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Should we protest against the pope's visit?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,589 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Are you going? :eek::D


    I’ll turn up so long as it’s a jolly occasion :p


    For the benefit of those who don’t get the reference -

    In an interview on Ireland's The Late Late Show with Gay Byrne and Sinéad O'Connor in February 1989, Everett was challenged by O'Connor about his support for the Tory Party in the light of his homosexuality and the Conservative's Section 28 addition to the Local Government Act. Everett clarified that he was not a "full Tory", but that he had been appalled by the actions of Arthur Scargill, whom he saw as "inciting violence" and "rabble rousing" [sic] and who he thought looked like "Hitler reborn". He had consequently supported the actions of Margaret Thatcher in opposing Scargill. He said he would stand up for gay rights if he were asked providing "it was a jolly occasion", but he also felt that being in a minority and in the public eye, he could do more for gay rights by showing that he was funny and human rather than by marching in the streets.


    To be completely honest with you, I despise the way some people turn child sexual abuse into a sort of political football to humiliate people who don’t share their ideas. To me it just sounds like an insincere attempt to use an issue which they know full bloody well people are repulsed by. I had lads try to claim I was a paedophile and a paedophile supporter when this stuff was coming out back in the 90’s. Because I knew myself I was neither a paedophile nor a paedophile supporter, their opinions made no difference to me, but they weren’t going to convince me either that they actually gave a shìte about children who were sexually abused. For them it was just about point scoring, as it is now for some posters in this thread. I don’t include you in that obviously.

    But for some posters here it’s as though it really is only point scoring for them, as though it hasn’t occurred to them that many people who have experienced child sexual abuse at the hands of members of the clergy, and have experienced the cover ups, are also still devoutly religious, and are active within the Church, campaigning against the Church Hierarchy which is responsible for covering up the abuse, because that’s not something that they want in their Church. They hold the people responsible for perpetrating child sexual abuse and covering up child sexual abuse responsible for their actions, and they don’t view other members of the Church responsible for the actions of a small minority who used the structure of the organisation to have access to children to sexually abuse them and try and cover it up. They’re working every day to ensure that it doesn’t happen again and that those opportunities aren’t available to paedophiles and child molesters.

    I won’t be attending any event that Colm O’ Gorman is at, because personally, I can’t stand him tbh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    I won’t be attending any event that Colm O’ Gorman is at, because personally, I can’t stand him tbh.

    Ah pity, I would have bought you a pint :)


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,492 ✭✭✭pleas advice


    nothing like a bit of good ol' catholic bashing though, wha?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    nothing like a bit of good ol' catholic bashing though, wha?

    It's not bashing when it's the truth.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    It's not bashing when it's the truth.

    This kind of bashing is never the truth. It is warped and distorted and serves no positive purpose

    read one eyed jack;s balanced and accurate post.

    I rarely come to this thread for that reason. the gossips are worse than the abusers as they revel in what they are at. stir, stir, stir with never a thought for truth


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,950 ✭✭✭B0jangles


    Graces7 wrote: »
    This kind of bashing is never the truth. It is warped and distorted and serves no positive purpose

    read one eyed jack;s balanced and accurate post.

    I rarely come to this thread for that reason. the gossips are worse than the abusers as they revel in what they are at. stir, stir, stir with never a thought for truth


    Really?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,874 ✭✭✭Edgware


    JupiterKid wrote: »
    I really don’t care at this stage. If I heard that the Catholic Church machine gunned down hundreds of children with Uzis in a warehouse I wouldn’t be surprised. Their wickedness and depravity has no bounds.

    They are essentially finished as a force with any sort of power in this country.

    I live right beside the Park and I’m more pissed off that my road and those in my neighborhood will be closed for the duration of this charade. Being hemmed in is pretty inconvenient.
    You'll get over it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,498 ✭✭✭Fighting Tao


    Graces7 wrote: »
    This kind of bashing is never the truth. It is warped and distorted and serves no positive purpose

    read one eyed jack;s balanced and accurate post.

