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8th amendment referendum part 3 - Mod note and FAQ in post #1

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Mrsmum


    And also, much more statistically likely, a rapist, murderer or other criminal. Seeing as we are playing what it's.

    You completely missed the point so I'll say it again - any child has the potential to be President but it needs more than just being, growing and developing for that to happen whereas every healthy foetus will become a born person unless harmed.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,121 ✭✭✭amcalester


    even for ridiculous reasons?

    I don’t think it’s even possible to diagnose for cleft lip before 12 weeks so your point is irrelevant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭BabysCoffee


    even for ridiculous reasons?

    A woman's reason for seeking an abortion is none of your business.

    Who are you to judge?

    Her body her choice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,894 ✭✭✭Triceratops Ballet


    even for ridiculous reasons?


    Do you want women to consult you on all their decisions because of their inherent untrustworthy-ness?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,488 ✭✭✭Wrongway1985


    I would repeal the 8th if there was no unrestricted abortion but I won’t now. Look at other countries in Europe.....

    The Swiss had a referendum on the very issue in 2002 which passed by popular vote, numbers surprisingly actually dropped and are nothing like those in the UK. By looking at other countries it just shows we are miles behind.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    I feel ireland willbenefit because we won’t have unrestricted abortion . I think unrestricted abortion is wrong and by getting rid of the 8th, we are letting down our country.
    That is my humble opinion. Of course, FFA, rape , incest & occasional circumstances require abortion but absolutely not on demand. I would repeal the 8th if there was no unrestricted abortion but I won’t now. Look at other countries in Europe.....
    Are the Uk benefiting from 1 out 5 pregnancies resulting in abortion?
    Look at other reasons for abortion , irresponsible decision making on contraception, diagnoses of Down’s syndrome, cleft lip etc. if this is what abortion on demand represents then I’m out.

    And what benefit does keeping "unrestricted abortion" out of Ireland bring?

    As far as I'm concerned, a persons reasons for accessing it are not my business. Will some of them be for reasons I may not agree with? Maybe. But they're not my decisions to judge.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    A..... the patient’s womb must also be removed. .......

    What frightens me more about this statement is that you actually get a vote. This is the most frightening thing I have heard to date. Compulsory hysterectomys.

    You do know that if you are under 40 it is impossible to get a hysterectomys in this "good catholic country" for a medical problem (excessive bleeding, etc). Obstetricians just won't do it.

    I know, to stop frivalous abortions, lets make all men have a vasectomy, unless they are married to a good catholic girl so that their seed is only used for procreation.

    My suggestion is as bizarre as your suggestion - body autonomy for all.

    If you want to controll a woman's reproductive organs, lets also control a mans. Afterall, we don't get pregnant on our own.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,677 ✭✭✭PhoenixParker


    even for ridiculous reasons?

    The thing is we can glibly dismiss cleft palate as a ridiculous reason sitting comfortably in our armchairs judging.

    But it's a condition that, if severe, can need multiple surgeries and hospital visits.

    In a normal situation that's tough but can be managed.

    But lives are complicated. Maybe there's already a disabled child that needs constant care, a long drive to the hospital, a very tight financial situation that can't allow for time off work, a single mother already juggling three children, an elderly parent that can't be left, a struggle for mental health, . . .Or a combination of several of the above and more.

    Personally I believe we should trust women to decide, with their doctors and families, and based on their own circumstances.

    Not that any of this is relevant to the debate as there is no proposal to allow for abortion for foetal related reasons after 12 weeks except for fatal fatal abnormalities, of which cleft palate by itself is not one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,917 ✭✭✭✭iguana


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    I’ve also genuinely never heard of anyone aborting for something as minor and trivial as a cleft lip - are you worried because you are close to women who you feel might abort for such a ridiculous reason?

    Cleft palate is a common and deliberate obfustication used by pro-birthers. Cleft palate can be a minor, largely (but not entirely) cosmetic birth defect. It's brought up to make undecideds think that there are such unfeeling women out there who will abort her baby because it won't look perfect. The reality is that cleft palate is also a symptom of numerous genetic syndromes, including the fatal foetal abnormality of Patau's Syndrome (trisomy 13), and is often the first indicator that leads to this diagnosis.

