Most disturbing thing someone has said to you?

sadie1502 · 21-05-2017 01:09PM

I'd do time for you. Just one night with you.

Nice chat up line.

Hector Bellend · 21-05-2017 01:11PM

sadie1502 wrote: »

I'd do time for you. Just one night with you.

Nice chat up line.

I wish someone would say that to me. I'd gladly take them up on their offer.

One eyed Jack · 21-05-2017 01:21PM

A work colleague explaining the intricacies of her time of the month in graphic detail... because "it's something every man needs to know about". I certainly didn't

Widdershins · 21-05-2017 01:36PM

On Facebook a woman posted a meme with a hippy looking woman sitting in a forest, with a pool of blood on the ground. It was clearly meant to be her own blood.

I can't remember what it said, something about ''If women rose rooted'' or ''Women who run with wolves.''. I commented that it was a bit early in the morning or I was eating my lunch and she said ''what's wrong with you, Widdershins, I thought you liked seeing another human being's blood.'' What?!

indioblack · 21-05-2017 01:48PM

Alivia Thundering Hag wrote: »

"Is this a dagger I see before me?"

Put it away - I'm having me breakfast, Kate.

Tokyo · 21-05-2017 01:52PM

About a year ago on a night out, a co-worker headbutted me and threatened to kill me for (apparently) looking at his girlfriend the wrong way - I wrote it off to him being a drunken idiot.

Six months later, in a new job, he beat a co-worker to death in similar circumstances, and went on the run, and is currently on interpol's most wanted list.

bikubesong · 21-05-2017 01:53PM

I was standing at a bus stop when I lived in London and a guy, mid-30s also waiting for a bus, approached me. He said something to me but it was really garbled and non-sensical, I couldn't tell if he was speaking a different language or perhaps had a learning disability. Anyway, asked him to repeat himself and still couldn't grasp what he was saying so I just said 'Sorry, I'm not sure what you mean' and pointed towards the screen displaying the incoming buses due etc, presuming he was asking about a bus. He nodded his head and wandered off a few feet.

Two minutes or so later he came back over to me with his phone in his hand, again mumbling something indecipherable gesturing towards me to look at the screen. I looked and his notes app was open, with just the word 'Rape' written there.

I just took a few steps away from him and he didn't try to come near me again. It was such a freaky experience though. The worst thing was seeing what was written on the screen and feeling my heart racing and looking around at everyone else at the bus stop who were, of course, totally oblivious.

timthumbni · 21-05-2017 02:13PM

punisher5112 wrote: »

Suppose the latest was had a guy in town tell me he will fcuk my mother my sisters my missus daughter and any other family member and then stab them all to death among a lot of other things.

Nice guy¿

Was he Russian by any chance? Those ones from around Eastern Europe seem to be very much into that sort of insult.

greencap · 21-05-2017 02:16PM

”I want to be reincarnated as your tampon.” – Prince Charles to Camilla.

Do you know how far a woman would run if you said that without being a billionaire.

timthumbni · 21-05-2017 02:16PM

NewbridgeIR wrote: »

Some years ago I went to the pub for a post-work drink with a few colleagues. I was about to order a pint but got a call from a friend asking me could I collect him from the airport (he was about to board his flight from London). So I ordered a coke.

Went down to the table where the others were and saw an unfamiliar face (Mr X) - turns out he was an acquaintance of one of my workmates. I noticed that he had a very intense stare. I explained that I couldn't stay too long as I had collect my friend in about an hour. A few minutes passed and the other lads were engrossed in a conversation about rugby. I was listening but not really taking part.

Mr X stares at me and asks "will this be your last time going to the airport?"
I blink and ask him what does he mean.
He just repeats the question.
I say hopefully not.

About 20 minutes I get up to leave. Mr X turns to me as I am going and says "none of us know what the future holds".

Very odd.

I actually laughed out loud when I read that. But in a nervous way.

That's pretty freaky...

punisher5112 · 21-05-2017 02:17PM

timthumbni wrote: »

Was he Russian by any chance? Those ones from around Eastern Europe seem to be very much into that sort of insult.