    I rarely come to this thread for that reason. the gossips are worse than the abusers as they revel in what they are at. stir, stir, stir with never a thought for truth

    Nothing to see here....move along. That is exactly the attitude of the RCC when it comes to rapists and pedophiles in their ranks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,618 ✭✭✭erica74


    "The gossips are worse than the abusers":eek:
    I can't believe I just read that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 344 ✭✭buckwheat


    Graces7 wrote: »
    This kind of bashing is never the truth. It is warped and distorted and serves no positive purpose

    read one eyed jack;s balanced and accurate post.

    I rarely come to this thread for that reason. the gossips are worse than the abusers as they revel in what they are at. stir, stir, stir with never a thought for truth

    Jesus fcuking Christ:eek::eek:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Nothing to see here....move along. That is exactly the attitude of the RCC when it comes to rapists and pedophiles in their ranks.

    No it is not and predictably you proved my point by this and the other responsess here

    you choose to dwell in darkness and that is not doing anyone any good

    Ignoring the views of many here, ignoring the progressions to reconciliation, ie ignoring huge sections of the truth

    referring you again to one eyes jacks excellent and balanced post. get up to date!

    over and out again


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,159 ✭✭✭✭ELM327


    Graces7 wrote: »
    This kind of bashing is never the truth. It is warped and distorted and serves no positive purpose

    read one eyed jack;s balanced and accurate post.

    I rarely come to this thread for that reason. the gossips are worse than the abusers as they revel in what they are at. stir, stir, stir with never a thought for truth
    This is the type of crap that needs to die out fast.
    What next, it's not the priest's fault, damn sexy children??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,950 ✭✭✭B0jangles


    • Graces7 wrote: »
      No it is not and predictably you proved my point by this and the other responsess here

    you choose to dwell in darkness and that is not doing anyone any good

    Ignoring the views of many here, ignoring the progressions to reconciliation, ie ignoring huge sections of the truth

    referring you again to one eyes jacks excellent and balanced post. get up to date!

    over and out again


    You should be ashamed of yourself.



    You constantly post defensive gibberish for a hugely powerful and wealthy organization that was, and still is trying to cover up the systemic sexual abuse of children, among many other crimes.


    You are a footsoldier in a war waged against children; I don't know how you can sleep at night.


  • Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators, Regional South East Moderators Posts: 28,573 Mod ✭✭✭✭Cabaal


    ELM327 wrote: »
    This is the type of crap that needs to die out fast.
    What next, it's not the priest's fault, damn sexy children??

    if you read the reports last week you'll find they did actually blame the children, in one instance they tried to claim that the child sought out the priest for a sexual relaionshio
    :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,159 ✭✭✭✭ELM327


    B0jangles wrote: »
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    You are a footsoldier in a war waged against children; I don't know how you can sleep at night.
    Probably over a sewer.....
    Cabaal wrote: »
    if you read the reports last week you'll find they did actually blame the children, in one instance they tried to claim that the child sought out the priest for a sexual relaionshio
    :rolleyes:
    That is absolutely ridiculous. I don't understand how this organisation is not outlawed.


  • Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators, Regional South East Moderators Posts: 28,573 Mod ✭✭✭✭Cabaal


    ELM327 wrote: »
    Probably over a sewer.....

    That is absolutely ridiculous. I don't understand how this organisation is not outlawed.

    Money, connections and people like several posters in this thread trying to defend actions that simply cannot be defended.

    What the defenders seem to forget is the Vatican knew, they knew about all the abuse, they wrote the rules to cover up everything and they documented everything. The current pope and previous popes all knew about the abuses. When they first encountered victims in state investigations the Vatican representatives told them they were telling lies.

    They aren't sorry about the abuse or cover up, they are sorry they got caught. If they were sorry about the abuse and cover up they'd open the Vatican vaults tomorrow, co-operate with every investigation in every country and they'd be very busy meeting abuse victims and ensuring any compensation due to them is paid.