    Anyone using cleft palate as a pro-birth argument is either a disgusting, disgusting person who is twisting the painful reality of bereaved families as an example of horrible, looks obsessed baby-murdering women. Or they are a dupe who has been taken in by those disgusting, disgusting people. And it really is an utterly disgusting tactic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123



    I will be voting no as I don't agree with unrestricted abortion up till 12 weeks. I agree with it if it is a necessary procedure ie fatal faetal abnormality etc . However the proposed followup legislation has convinced me to vote no........
    .

    Yet another one - you are not voting on abortion - you are voting on repeal of a constitutional amendment - legislation comes later.

    How on earth do you plan on policing whether its for FFA, rape, incest, life threatening to the mother? How? its an absolute nonsense. One doctor will say yes, another says no, another has another think about it and in the meantime the woman is like a tennis ball being batted from one to the other. A rape committee? Outrageous.

    The last no poster here got banned for trolling as he was looking to introduce forced hysterectomys.

    Repeal all the way - body autonomy for all not just for men


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 168 ✭✭dublinbuster


    white irish christians NO
    black,brown,yellow muslims, jews, hindus ect YES
    its not that difficult to come to a correct position on abortion

    Mod-Action has been taken about this post. Read on and stop reporting it please.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    white irish christians NO
    black,brown,yellow muslims, jews, hindus ect YES
    its not that difficult to come to a correct position on abortion

    I’m a white non practicing Christian and I’m voting Yes?
    What a racist comment.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,106 ✭✭✭PlaneSpeeking


    Now you've got it!

    even for ridiculous reasons?

    I do hate to be the bearer of unpleasant news to you but Downs Syndrome isn't just a case of a child looking a bit different. Often there are inherent health issues- such as heart defects.

    My neighbour had her first child at 47. No scan or anything (daughter was born in late 60s not long before me). Both parents died before Doreen left school.

    I remember her as one of the happiest peoole I've evee met. But she was never out of hospital and I believe the stress of her care killed the parents before their time. She herself passed away at 22.

    I doubt they'd have aborted their child had they known but do not dismiss people who abort a child with DS as making a "ridiculous choice".


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 168 ✭✭dublinbuster


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    I’m a white non practicing Christian and I’m voting Yes?
    What a racist comment.

    Race is a social construct, it does not exist, so how can one be racist?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,894 ✭✭✭Triceratops Ballet


    Race is a social construct, it does not exist, so how can one be racist?


    How is this relevant?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    Race is a social construct, it does not exist, so how can one be racist?

    Give over.
    If your point is that white Irish born people are opposed to abortion, and other races and religions are in favour of it, I hate to break it to you but you are factually incorrect.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    Lads stop answering these new No posters. They are only trolling, the admin yesterday almost blew a gasket. Clearly the racist comment was posted just to draw a response. Adds nothing to the repeal campaign and shows how lame the No campaign is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 212 ✭✭Dressing gown


    I feel ireland willbenefit because we won’t have unrestricted abortion . I think unrestricted abortion is wrong and by getting rid of the 8th, we are letting down our country.
    That is my humble opinion. Of course, FFA, rape , incest & occasional circumstances require abortion but absolutely not on demand. I would repeal the 8th if there was no unrestricted abortion but I won’t now. Look at other countries in Europe.....
    Are the Uk benefiting from 1 out 5 pregnancies resulting in abortion?
    Look at other reasons for abortion , irresponsible decision making on contraception, diagnoses of Down’s syndrome, cleft lip etc. if this is what abortion on demand represents then I’m out.


    Please can you read official statistical reports on abortion in the UK. I think I read 47% if the women obtaining abortions were on contraception that failed. Apologies I can’t find where I read that I’m travelling and only on my phone but I think it’s in here...

    https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/679028/Abortions_stats_England_Wales_2016.pdf


    I have a family member who was born with severe cleft palate in the last 10 years. It was not detected on any scans it was discovered at birth. It can now also be operated on in utero.

    To be extremely crude about whether the UK benefits from abortion. In Scotland it is mostly women from deprived areas who are obtaining abortions.

    See

    Do you think that it is easy to get out of poverty if you have kids to pay for and can’t afford childcare to go back to work? Do you think forcing families that have next to nothing

    http://www.isdscotland.org/Health-Topics/Sexual-Health/Publications/2013-05-28/2013-05-28-Abortions-Report.pdf

    already to have more children is good for them or society? Can you imagine the pressure those people are under financially?

    I also had a miscarriage at 11weeks. At the time t broke me. But I recovered. I would never recover if I lost one of my kids. A fetus is not a child. I appreciate people having ethical concerns with abortion. But I don’t appreciate imposing ones own ethical concerns on everyone.

