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Can a Christian vote for unlimited abortion?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    Gerry T wrote: »
    Why does she have to rear it, if she doesn't want to she can put it up for adoption. There's a very long list of couples waiting for a baby to love and care for.

    Actually domestic adoption in this country is pretty much non existent, what we actually have is long term foster care.
    You can only adopt in Ireland after long term fostering, and unfortunately the care system is such a mess that by the time the child has been fostered long enough, the majority of children have social, emotional and behavioral issues and become very hard to place. Nobody wants to adopt them then.
    That’s why you’ll find the majority of parents looking to adopt do so internationally.

    So you think the baby would prefer to be aborted than born and adopted.

    Silly argument. How are we to know what a baby would or would not prefer?
    The best interest of the child. There's that word again "want" the mother doesn't want to be pregnant. Well tough luck, your want is trumped by the baby's need.
    Luckily for women, equality rights movements have secured great protections for working women. They can exit the workplace and have a baby, taking months out, full in the secure knowledge that their job is waiting for them. This should rule out many a reason given for abortion.

    I believe the opinion/wants/needs of a living, breathing woman are far superior to that of a clump of cells that has potential to be human. I don’t feel forcing motherhood on someone is fair on the woman or the child.

    What about women who don’t have a job? Or women who are experiencing domestic violence? Or women who can’t cope or afford any more children?
    I agree equality rights have improved in recent years but that’s not the issue here. The issue is that there simply isn’t enough support from the government to justify forcing a woman to stay pregnant.
    Its relevant if you expand on your point,it becomes a question as to when is a baby not a baby. As far as I'm concerned, its a baby straight after conception, and that will continue to develop for 18yrs (+/- some years) before it becomes an adult.
    What has survival outside the womb got to do with it, silly argument. It can't survive alone outside the womb after a natural birth either. It doesn't change the fact that given a couple of months the baby will develop and remain a baby. At leat be honest and call it what it is, termination of a babys life.

    Survival outside the womb has everything to do with it.
    When it can survive outside the womb, the baby can be passed into state care/social services to be cared for by foster parents.
    In the early stages of pregnancy, removal of the baby will result in a termination, because the baby simply cannot survive without the woman.
    You are entitled to believe it is a child from the moment of conception but that doesn’t mean that you are right.
    Develop is a key word in your reply here - it can develop into a baby.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    I would advise you to listen to me, as time is short.
    I'm afraid that the time has come.

    That was quick.
    Gerry T wrote: »
    When your pregnant your a guardian for another person, that responsibility carries a duty of care. If you want to "rename" that person as a lump of meat, fine, if that's how you reason putting the mothers wants above another persons needs fine. It doesn't change the face your arguing for a want above a need.
    Gerry T wrote: »
    It was an example, and the childs needs are more important that the mothers wants. I do think if it came to endangering the mothers health, physically or mentally then that is a need and would in my opinion take priority over the babys.

    I fail to see how any of this supports your argument that the father's wants should be a factor in a woman's decision. In fact, I notice you've completely cut the father out of the picture in your comments above. I think you need planning permission to move the goalposts that far.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,493 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    Actually domestic adoption in this country is pretty much non existent, what we actually have is long term foster care.
    You can only adopt in Ireland after long term fostering, and unfortunately the care system is such a mess that by the time the child has been fostered long enough, the majority of children have social, emotional and behavioral issues and become very hard to place. Nobody wants to adopt them then.
    That’s why you’ll find the majority of parents looking to adopt do so internationally.

    so we change the system. we do what we can to make it possible for parents in ireland to give a loving home to children in the care system here.
    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    I believe the opinion/wants/needs of a living, breathing woman are far superior to that of a clump of cells that has potential to be human. I don’t feel forcing motherhood on someone is fair on the woman or the child.

    the only time your point works is where the unborn puts the life of the mother in danger. other then that the unborn's right to life is equal to that of the mother.

