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Is this an abusive relationship?

LegacyUser · 2018-01-05 23:23:01

Hi all, Myself and my partner have been going through a very tough time lately and I'm beginning to feel like I am in an abusive relationship. We are both in our early 30s, together about 2 years. We moved in together about 6 months ago but the problems I will list below have been there for a while before that, I just…

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#32 12-01-2018 12:50PM

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Get the hell out before she "accidentally" gets pregnant and uses your child to control you for the rest of your life.

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#33 15-01-2018 06:50PM

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Get out while you can OP or put out some ground rules to see if anything changes.

Sounds very familiar to what I had to go through years ago until I saw some sense.

You should not be accepting this kind of behaviour. A partner is meant to be supportive not the opposite. Sounds like a tinge of bipolar aswell, happy one minute, mad as hell the other.

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