    Instead victims have to go to the media just so the pope will give them 5min when he comes to Ireland, before that there was no such plans for any meeting. You can also bet that who the pope meets will be selected VERY carefully.

    We'll be hearing about abuse carried out by priests and nuns in parts of Africa, Asia etc for decades to come thats likely happening now. That I guarantee


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 661 ✭✭✭work


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Are you going? :eek::D


    I’ll turn up so long as it’s a jolly occasion :p


    For the benefit of those who don’t get the reference -

    In an interview on Ireland's The Late Late Show with Gay Byrne and Sinéad O'Connor in February 1989, Everett was challenged by O'Connor about his support for the Tory Party in the light of his homosexuality and the Conservative's Section 28 addition to the Local Government Act. Everett clarified that he was not a "full Tory", but that he had been appalled by the actions of Arthur Scargill, whom he saw as "inciting violence" and "rabble rousing" [sic] and who he thought looked like "Hitler reborn". He had consequently supported the actions of Margaret Thatcher in opposing Scargill. He said he would stand up for gay rights if he were asked providing "it was a jolly occasion", but he also felt that being in a minority and in the public eye, he could do more for gay rights by showing that he was funny and human rather than by marching in the streets.


    To be completely honest with you, I despise the way some people turn child sexual abuse into a sort of political football to humiliate people who don’t share their ideas. To me it just sounds like an insincere attempt to use an issue which they know full bloody well people are repulsed by. I had lads try to claim I was a paedophile and a paedophile supporter when this stuff was coming out back in the 90’s. Because I knew myself I was neither a paedophile nor a paedophile supporter, their opinions made no difference to me, but they weren’t going to convince me either that they actually gave a shìte about children who were sexually abused. For them it was just about point scoring, as it is now for some posters in this thread. I don’t include you in that obviously.

    But for some posters here it’s as though it really is only point scoring for them, as though it hasn’t occurred to them that many people who have experienced child sexual abuse at the hands of members of the clergy, and have experienced the cover ups, are also still devoutly religious, and are active within the Church, campaigning against the Church Hierarchy which is responsible for covering up the abuse, because that’s not something that they want in their Church. They hold the people responsible for perpetrating child sexual abuse and covering up child sexual abuse responsible for their actions, and they don’t view other members of the Church responsible for the actions of a small minority who used the structure of the organisation to have access to children to sexually abuse them and try and cover it up. They’re working every day to ensure that it doesn’t happen again and that those opportunities aren’t available to paedophiles and child molesters.

    I won’t be attending any event that Colm O’ Gorman is at, because personally, I can’t stand him tbh.

    It is amazing how some people need huge posts to talk cr@p and say very little. In answer to some of your laughable points:
    Where are all these soldiers of justice campaigning against the hierarchy....attending next week to kiss the papal ass. They have some strength of character!
    How often do good non paedophile priests report paedophiles to the police. Pretty much never.
    All this work all these good people do, this army of good people, has achieved very little, because they do not exist and their evil church cannot change.
    On your last point you will not attend anything Colm O'Gorman organised because you cannot stand him. Would you not attend for what the meeting signifies, support and solidarity for those abused. You will never agree with everything everyone stands for but you should be able to stand against the evil of the church than allow a childish dislike stand in your way. Be honest you don't mind posting lengthy drivel but will be pretty quick to find petty excuses to not be inconvenienced by doing anything in the real world.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,721 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    Who is campaigning against the hierarchy then??

    AFAIK, there is nobody still in the ranks of the laity in the church who has publicly criticised anyone in the hierarchy for their failure to act, or in some cases, like Sean Brady, for their active complicity with the abusers. Anyone who did so ended up leaving, or being made to leave.

    The only person I can think of, and that is on another issue, homosexuality, is Mary McAleese - and look at the abuse she gets for speaking up about that.