No from africa.

Have encountered a few Russians on nights out.

Summer wind · 21-05-2017 02:57PM

In a bar years ago my husband and I were having a drink. A man we knew vaguely came over and stood beside us and ordered a drink. We started chatting and the fact that we had moved into a new house the previous Wednesday was mentioned because we were all around the same age and looking at property in the area. He said "oh the only day I'd move would be on a Friday. It's bad luck to move on any other day. You'd never know what could happen, maybe one of your children could die or something"
Now I know he was either a total moron or a prize prick but that remark made me so upset that when we moved again 13 years later I made sure it was on a Friday. It makes me angry that a stupid remark like that had such an effect on me but every time I think of it I still feel uneasy.

jeanjolie · 21-05-2017 03:01PM

mike_ie wrote: »

About a year ago on a night out, a co-worker headbutted me and threatened to kill me for (apparently) looking at his girlfriend the wrong way - I wrote it off to him being a drunken idiot.

Six months later, in a new job, he beat a co-worker to death in similar circumstances, and went on the run, and is currently on interpol's most wanted list.

pics or....

r93kaey5p2izun · 21-05-2017 03:04PM

mike_ie wrote: »

About a year ago on a night out, a co-worker headbutted me and threatened to kill me for (apparently) looking at his girlfriend the wrong way - I wrote it off to him being a drunken idiot.

Six months later, in a new job, he beat a co-worker to death in similar circumstances, and went on the run, and is currently on interpol's most wanted list.

I think I heard about him. Scottish fella and there's now an issue over arrest and extradition so he may get away with it. Lucky escape!

TerrorFirmer · 21-05-2017 03:14PM

mike_ie wrote: »

About a year ago on a night out, a co-worker headbutted me and threatened to kill me for (apparently) looking at his girlfriend the wrong way - I wrote it off to him being a drunken idiot.

Six months later, in a new job, he beat a co-worker to death in similar circumstances, and went on the run, and is currently on interpol's most wanted list.

I used to work with a guy as a teenager, by all accounts and experience a nice guy, always got on just fine with him....until one night we were out (I wasn't drinking as I was 15; guy was probably about 30) and he got really drunk and threatened to kill me because...... apparently I broke his phone charger.

He pinned me up against a wall with his forearm across my throat and slurred something about checking the roster and how it must have been me and if I didn't admit it I was dead.

Not the most disturbing thing that's ever been said to me but your story reminded me of it.

micar · 21-05-2017 03:15PM

Used to teach TEFL ( teaching English as a foreign language).

Taught Italians kids (14 to max 18 year olds). Think it was a intermediate level.

Posed a question to them. Can't remember what it was. Something about person you wouldn't never want to meet.

As I was walking around the class one particular student ( definitely one of the oldest girls I the class) said me rather than the whole class "my rapist".

I was totally shocked. Didn't know what to say. Part of me thought, did I hear her right?

Lorelli! · 21-05-2017 03:17PM

When I was about 12, my friends and I made a hut in the bushes in a nearby field. I went home for dinner and when I got back to the hut with one of my friends, two of the boys were tied up and asking for help. Then a man in his early 40s came in through another entrance of the hut. I was freaking out at that stage and then your man was like "surprise, it's a joke"

Apparently it was his idea to tie the lads up as a joke to scare me and my friend

Anyway he could see I wasn't amused and left after a few minutes. I remember saying to the boys after he left, "please don't let a 40 something year old strange man tie you up like that again"!

wakka12 · 21-05-2017 03:22PM

Lorelli! wrote: »

When I was about 12, my friends and I made a hut in the bushes in a nearby field. I went home for dinner and when I got back to the hut with one of my friends, two of the boys were tied up and asking for help. Then a man in his early 40s came in through another entrance of the hut. I was freaking out at that stage and then your man was like "surprise, it's a joke"

Apparently it was his idea to tie the lads up as a joke to scare me and my friend

Anyway he could see I wasn't amused and left after a few minutes. I remember saying to the boys after he left, "please don't let a 40 something year old strange man tie you up like that again"!

Jesus ,who was he? Reminds me of the lovely bones..!