    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    What about women who don’t have a job? Or women who are experiencing domestic violence? Or women who can’t cope or afford any more children?
    I agree equality rights have improved in recent years but that’s not the issue here. The issue is that there simply isn’t enough support from the government to justify forcing a woman to stay pregnant.

    agreed and that needs to change. allowing murder of the unborn won't bring that change however. in fact it will probably make it less likely.
    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    Survival outside the womb has everything to do with it.

    it doesn't really as the baby is still fully dependant on the mother for survival.

    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    When it can survive outside the womb, the baby can be passed into state care/social services to be cared for by foster parents.
    In the early stages of pregnancy, removal of the baby will result in a termination, because the baby simply cannot survive without the woman.
    You are entitled to believe it is a child from the moment of conception but that doesn’t mean that you are right.
    Develop is a key word in your reply here - it can develop into a baby.

    i think we can probably agree it's not a child from conception. however it is definitely a life, that is indisputable fact.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,528 ✭✭✭Gerry T


    NuMarvel wrote: »
    I fail to see how any of this supports your argument that the father's wants should be a factor in a woman's decision. In fact, I notice you've completely cut the father out of the picture in your comments above. I think you need planning permission to move the goalposts that far.
    I haven't moved the goal post, if a woman needs an abortion because of risk to her life (physical or mental), then yes that in my book is a priority. But if a woman only wants an abortion and the father wants the child then she should be compelled to carry it and let the father have sole custody. She of course should contribute to the cost of raising the child, means tested.
    I then went on to say it also makes sense if the reason for the abortion is only a "want" then the mother should carry the child and then give it up for adoption.

    I like the planning permission comment, I'll use that myself some time :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    Gerry T wrote: »
    I haven't moved the goal post, if a woman needs an abortion because of risk to her life (physical or mental), then yes that in my book is a priority. But if a woman only wants an abortion and the father wants the child then she should be compelled to carry it and let the father have sole custody.

    It's like you read the Handmaid's Tale and thought "This is a good idea" :rolleyes:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 336 ✭✭NaFirinne


    Delirium wrote: »
    just to be clear, you want to outlaw sex outside of marriage to avoid the requirement for abortion?

    To cut down the amount of unwanted babies yes.

    It's a start.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 336 ✭✭NaFirinne


    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    So you are in favour of taking away free will from grown adults?

    Define free will?

    Would you not have to get rid of all law to gain your kind of free will?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 336 ✭✭NaFirinne


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Cause no married couples ever have abortions

    It's a start.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 336 ✭✭NaFirinne


    I'm afraid that the time has come.


    They have short time left - 70 years for a generation - around 2035 maybe?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,854 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    NaFirinne wrote: »
    To cut down the amount of unwanted babies yes.

    It's a start.

    How would you go about implementing and enforcing this ridiculous law?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    In 2016, 49% of the Irish women who had abortions in Britain were married or in a civil partnership. So any kind of suggestion that making people marry would eliminate or reduce the incidence of abortion is completely unrealistic. (Aside from the fact that suggesting we should make people marry for any reason is itself preposterous.)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 336 ✭✭NaFirinne


    NuMarvel wrote: »
    In 2016, 49% of the Irish women who had abortions in Britain were married or in a civil partnership. So any kind of suggestion that making people marry would eliminate or reduce the incidence of abortion is completely unrealistic. (Aside from the fact that suggesting we should make people marry for any reason is itself preposterous.)


    How many of those people abstained from sex until married or in that partnership?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    NaFirinne wrote: »
    How many of those people abstained from sex until married or in that partnership?

    How is that relevant? What does being married have to do with anything?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    NaFirinne wrote: »
    How many of those people abstained from sex until married or in that partnership?

    Somewhere between none and all. What difference does it make?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 336 ✭✭NaFirinne


    How would you go about implementing and enforcing this ridiculous law?

    How is any part of the constitution enforced?