    I'd really like a few names of prominent lay Catholics who regularly criticise named members of the hierarchy (because some vague hand waves at how terrible it all is is less than nothing, it's distraction and maintaining the status quo.) I can't think of one.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators, Regional South East Moderators Posts: 28,573 Mod ✭✭✭✭Cabaal


    work wrote: »
    I
    How often do good non paedophile priests report paedophiles to the police. Pretty much never.

    Their first port of call would be another priest or bishop,
    so the problem is the church failed good priests in the catholic church too, they thought they were doing right by reporting it to the bishop. only for the bishop to cover the whole thing up


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 636 ✭✭✭7aubzxk43m2sni


    volchitsa wrote: »
    Who is campaigning against the hierarchy then??

    AFAIK, there is nobody still in the ranks of the laity in the church who has publicly criticised anyone in the hierarchy for their failure to act, or in some cases, like Sean Brady, for their active complicity with the abusers. Anyone who did so ended up leaving, or being made to leave.

    The only person I can think of, and that is on another issue, homosexuality, is Mary McAleese - and look at the abuse she gets for speaking up about that.

    I'd really like a few names of prominent lay Catholics who regularly criticise named members of the hierarchy (because some vague hand waves at how terrible it all is is less than nothing, it's distraction and maintaining the status quo.) I can't think of one.

    In fairness Mary McAleese is behaving ridiculously. To call the world meeting of families a "right wing rally" comes across as shrill and hysterical.


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  • Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators, Regional South East Moderators Posts: 28,573 Mod ✭✭✭✭Cabaal


    volchitsa wrote: »
    Who is campaigning against the hierarchy then??

    AFAIK, there is nobody still in the ranks of the laity in the church who has publicly criticised anyone in the hierarchy for their failure to act, or in some cases, like Sean Brady, for their active complicity with the abusers. Anyone who did so ended up leaving, or being made to leave.

    The only person I can think of, and that is on another issue, homosexuality, is Mary McAleese - and look at the abuse she gets for speaking up about that.

    I'd really like a few names of prominent lay Catholics who regularly criticise named members of the hierarchy (because some vague hand waves at how terrible it all is is less than nothing, it's distraction and maintaining the status quo.) I can't think of one.

    McAleese gets a serious amount of abuse alright, alot of it seems to end with...if you don't like it then leave.

    But if she does that and so does everyone else then nothing will change in the church, McAleese is a catholic who wants change. She should be listened to because the church's changes at the speed of a glacier


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,159 ✭✭✭✭ELM327


    In fairness Mary McAleese is behaving ridiculously. To call the world meeting of families a "right wing rally" comes across as shrill and hysterical.
    I agree,
    As a politically right wing but socially liberal person I find her comments abhorrent to right wing voters.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,014 ✭✭✭✭Discodog


    AudreyHepburn & Graces 7 have done this thread a service by giving an insight as to how people can ignore, excuse & justify the actions of the Church. Thousands of people do this every week. They get blinded by their need for something, maybe to conform, maybe because they genuine believe that supporting abusers is the only way to show their faith in God.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Graces7 wrote: »
    This kind of bashing is never the truth. It is warped and distorted and serves no positive purpose

    read one eyed jack;s balanced and accurate post.

    I rarely come to this thread for that reason. the gossips are worse than the abusers as they revel in what they are at. stir, stir, stir with never a thought for truth

    Perhaps you'd point out the lies in question. What bit exactly are you referring to?

    Your last comment....no words. I can only hope you were drunk or tired and it came out badly. You surely can't seriously believe that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭AudreyHepburn


    Discodog wrote: »
    AudreyHepburn & Graces 7 have done this thread a service by giving an insight as to how people can ignore, excuse & justify the actions of the Church. Thousands of people do this every week. They get blinded by their need for something, maybe to conform, maybe because they genuine believe that supporting abusers is the only way to show their faith in God.

    I have not and will not ever justify any injury done to a child be it physical, emotional or sexual.

    I’m ignoring nothing. I have said several times I despise what the church has become and how it has made a near crime to say you believe in God.

