dogs. Any that come in to the shelters over here are snapped up. Huge waiting lists as a previous poster said.
Do you know how much it is to rescue from abroad? I don't actually know .
A friend who is in the UK is importing a rescue from Cyprus. I must ask her how much it's costing.

I read on a UK site about rescues abroad importing Brusslossis (worst spelling ever) Not sure if that is an issue

headtheball14 · 03-01-2021 10:56PM

Knowing everything about dogs doesn’t mean you will be a good kind owner, many of the backyard breeders in Ireland have grown up with dogs and are knowledgeable but still don’t care for their dogs.

You haven’t just looked up online and bought a puppy for Christmas , so well done for taking the time to think this through.

For rescues with the age of your children it may not be easy to adopt. Many of the smaller breed dogs may be surrendered because they have issues with health or behaviour due to their owners not having taken this time to consider all of the issues.

One of the best things you could do is volunteer with a rescue, I think many have volunteers who commit to visit and walk the dogs and help them to socialize and find their new homes. I’m not sure if I can name them.
It would be a good way to learn about different type of dogs and help you learn more about dog ownership .

Antares35 · 03-01-2021 11:07PM

em_cat wrote: »

OP, in reality, you want your children and yourself to have the best experience when it comes to having a puppy, and that’s very understandable. Please understand that say when a tea cup is advertised, the mum has most likely had to have a forced c section as they often can’t deliver naturally due the littler size, the puppies often have faulty heart issues and can almost never receive anaesthetic or pain relief should they need it, they tend to also have underdeveloped brains, bones and organs and generally not bred from the best of breed samples, for lack of better wording... I know that Instagram and YouTube are full of videos of the tiny micro and tea cup sizes, you just need to be able to resist and see that part of pet ownership is caring about how that pet has been bred and cared for before you ever get it.

Sadly the welfare of the breeding bitch is something that is very often overlooked when people are seeking out puppies.

OP I would also be concerned that a dog that tiny might not withstand the typical (and well intended) rough housing that young boisterous kids engage in. It wouldn't be their fault because kids will be kids, but would you not be concerned about a tiny teacup dog being stood/ sat on etc.?

em_cat · 03-01-2021 11:59PM

Antares35 wrote: »

Sadly the welfare of the breeding bitch is something that is very often overlooked when people are seeking out puppies.

OP I would also be concerned that a dog that tiny might not withstand the typical (and well intended) rough housing that young boisterous kids engage in. It wouldn't be their fault because kids will be kids, but would you not be concerned about a tiny teacup dog being stood/ sat on etc.?

In ours it definitely would be a concern:) we had a teeny weeny pup, I’d say she was a runt chihuahua in for foster that I had to be very careful with as at 13 weeks she wasn’t any bigger than a Guinea Pig. She had a big attitude and was very sweet. She does live with a couple of bigger dogs and holds her own, but she does have several health issues & vet visits are stressful bc she can’t receive anaesthesia due to her size.

I'd like to give the OP the benefit of doubt as social media has a lot to answer for in promoting the tea cup breeding so I’m hoping she’ll take heed of theses posts.

04-01-2021 12:03AM

eviltwin wrote: »

Its not just the money, its the time commitment. A dog needs to be walked - often twice a day. That means no matter how wet or cold it is, no matter what is on tv you want to watch or if you don't feel like it. It really is like taking care of a small child only one that will never grow up. It really sounds like you want a living doll for your kids and haven't really seen beyond the cuteness to what work actually goes into looking after a pet.

Depends on the dog tbh. Mine will moan to get out any day if she's not been out by 2/3pm but if it's pissing rain she'll look at me and sit down til I take her lead off so she can run back into the sofa. :pac:

Panthro · 04-01-2021 12:06AM

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Depends on the dog tbh. Mine will moan to get out any day if she's not been out by 2/3pm but if it's pissing rain she'll look at me and sit down til I take her lead off so she can run back into the sofa. :pac:

Lurcher/ greyhound family by any chance?!

04-01-2021 01:14AM

Panthro wrote: »

Lurcher/ greyhound family by any chance?!

Nah Westie cross, probably with a Jack Russell. Should be hardy enough but she loves her comfort. :L Sometimes she'll go out and change her mind halfway through a walk so if it's a bad day I tend not to stray far from the house/car because she'll usually want to stop quite soon.

memomtoo · 04-01-2021 11:20AM

Ave Sodalis wrote: »

Hi OP. I'm not going to weigh in on getting the dog as I feel most points have been covered at this stage. However, for the interest of safety, I feel I have to respond to this so please do not take it the wrong way.

Majority of dogs do not enjoy cuddles. The very act of cuddling (wrapping your arms around their neck) is seen as a threatening manoeuvre in canine body language and whilst some dogs tolerate it, they rarely enjoy it. If there are to be cuddles, it is usually on the dog's terms and in the dog's way, which is something children especially can struggle to understand. My dog is a cuddly dog and has no concept of personal space. However, if I tried to force a cuddle on him, he will probably bite me.

The second point is to please, do not treat your dog like a baby. It is incredibly detrimental to their mental and emotional health. I cannot tell you how many dogs, particularly small dogs, that I've met with severe behaviour issues because they've been babied. Dogs are dogs, even if they're small. You can consider them as part of the family, or even en par with your children if you wish, but treating them like a child will result in an incredibly confused dog which often leads to aggression issues.

Again, please do not take this as an attack on your post. These are just very important things to know.

Ah not at all
You are dealing with an extremely positive person I promise:)
I got what you mean!
Seriously deciding now after getting some valuable inputs
I see its just awareness on this species handling nothing more i need
They are magical souls as when i said i watch funny videos, i really meant to say that i see some heart melting type of videos of them, they have something to do with our stress treating yes trust me i felt so relieved from all that work or personal related stress by laughing or smiling myself in a very effective way so personally i can give my hearty attention as well!

I certainly need to educate myself a bit i know

memomtoo · 04-01-2021 11:26AM

headtheball14 wrote: »

Knowing everything about dogs doesn’t mean you will be a good kind owner, many of the backyard breeders in Ireland have grown up with dogs and are knowledgeable but still don’t care for their dogs.

You haven’t just looked up online and bought a puppy for Christmas , so well done for taking the time to think this through.

For rescues with the age of your children it may not be easy to adopt. Many of the smaller breed dogs may be surrendered because they have issues with health or behaviour due to their owners not having taken this time to consider all of the issues.

One of the best things you could do is volunteer with a rescue, I think many have volunteers who commit to visit and walk the dogs and help them to socialize and find their new homes. I’m not sure if I can name them.
It would be a good way to learn about different type of dogs and help you learn more about dog ownership .

Definitely i want to research enough and gain confidence first before bringing the new family member.
So sorry i was literally thinking teacup pom is one of the type of dogs- honest with you i didnt know the reality
Kids are really gentle handlers

Zak Flaps · 04-01-2021 04:07PM

Will there be someone at home during the day to mind the dog?

SuziXX · 04-01-2021 05:12PM

Cherry Blossom wrote: »

https://www.ikc.ie/dog-ownership/types-of-dog/breeds/breed-details/179

I would advise getting someone to call who has a good command of the English language.

That comes across very rude. The op obviously doesn’t know anything about dogs (which is fine, everyone has to start somewhere) The tone of that message was uncalled for.

Cherry Blossom · 04-01-2021 08:57PM

SuziXX wrote: »

That comes across very rude. The op obviously doesn’t know anything about dogs (which is fine, everyone has to start somewhere) The tone of that message was uncalled for.

Yeah, I have foot in mouth disease. It really wasn’t intended the way it came across.

I want to get a dog

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