    The amounts of deaths happening in the world is almost doubled by abortion.

    Wars , famine, disease, old age all kill less then abortion does.

    The world would benefit with more christian focused people in the world who follow the ways that Christ has thought us.

    The amount of abortions in the world is a disgrace.

    This whole do anything you like as long as it doesn't hurt others is destroying society's.

    Abortion is murder to a Christian -

    Asking a christian do you support abortion is asking them to support murder.

    A Christian cannot support murder.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    wrote:
    Originally Posted by WhiteRoses
    I believe the opinion/wants/needs of a living, breathing woman are far superior to that of a clump of cells that has potential to be human. I don’t feel forcing motherhood on someone is fair on the woman or the child.
    Can we please talk about reality ... a 12 week old unborn child is unmistakably Human ... complete with functioning Brain, Heart, blood circulation system, arms, legs ... the works!!!
    Its just a tiny tiny fully formed baby ... and all it needs to do is to grow ... exactly like all a newborn baby need to do is to grow.

    pregnancy-week-12-eyelids_4x3.jpg

    It is no more a 'clump of cells' than you or I are a 'clump of cells'.

    https://www.babycenter.com/fetal-development-week-by-week


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    Are you suggesting we punish women who have sex for pleasure outside of marriage? And punish those who get caught or get pregnant?

    Because we actually used to do that for many years. They were called the Magdalene laundries and they actually destroyed more families than we’ll ever be able to comprehend.

    Taking people’s civil liberties from them and going back to this prehistoric notion that people can only have sex while married would be a huge mistake.
    I’d like to think as a society we’ve moved on a long way since those types of attitude were socially acceptable.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,846 ✭✭✭54and56


    J C wrote: »
    Can we please talk about reality ... a 12 week old unborn child is unmistakably Human ... complete with functioning Brain, Heart, blood circulation system, arms, legs ... the works!!!
    Its just a tiny tiny fully formed baby ... and all it needs to do is to grow ... exactly like all a newborn baby need to do is to grow.

    You make it sound like it could survive at 12 weeks which you know it can't, right?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,854 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    NaFirinne wrote: »
    How is any part of the constitution enforced?

    The amounts of deaths happening in the world is almost doubled by abortion.

    Wars , famine, disease, old age all kill less then abortion does.

    The world would benefit with more christian focused people in the world who follow the ways that Christ has thought us.

    The amount of abortions in the world is a disgrace.

    This whole do anything you like as long as it doesn't hurt others is destroying society's.

    Abortion is murder to a Christian -

    Asking a christian do you support abortion is asking them to support murder.

    A Christian cannot support murder.

    To change the constitution you would have to have a referendum, do you honestly think a referendum to ban sex befire marraige would even be proposed never mind passed?

    As I said, a ridiculous idea.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    NaFirinne wrote: »
    How is any part of the constitution enforced?

    The amounts of deaths happening in the world is almost doubled by abortion.

    Wars , famine, disease, old age all kill less then abortion does.

    The world would benefit with more christian focused people in the world who follow the ways that Christ has thought us.

    The amount of abortions in the world is a disgrace.

    This whole do anything you like as long as it doesn't hurt others is destroying society's.

    Abortion is murder to a Christian -

    Asking a christian do you support abortion is asking them to support murder.

    A Christian cannot support murder.

    We don't enforce our current abortion laws. We haven't prosecuted anyone for an illegal abortion since the 60s or 70s. And even though the penalty has been reduced, there's no political or public appetite to bring another prosecution. We even went so far as to change our constitution to make sure we couldn't prosecute anyone who travelled.