    I cannot change what I believe but I do not in any way shape or form support abusers or think it’s ok.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,190 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    ELM327 wrote: »
    I agree,
    As a politically right wing but socially liberal person I find her comments abhorrent to right wing voters.
    "Right wing" describes anyone of a conservative slant. That means that whether you like it or not, when you voluntarily describe yourself as "right wing", you put yourself in the company of other conservatives, whatever form that may be.

    The Catholic Church is conservative. The people who follow it are conservative. This is a huge gathering of conservative people to fawn over the conservative leader and listen to him preach conservative ideas unchallenged.

    I'm not sure how "right-wing rally" is anything except accurate?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,783 ✭✭✭✭murpho999


    I have not and will not ever justify any injury done to a child be it physical, emotional or sexual.

    I’m ignoring nothing. I have said several times I despise what the church has become and how it has made a near crime to say you believe in God.

    I cannot change what I believe but I do not in any way shape or form support abusers or think it’s ok.

    But by going to their event on Saturday and seeing their leader is supporting them.

    How can you not see that?


  • Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators, Regional South East Moderators Posts: 28,573 Mod ✭✭✭✭Cabaal


    I have not and will not ever justify any injury done to a child be it physical, emotional or sexual.

    I’m ignoring nothing. I have said several times I despise what the church has become and how it has made a near crime to say you believe in God.

    I cannot change what I believe but I do not in any way shape or form support abusers or think it’s ok.

    Its not a crime to believe in god and nobody thinks that.
    But if you believe in god then fine be a christian,

    What exactly makes you want to be a catholic? Is it their core beliefs such as transubstantiation? Their views against women priests? The fact they want to believe Mary was a Virgin? Or is it because like most people in Ireland your parents were catholic?

    What makes you choose the catholic church over all the others?

    This is a serious question for you.

    Going to mass, giving money to the catholic church etc, means like it or not that you support the catholic church. You support its beliefs and views including their dim view on women and how they view gay people. You can say you don't but as long as you continue to go to mass and blindly and sit and say nothing you only give a free card to the church.

    if you don't like these things then be the change in the church, speak out. i honestly think more people need to call out priests when they spout such hate during mass.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,014 ✭✭✭✭Discodog


    I have not and will not ever justify any injury done to a child be it physical, emotional or sexual.

    I’m ignoring nothing. I have said several times I despise what the church has become and how it has made a near crime to say you believe in God.

    I cannot change what I believe but I do not in any way shape or form support abusers or think it’s ok.

    My neighbours are an elderly couple. He was abused & will never go near a church. His wife still goes. She is a good person, compassionate & caring. Somehow she justifies going to church in her mind & it baffles me.

    Most priests are late middle aged or elderly. They all knew of abuse, accepted it & were complicit in it.

    I am trying to rationalise why Irish society is so willing to ignore what the church did.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭AudreyHepburn


    Cabaal wrote: »
    Its not a crime to believe in god and nobody thinks that.
    But if you believe in god then fine be a christian,

    What exactly makes you want to be a catholic? Is it their core beliefs such as transubstantiation? Their views against women priests? The fact they want to believe Mary was a Virgin?

    What makes you choose the catholic church over all the others?

    This is a serious question for you.

    Going to mass, giving money to the catholic church etc, means like it or not that you support the catholic church. You support its beliefs and views including their dim view on women and how they view gay people. You can say you don't but as long as you continue to go to mass and blindly and sit and say nothing you only give a free card to the church.

    if you don't like these things then be the change in the church, speak out. i honestly think more people need to call out priests when they spout such hate during mass.

    It feels like it is though and I can tell that you others on this thread think that way even if you don’t admit it. Some of you even assume I am ok with child abuse and all the other crimes committed by the church which is hurtful and unfair.

    To be fair I’m more a lapsed Catholic- I don’t go to church and just say my own prayers privately when I feel the need. I don’t subscribe to the church’s darker teachings at all.

    I suppose I say I’m Catholic because how else can I describe myself - I’m Not Muslim or Jewish or Buddhist.


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