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Now Ye're Talking - to an Irish escort

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    #272
    stockdam
    Registered Users Posts: 3,472 ✭✭✭stockdam


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    Of course not all men cheat. I just wouldn't be as naive anymore as I was a few years ago. I don't come to conclusions as such but doing what I do it's hard for me not to think more about it .
    And no it wouldn't enter your head . Why would it ? It enters mine because married men visit me all the time and I'm in this line of work.
    That's the reason.

    Yes I understand the reason. What you do obviously gives you a different, and dare I suggest, a lopsided view of the world. You implied that it affects how you trust people and that must affect relationships with men.......you may not trust them fully as the people that you come into contact with are not truthful. That's a bit sad that you cannot trust people fully.

    If you didn't do what you do then most of these men wouldn't cheat so you will have to admit that you are part of the problem. Yes the men are at fault and would probably find an alternative but you are making it easy for them to cheat. Not all of your clients cheat but it appears that you imply that a lot do.

    Serious question.........do you have any feelings for the women who are being cheated on?
    Btw I'm not saying that what you do is wrong but you are making it easy for some people to do what you probably don't really like or approve.


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    #273
    MayoAreMagic
    Registered Users Posts: 2,922 ✭✭✭MayoAreMagic


    Interesting thread, mainly down to your forthright and open attitude to answering. Fair play.

    If in the future, you had a daughter, how do you think you would you feel about her entering the profession?

    If in the future, you were happily married and settled etc and had left the profession behind you, and you found your other half had been using escorts throughout your time together, how do you think you would react?


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    #274
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    TPD wrote: »
    I'm a firm believer that prostitution always has and will be a part of society, and should be legalised and regulated, but in discussions it has been put forward that the girls involved have had some personal trauma / difficult upbringing that may lead them to this line of work. Would you say this is true for you? Not looking for anything more than a yes/no. Very interesting ama, thanks!

    No not at all


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    #275
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    livedadream wrote: »
    i used work the front desk of a hotel, most of the time they are aware and dont care... as long as theres no drama its a room booked and paid for.
    do you have a system to ensure you stay protected? in case of an emergency, i know you said you only see regulars but still..

    do you think tv shows like secret life of a call girl glamourise the job?

    That's reassuring to hear.
    I haven't seen that show so I can't comment but I have watched another one and yes it does look like it was glamorised to some extent


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    #276
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Klopp wrote: »
    A few questions;

    How old are you, i don't want exact age but over or under thirty?

    Do you have to travel far or do you choose the location & hotel with your regular clients?

    Have you come across any girls who also do this but also work or are you very much on your own and keep to yourself?

    I do travel yes! I always use the same hotels.
    I keep myself to myself to be honest. I don't want to get friendly with any of the other girls. I'm sure they're lovely but I just prefer it this way. The less people who know I do this the better, for me anyway


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    #277
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    stockdam wrote: »
    Yes I understand the reason. What you do obviously gives you a different, and dare I suggest, a lopsided view of the world. You implied that it affects how you trust people and that must affect relationships with men.......you may not trust them fully as the people that you come into contact with are not truthful. That's a bit sad that you cannot trust people fully.

    If you didn't do what you do then most of these men wouldn't cheat so you will have to admit that you are part of the problem. Yes the men are at fault and would probably find an alternative but you are making it easy for them to cheat. Not all of your clients cheat but it appears that you imply that a lot do.

    Serious question.........do you have any feelings for the women who are being cheated on?
    Btw I'm not saying that what you do is wrong but you are making it easy for some people to do what you probably don't really like or approve.

    It does sound heartless of me to say this but no I don't think about the wives or girlfriends. I look after number 1 and I'm not going to feel guilty for doing so.


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    #278
    scudzilla
    Registered Users Posts: 11,913 ✭✭✭✭scudzilla


    What's your favourite type of cheese?


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    #279
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    scudzilla wrote: »
    What's your favourite type of cheese?

    A quarter pounder with cheese !!!


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    #280
    TerrorFirmer
    Closed Accounts Posts: 29,930 ✭✭✭✭TerrorFirmer


    A very interesting AMA.

    I just wonder - I know you say you don't feel guilty for what you do, and while I agree there's no reason you should, do you ever worry that it might come out at some time, some point, an unspecified time along the entire span of your life when you meet someone, have kids, etc?

    Also, if you met a client that was genuinely someone you were attracted to physically/mentally, would you say yes if they asked you out or do you have a 'no dating' sort of mindset? I'm just wondering at what point you would consider hanging up the hat - is there a predefined idea of when that might be, or more a case of 'when I meet the right person'?

    Thanks!


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    #281
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    TerrorFirmer wrote: »
    A very interesting AMA.

    I just wonder - I know you say you don't feel guilty for what you do, and while I agree there's no reason you should, do you ever worry that it might come out at some time, some point, an unspecified time along the entire span of your life when you meet someone, have kids, etc?

    Also, if you met a client that was genuinely someone you were attracted to physically/mentally, would you say yes if they asked you out or do you have a 'no dating' sort of mindset? I'm just wondering at what point you would consider hanging up the hat - is there a predefined idea of when that might be, or more a case of 'when I meet the right person'?

    Thanks!

    Yes of course I worry. There's a lot to think about when I'm doing it as in don't forget to turn off location settings on my phone, make sure my car is running well and not going to break down somewhere miles away from home etc
    I have a no dating approach to it and if I did become too close to a guy I wouldn't see him again. End of.
    It will probably be when I meet the right person yes


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    #282
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    MayoAreMagic wrote: »
    Interesting thread, mainly down to your forthright and open attitude to answering. Fair play.