    So presumably, you'd want us to enforce your suggestion in the same way.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    J C wrote: »
    Can we please talk about reality ... a 12 week old unborn child is unmistakably Human ... complete with functioning Brain, Heart, blood circulation system, arms, legs ... the works!!!
    Its just a tiny tiny fully formed baby ... and all it needs to do is to grow ... exactly like all a newborn baby need to do is to grow.

    pregnancy-week-12-eyelids_4x3.jpg

    It is no more a 'clump of cells' than you or I are a 'clump of cells'.

    https://www.babycenter.com/fetal-development-week-by-week

    You clearly persist in posting that cartoon in an effort to emotionally blackmail me into feeling guilt for my position.
    It won’t work. I am not pro abortion, I am pro women having bodily autonomy and control over their lives.
    If the result is abortion then so be it.
    I care about living women more than potential humans.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 336 ✭✭NaFirinne


    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    You clearly persist in posting that cartoon in an effort to emotionally blackmail me into feeling guilt for my position.
    It won’t work. I am not pro abortion, I am pro women having bodily autonomy and control over their lives.
    If the result is abortion then so be it.
    I care about living women more than potential humans.

    Have a listen to this very Interesting interview

    http://www.spiritradio.ie/louises-story/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,846 ✭✭✭54and56


    After Fianna Fail (Bertie, Cowen et al) oversaw (or at least were asleep at the wheel) leading the greatest financial crisis of our lifetime I swore I'd never EVER again even consider voting for them or giving any sort of credence to what they do or say but today's brave statement by Michel Martin where he so eloquently explained why, having taken the time to research the issue, he has now changed his mind and will be voting in favour of repealing the 8th.

    I believe this to be a major milestone in building momentum for a successful repeal of the 8th as many many people who previously would have voted against repealing the 8th will now reassess their reasoning with many changing their position just like Mr Martin now has.

    Regardless of what side you are on we should all take a couple of minutes to read this - https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/politics/four-reasons-michel-martins-speech-on-abortion-is-significant-36505371.html

    Having the leaders of all the main parties so publicly and articulately in favour of repealing the 8th is a major step forward!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    Are you suggesting we punish women who have sex for pleasure outside of marriage? And punish those who get caught or get pregnant?

    Because we actually used to do that for many years. They were called the Magdalene laundries and they actually destroyed more families than we’ll ever be able to comprehend.

    Taking people’s civil liberties from them and going back to this prehistoric notion that people can only have sex while married would be a huge mistake.
    I’d like to think as a society we’ve moved on a long way since those types of attitude were socially acceptable.
    I know that we have come a long way since those attitudes towards vulnerable women were socially acceptable.

    Nobody is talking about 'punishing' women ... just helping todays generation of vulnerable women to not kill their unborn children.

    What you are talking about, is happily consigned to history.

    ... and trying to justify the killing of unborn children on the basis that a tiny minority of their grandmothers suffered greviously (and totally unacceptably) at the hands of society is quite irrational IMO.

    Two wrongs don't make a right ... and its certainly not the fault of innocent unborn children today, that previous generations of women didn't all have an ideal life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,846 ✭✭✭54and56


    NuMarvel wrote: »
    We don't enforce our current abortion laws. We haven't prosecuted anyone for an illegal abortion since the 60s or 70s. And even though the penalty has been reduced, there's no political or public appetite to bring another prosecution. We even went so far as to change our constitution to make sure we couldn't prosecute anyone who travelled.

    So presumably, you'd want us to enforce your suggestion in the same way.

    If only there was the appetite for it I'd be 100% in favour of having a referendum which gave voters two choices:-

    1. Repeal the 8th as is being suggested.

    2. Introduce a new amendment which made prosecuting any Irish citizen having an abortion regardless of whether that's within the Rep of Ireland or not.

