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Fiance's parents and arguments

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    Steviesol
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    Yes that is what I am suggesting, logic goes out the window when it comes with Narcissistic people . It took me years of "toing" and "froing" with similar grand parents and it took no contact at all to finally gain freedom. If I had of known then what I know now etc...


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    Emme
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    No Contact unless you want to spend all your life at the beck and call of the narcissist and having all communication on their terms. The grandchildren will learn from that and grow up with very messed up ideas of communication and relationships.

    No Contact is the only healthy way to deal with narcissists.


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    LegacyUser
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    Steviesol wrote: »
    I would strongly advise against this, all you are doing is getting in the ring with them time and time again, which they will love.

    No Contact, no excuses. Get on with your life.

    I'm not going to take that advice. The last thing I want now is to be bang in the middle of this and be an in-between for them.

    For as long as they are ignoring him, I won't be responding to them.


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