    If in the future, you had a daughter, how do you think you would you feel about her entering the profession?

    If in the future, you were happily married and settled etc and had left the profession behind you, and you found your other half had been using escorts throughout your time together, how do you think you would react?

    If I had a daughter I wouldn't be happy about it of course I wouldn't. Hypocritical of me yes I know but I'm being truthful.

    I'd finish it with him. Full stop. Hypocritical again yes I know


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    #283
    sheroman01
    Registered Users Posts: 4,662 ✭✭✭sheroman01


    Do your friends/family not ask where you are the whole time? Presumably you get a lot of missed phone calls from friends/family too. Would they not be suspicious of your unavailability?


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    #284
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    sheroman01 wrote: »
    Do your friends/family not ask where you are the whole time? Presumably you get a lot of missed phone calls from friends/family too. Would they not be suspicious of your unavailability?

    As far as anyone's concerned I'm just off doing my normal job
    No not at all I don't get a lot of missed calls I'll always call them back when I can anyway


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    #285
    northknife
    Registered Users Posts: 464 ✭✭northknife


    Excuse the pun but is it no hol(d)es barred or do is depend on the size of the customer?


    Have you ever had a guy who you thought was too big and you had to say no?


    Would you ever have a converstaion with one of your customers that you have fallen for and see if there was a possibility of a long term relationship?


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    #286
    eviltwin
    Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Do you ever have appointments on days where you just don't want to have sex? How do you get through it? Do your clients treat you with respect?


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    #287
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    northknife wrote: »
    Excuse the pun but is it no hol(d)es barred or do is depend on the size of the customer?


    Have you ever had a guy who you thought was too big and you had to say no?


    Would you ever have a converstaion with one of your customers that you have fallen for and see if there was a possibility of a long term relationship?

    I haven't fallen for any of them ! That would be very silly of me to do so


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    #288
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Do you ever have appointments on days where you just don't want to have sex? How do you get through it? Do your clients treat you with respect?

    If I just didn't want to do it I'd take the day off. That's happened plenty of times. It can get exhausting especially the travelling part of it
    All my clients are so respectful. I'm lucky. It would only take a guy to be disrespectful once and I wouldn't see him again


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    #289
    Klopp
    Registered Users Posts: 482 ✭✭Klopp


    You keep this other life and secret very close to yourself and take all the necessary steps to protect it from coming out to your family with your planning, but with a house, a nice car and two holidays a year, which you mentioned a few pages back. If you're working part-time, surely there are some suspicions from family members about these cost unless i am wrong when in fact they think you work actually full-time?


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    #290
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Klopp wrote: »
    You keep this other life and secret very close to yourself and take all the necessary steps to protect it from coming out to your family with your planning, but with a house, a nice car and two holidays a year, which you mentioned a few pages back. If you're working part-time, surely there are some suspicions from family members about these cost unless i am wrong when in fact they think you work actually full-time?

    No they aren't suspicious at all. I'm single and I don't have any children so why would I not be able to afford things ? They think I work more hours in my normal job anyway so it's fine.
    I would often mention in passing about having a credit card or "oh I must start throwing more money into the credit union for my holiday loan"
    It's not that hard to come up with ways to keep people off the scent


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    #291
    lanomist
    Registered Users Posts: 245 ✭✭lanomist


    What site do you advertise on and do you take female clients and what would be the oldest client you had.


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    #292
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    lanomist wrote: »
    What site do you advertise on and do you take female clients and what would be the oldest client you had.

    The eldest was in his 70s


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    #293
    eviltwin
    Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Has this work changed your opinion of men ?


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    #294
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Has this work changed your opinion of men ?

    I've already answered this


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    #295
    mikeoneilly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 479 ✭✭mikeoneilly


    Have enjoyed the open and honest answers here.

    The biggest surprise for me was that you only made 1200 at most in a week.I was expecting that figure to be much higher.


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    #296
    MrStuffins
    Registered Users Posts: 19,154 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    Great AMA! Fair play to you doing it.

    I'm not sure how to ask this question without coming across as a bit of a d*ck so forgive me.

    Before becoming an escort, would you have been more promiscuous than normal?


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    #297
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    mikeoneilly wrote: »
    Have enjoyed the open and honest answers here.

    The biggest surprise for me was that you only made 1200 at most in a week.I was expecting that figure to be much higher.

    Thank you .
    I could make more but I choose to do it part time and only see 5-6 people a day max


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    #298
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    Great AMA! Fair play to you doing it.

    I'm not sure how to ask this question without coming across as a bit of a d*ck so forgive me.

    Before becoming an escort, would you have been more promiscuous than normal?

    Yes I was ! Sex and money were my two favourite things


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    #299
    eviltwin
    Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    Thank you .
    I could make more but I choose to do it part time and only see 5-6 people a day max

    5-6 a day!!! How many of those would involve sex? Physically does it take a toll on your bits?


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    #300
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    eviltwin wrote: »
    5-6 a day!!! How many of those would involve sex? Physically does it take a toll on your bits?

    They are all sex ! Not all full sex thou


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    #301
    from_atozinc
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,943 ✭✭✭from_atozinc


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    They are all sex ! Not all full sex thou

    What do you mean by "not all full sex" ?


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