    That would truly test the appetite within the country for banning abortion. At the moment a large cohort can smugly pat themselves on the back for being protectors of the unborn yet all they have achieved is the export of abortion so in true NIMBY fashion they can raise their hands and declare "there's no on demand abortion here"!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,528 ✭✭✭Gerry T


    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    Actually domestic adoption in this country is pretty much non existent, what we actually have is long term foster care.
    You can only adopt in Ireland after long term fostering, and unfortunately the care system is such a mess that by the time the child has been fostered long enough, the majority of children have social, emotional and behavioral issues and become very hard to place. Nobody wants to adopt them then.
    That’s why you’ll find the majority of parents looking to adopt do so internationally.
    I agree, had a friend that tried for yrs, IUI then IVF, by the time he gave up he was told they were too old to join the adoption route, think he was 36 at that stage. Luckily he had money and did what you said, adopted in east Europe. But given the choice i'd prefer to change the adoption system to allowing on demand adoption.
    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    I believe the opinion/wants/needs of a living, breathing woman are far superior to that of a clump of cells that has potential to be human. I don’t feel forcing motherhood on someone is fair on the woman or the child.
    Needs I agree with you. But wants/opinion are just a selfish reason for termination , after conception yes their is a potential to have a baby and by a process of extrapolation there is potential to have a child, potential to have a teen, potential to have and adult. Their all just steps in a life. All the mother has to do is live, nothing extraordinary (in most cases) and a baby is born. There is no argument that can be given to say what you have after conception is any different to any of the stages of life for a person.
    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    What about women who don’t have a job? Or women who are experiencing domestic violence? Or women who can’t cope or afford any more children?
    I agree equality rights have improved in recent years but that’s not the issue here. The issue is that there simply isn’t enough support from the government to justify forcing a woman to stay pregnant.
    Being pregnant won't change any of those scenarios, but if the woman's life was in danger I think that would be a reason for termination provided all other avenues of help were exhausted and failed.
    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    Survival outside the womb has everything to do with it.
    When it can survive outside the womb, the baby can be passed into state care/social services to be cared for by foster parents.
    In the early stages of pregnancy, removal of the baby will result in a termination, because the baby simply cannot survive without the woman.
    You are entitled to believe it is a child from the moment of conception but that doesn’t mean that you are right.
    Develop is a key word in your reply here - it can develop into a baby.
    Like I said before this is a matter of opinion, not a scientific proof. There is life and left alone it will hopefully flourish.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,528 ✭✭✭Gerry T


    NuMarvel wrote: »
    It's like you read the Handmaid's Tale and thought "This is a good idea" :rolleyes:
    Have you a point to make or are you just throwing sarcastic comments about


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    You clearly persist in posting that cartoon in an effort to emotionally blackmail me into feeling guilt for my position.
    It is an accurate and anatomically correct representation of a 12 week old unborn child.

    I'm not attempting to guilt anybody ... just showing you what this 'clump of cells' looks like, that people in the pro-abortion lobby keep talking about, to distance themselves from the obvious Humanity of unborn children.
    WhiteRoses wrote: »
    It won’t work. I am not pro abortion, I am pro women having bodily autonomy and control over their lives.
    If the result is abortion then so be it.
    I care about living women more than potential humans.
    The 12 week old unborn child is fully Human ...and not 'potentially Human'.
    Equally, the right to bodily autonomy for everyone logically stops at using our autonomy to harm somebody else, other than in self defense, where no other option is available.

    I too care fully about living women ... indeed I'm married to one and I have a teenage daughter ... both of whom are pro-life themselves.

    Do you think that pro-life women don't care about living women?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    Gerry T wrote: »
    Have you a point to make or are you just throwing sarcastic comments about

    Both.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,615 ✭✭✭✭J C


    NaFirinne wrote: »
    Have a listen to this very Interesting interview

    http://www.spiritradio.ie/louises-story/
    Very interesting ... and an amazing testimony from this woman, who had an abortion.

    It proves that abortion certainly isn't the panacea that the abortion lobby would like us to think that it is, for vulnerable pregnant women.

    ... and, of course it always results in the needless death of an unborn child.

    Good to see that this women has had a good life since she recovered from the trauma and deep regrets that her abortion caused ... by accepting the forgiveness of Jesus Christ ... and becoming a Christian.


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