    I also have friends in the UK and Ireland with kids with Down’s syndrome. And guess what, they are in favour of repealing the 8th.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,492 ✭✭✭pleas advice


    I do hate to be the bearer of unpleasant news to you but Downs Syndrome isn't just a case of a child looking a bit different. Often there are inherent health issues- such as heart defects.
    ...
    I doubt they'd have aborted their child had they known but do not dismiss people who abort a child with DS as making a "ridiculous choice".
    i was more questioning the other posters use of the phrase 'ridiculous reasons', especially when we are being told to 'trust women' and that the reason shouldn't matter


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,898 ✭✭✭✭Ken.


    Mod-Dublinbuster do not post here again. reason-Racist.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    i was more questioning the other posters use of the phrase 'ridiculous reasons', especially when we are being told to 'trust women' and that the reason shouldn't matter

    My point was that the vast, vast majority of women will NOT abort over some trivial willy nilly reason. I asked did he know anyone who he felt would abort for such a reason, because the answer to that is likely No.
    Think of the women you know and love, you trust them, so trust other women.
    And to play devils advocate, if a woman were to abort for a petty reason such as a minor cleft palate (if there were no other chromosomal issues) for cosmetic reasons, I would argue that a woman like that should not be in a position to be caring for a child with additional needs.
    It certainly wouldn’t be in the child’s best interests to be reared by a mother like that.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 168 ✭✭dublinbuster


    Lads stop answering these new No posters. They are only trolling, the admin yesterday almost blew a gasket. Clearly the racist comment was posted just to draw a response. Adds nothing to the repeal campaign and shows how lame the No campaign is.

    From the left wing playbook, When you cant argue the point with someone call them racist.

    Mod-Banned


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,057 ✭✭✭.......


    This post has been deleted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,894 ✭✭✭Triceratops Ballet


    From the left wing playbook, When you cant argue the point with someone call them racist.

    Nobody can argue with you because you have failed to submit any actual points for consideration.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,312 ✭✭✭Nettle Soup


    Have the No side any honour?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,385 ✭✭✭✭gmisk


    OK is there going to be a 50 post minimum before posting on this thread? There are so many new accounts posting racist, sexist, homophobic drivel on this thread.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    Replying to Nettle soup

    No because you can't defend the indefensible.

    We want choice for all. Abortion will not be compulsory but it gives a choice to others that need it for whatever their reason is. Its none of my business why you want it but I will fight as much as I can for your choice to be able to have it.

    I have a teenage daughter, I want her to obtain any medical assistance she needs or wants in this country.

    Repeal all the way


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,059 ✭✭✭✭spookwoman


    I do hate to be the bearer of unpleasant news to you but Downs Syndrome isn't just a case of a child looking a bit different. Often there are inherent health issues- such as heart defects.

    My neighbour had her first child at 47. No scan or anything (daughter was born in late 60s not long before me). Both parents died before Doreen left school.

    I remember her as one of the happiest peoole I've evee met. But she was never out of hospital and I believe the stress of her care killed the parents before their time. She herself passed away at 22.

    I doubt they'd have aborted their child had they known but do not dismiss people who abort a child with DS as making a "ridiculous choice".

    The other sad reality is there just isn't the backup services in Ireland to support families of DS or other disabilities. Not everyone is able or strong enough to care for them. Is it wrong for them to want to terminate honestly I can't say because it's not me who will have go through the pregnancy or raise that child. Let women and their families make that choice, it's their lives their futures.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    gmisk wrote: »
    OK is there going to be a 50 post minimum before posting on this thread? There are so many new accounts posting racist, sexist, homophobic drivel on this thread.

    I don't think you could introduce such a rule for this thread in particular as it's in AH.

    I think going forward though if new accounts post content like what you've described here we should promptly report them and ignore them.

    We need to stick to this rather than entertaining them, it only detracts from the discussion at hand and if we know what they're saying is that bad, then it's obvious the mods do too.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,898 ✭✭✭✭Ken.


    ....... wrote: »
    This post has been deleted.

    Not even surprised anymore. If you could see the deleted posts you'd be like that dude that opens the box in raiders of the lost ark.
    gmisk wrote: »
    OK is there going to be a 50 post minimum before posting on this thread? There are so many new accounts posting racist, sexist, homophobic drivel on this thread.

    Cannot see that working to well. But keep reporting suspects and we'll deal with them.


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