Lorelli! · 21-05-2017 03:25PM

wakka12 wrote: »

Jesus ,who was he? Reminds me of the lovely bones..!

He wasn't from our neighbourhood but I recognised his face to see around the community. He was a bit of a loner type, I think.

wakka12 · 21-05-2017 03:34PM

Lorelli! wrote: »

He wasn't from our neighbourhood but I recognised his face to see around the community. He was a bit of a loner type, I think.

But was he a paedophile do you think? Or maybe just a bit slow/weird playing an innocent prank that may have just happened to look off?

Irish Guitarist · 21-05-2017 03:37PM

I was sitting by the river one day when a scumbag who is known to be a convicted rapist started telling me about his latest trouble with the law. He was going to be up in court for something he and "a black lad" did to a girl. He said "it was nothing too bad". His idea of 'not too bad' would be different from most peoples. Then he said that the guards had said that the girl was "some whore" to report him. He gave me the fucking creeps.

21-05-2017 03:37PM

MadDog76 wrote: »

Have you been back to the Airport since?

A few times, yes.

Lorelli! · 21-05-2017 03:41PM

wakka12 wrote: »

But was he a paedophile do you think? Or maybe just a bit slow/weird playing an innocent prank that may have just happened to look off?

I don't know. All I know is that he was hanging around the hut that day and somehow thought that would be a funny joke! Probably just a bit of an oddball.

steddyeddy · 21-05-2017 04:31PM

osarusan wrote: »

"Nanking never happened, it is Chinese propaganda."

Japan right? A Japanese colleague told me Pearl Harbour was blown out of proportion.

freshpopcorn · 21-05-2017 05:35PM

I was in M&S before and a woman came up to me and rang a bell over my head and said I was going to hell for having curly hair!

Widdershins · 21-05-2017 07:21PM

My friend's mother to her when she turned 43: ''It's your arse or your face now Mary but you'd want to put on a bit of weight''

In the early stages of a relationship the person said to me ''I'll ruin you.'' I didn't find this disturbing but it might've sounded sinister, coming from anyone else.

blade1 · 21-05-2017 07:27PM

Someone that I wouldn't know really well,asked me do I know anyone that would do a "job" on her husband.
When I kinda half laughed at her, she said "what are you laughing at, I'm serious". :eek:

Agricola · 21-05-2017 07:40PM

Playing corner forward years ago for my club one weekend, this big bruiser of a back squared up to me before the throw-in and just said;

"Don't even think of giving me any grief today, or I'll break both your fúcking arms under the high ball"

I tell ya, Under-14 camogie is no joke.

RabbleRouser2k · 21-05-2017 08:09PM

A few things said to me over the years, and one said to a cousin of mine that still lingers 15+ years later. All different people.

"Bin Laden had f**k all to do with 9/11-have you ever heard of a false flag operation?'...guy would put a piece of blue tack/ putty over the web cam on his laptop so that he couldnt' be spied on. Smoked a ton of weed (I don't do drugs, but he would talk about it, and how he'd been smoking it for 20 years or more).

(During a study on a holocaust memorial) "Sure there always going on about the holocaust, and all those jews killed-but sure there's worse things happened. Let it go like, it's been year. But you don't hear about them cos the Jews control the media." (Yeah, he was Irish). Just sat there in silence-couldn't really say anything to something like that.

This was said to my cousin-but it was one of those 'WTFH?' moments. So almost 20 years ago, my aunt had breast cancer. She had surgery, mastectomy, radiation and chemotherapy treatment. My cousin, her daughter bumped into someone who knew her mum. Paraphrasing, bar the last line.
Acquaintance:"Is it true your mother has cancer?"

A:"...I suppose she's lived long enough". At the time, my aunt was in her late 40s, early 50s-but even if she had been in her 60s or 70s, or 100, it didn't matter.

Needless to say, my cousin was raging with what she said, walked off-something like that didn't deserve a response.

gordongekko · 21-05-2017 10:08PM

silverharp wrote: »

Hi, I'm from Fianna Fail

I love enda kenny

Most disturbing thing someone has said to you?

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