I don't know where we're going, but I know where I am (part 7.

smurfjed · 27-06-2019 05:06AM

Nespresso time on the balcony with the mutt, he just doesn't understand the concept of "staying in bed"

Ted_YNWA · 27-06-2019 06:26AM

Autosport wrote:

Shouldn't watch 90 day fiancÃ© while reading this thread . It's ok Ted I don't need a green card to enter Wexford m

Everyone is welcome, some are more welcome than others.

Bedside, enjoying final few moments of relaxing.

Autosport · 27-06-2019 07:32AM

Ted_YNWA wrote: »

Everyone is welcome, some are more welcome than others.

Bedside, enjoying final few moments of relaxing.

That's not nice to say to your fiancé Ted

:P

Morning all

Happy Thursday!!!

GoneHome · 27-06-2019 07:41AM

Bright and early at the coalface, stunning morning out there, busy old day ahead but hope to get finished by early afternoon to go home and enjoy the sunshine in the garden for the evening.

honeybear · 27-06-2019 07:43AM

Beautiful morning. Walkies over. Happy payday!

CrowdedHouse · 27-06-2019 07:47AM

...Lying in the dark and I think I'm beginning to know her, let it go, I'll be there when you call..

Morning all,

Bright hazy morning 15.5C

Kitchen with coffee, I'm happy thanks to friendship.

Kitty6277 · 27-06-2019 07:58AM

Awake early, himself left early and is now having it out with me by text. Am in bed, but I don’t think for much longer, looking like it’ll be time to pack my things and go

Ted_YNWA · 27-06-2019 08:03AM

Autosport wrote:

That's not nice to say to your fiancÃ© Ted

Why did you jump to assume you were in option 2.

It's like you don't even know me !!!

27-06-2019 08:27AM

Deskside, it's dark and cloudy here and I'm cold.

Ariadne · 27-06-2019 08:34AM

Kitty6277 wrote: »

Awake early, himself left early and is now having it out with me by text. Am in bed, but I don’t think for much longer, looking like it’ll be time to pack my things and go

I hope you're ok Kitty, it sounds like leaving is the best decision for you

On the couch waiting for my meds to kick in so I can eat! Therapy at 10, can someone else go for me please? Thanks :pac:

Deja Boo · 27-06-2019 08:49AM

Kitty6277 wrote: »

Awake early, himself left early and is now having it out with me by text. Am in bed, but I don’t think for much longer, looking like it’ll be time to pack my things and go

Someone once told me to look after myself, because he was (indeed) looking after himself.

Take care Kitty, we are here if you need a shoulder.

Skybirdjb · 27-06-2019 09:06AM

Good luck kitty your strong and can do this

Kitty6277 · 27-06-2019 09:41AM

Thank you all so much for your kind words. Not sure where I stand with him at the moment, or what’s going to happen in the future but I suppose time will tell.

I’m currently in the middle of packing my stuff but had to stop because I’m in floods of tears. How is this his fault and yet I’m the one crying? :mad::rolleyes:

Deja Boo · 27-06-2019 09:46AM

A loss is a loss.....of trust and togetherness. Hurts regardless.

<<hugs>>

27-06-2019 10:26AM

Kitty6277 wrote: »

Thank you all so much for your kind words. Not sure where I stand with him at the moment, or what’s going to happen in the future but I suppose time will tell.

I’m currently in the middle of packing my stuff but had to stop because I’m in floods of tears. How is this his fault and yet I’m the one crying? :mad::rolleyes:

I'm so sorry Kitty

Its very painful for you. Is there any chance that things aren't as they seem? An innocent explanation? Is this something both of you could work through? Its just from your posts here you were very happy in this relationship. Maybe wait until you can speak to him face to face before leaving. Texting is a really bad idea for serious things.

Gremlinertia · 27-06-2019 11:00AM

Kitty, all of the hugs *squeeze*

Kitty6277 · 27-06-2019 11:18AM

[Deleted User] wrote: »

I'm so sorry Kitty Its very painful for you. Is there any chance that things aren't as they seem? An innocent explanation? Is this something both of you could work through? Its just from your posts here you were very happy in this relationship. Maybe wait until you can speak to him face to face before leaving. Texting is a really bad idea for serious things.

