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Question regarding Date &

  • 14-06-2018 08:50PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    This is a personal issue for me. I would like people's opinions regarding this.
    If someone went on a date with another person (both had a great time and said this, there was chemistry and attraction on both sides). But one person is going away for 9 weeks.
    What normally would the person that's going away do (keep in touch, have no contact, etc)? I know one date is not a lot but there was something about this person. (For the record it's not me going away.) I would just like people's opinions on what they would do. Thanks


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    Leave it, it was one date. See what happens in 9 weeks time, not that long. You could potentially ruin it by texting through their holiday


  • #3
    LegacyUser
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    Why not ask them if they'd like to keep in touch? It's irrelevant what any else thinks, either they want to keep in touch, or they don't.


  • #4
    Neyite
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    Keep in touch, but with no expectations of fidelity or waiting around.



    If you are both single in 9 weeks and both feel like you want a second date, go for it. If one of you meets someone else, good for them and wish them well.


  • #5
    Dixie Chick
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    9 weeks is both long and short. I think leave the texting etc off while away as you could end up using a lot of headspace about it in that time and essentially ruin anything that is to come. After 9 weeks then you can resume the contact ?


  • #6
    Airyfairy12
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,455 ✭✭✭Airyfairy12


    If they dont text within 2 weeks send a short message asking how theyre doing, how the trip is going and you hope theyre having fun. If they dont respond you have your answer.


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