He gave me his explanation, said he wanted to know if girls liked him :rolleyes: what does it matter what other random girls think, is my opinion not enough for him? He was adamant that he didn’t want me there when he gets back this evening so I left. I’ll let things cool for a few days and see then how things stand.

27-06-2019 11:55AM

Kitty6277 wrote: »

He gave me his explanation, said he wanted to know if girls liked him :rolleyes: what does it matter what other random girls think, is my opinion not enough for him? He was adamant that he didn’t want me there when he gets back this evening so I left. I’ll let things cool for a few days and see then how things stand.

Mind yourself Kitty. Most of us are strangers on thos thread but we are here for you x

27-06-2019 01:07PM

If this posts I'm impressed they have internet out here in the Irish Sea. On one of those Dublin Bay boat trips and the toddler absolutely loves it. We're driving up like Somali pirates next to these massive cargo ships waiting in the bay and on the other side there's these big waves making the boat bob up and down. I'd say they do a roaring trade in sick bags...

Kitty6277 · 27-06-2019 02:46PM

Sitting out in the sun having the chats with Mammy. I’m conscious that I’ve already tended to drag this thread to the “Kitty’s relationship problems thread” so I apologise, but thank you to everyone for being so sweet and supportive. I know we don’t know each other, but your support means so much x

honeybear · 27-06-2019 02:57PM

Kitty6277 wrote: »

Sitting out in the sun having the chats with Mammy. I’m conscious that I’ve already tended to drag this thread to the “Kitty’s relationship problems thread” so I apologise, but thank you to everyone for being so sweet and supportive. I know we don’t know each other, but your support means so much x

Kitty, I’m on here EVERY day about cats, dogs & ducks! Enjoy the chats & the sunshine ... we’ve all been there!

Bobblehats · 27-06-2019 05:20PM

I am comin in outta this hot sun now before I end up looking like some sort of aboriginal sicilian by way of tijuana.

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1 · 27-06-2019 05:46PM

Inside for a spell. A lazy day with just some pottering and sitting in the sun.

Grandeeod · 27-06-2019 05:58PM

On the road this weekend with work. Just clocked out at the tech desk. Gonna go for a ramble in the evening sun and maybe, just maybe enjoy a couple of pints outside, once again people watching.

GoneHome · 27-06-2019 06:01PM

Car was reading 29 degrees on way home from work earlier, garden-side now, food cooking nicely on the BBQ, I'm feckin' starving, gosh wouldn't it be great if the weather was like this all of the time

Poochie05 · 27-06-2019 06:20PM

Home from work, heading gardenside. I don’t mean to complain because it’s warm and the sun is shining but it’s very windy and not very nice to sit out in.
At least I’ll get some towels dry

Mam of 4 · 27-06-2019 06:26PM

Grandeeod and Gone Home , both your evenings sound idyllic tbh , enjoy !

Home for a bit , absolutely fabulous day , long overdue and very welcome , tis good for the soul

Enjoy your evening folks

SaltSweatSugar · 27-06-2019 06:42PM

At home, slathering myself in after sun after getting badly sunburnt during the worst shift of my 11 year career. Absolutely drained.

Thankfully we have a tag game this evening to keep my mind occupied and stop myself going down the rabbit hole.

At times like these I wish I still had my ex to talk to but my colleagues will have to do. No-one else really gets it

Ted_YNWA · 27-06-2019 07:00PM

Back from a run. Its warm out there.

Scrambled eggs, toast & tea.

Netflix later to unwind.

Witchie · 27-06-2019 07:25PM

I was falling asleep in work today but it's nearly midnight and can't get to sleep. Ughhh.

Tomorrow is chock full of meetings and some pressure to get a newsletter out so need to be on my A game.

Still this day 2 weeks I will be packed and getting excited for an early morning flight home. Eeek!

Oh and Kitty, you poor wee pet. Just be good to yourself and let the tears come. There will be crap days and ok days then there will be good days again. Hugs.

I don't know where we're going, but I know where I am (part 7.

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