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What were you like when you were at school?

  • 09-12-2016 01:13AM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 199 ✭✭


    Got a school reunion coming up after Christmas. 15 years since I left school. They are organising it after 2 of our year died during the year. I am going but am a bit nervous about going back again.

    It got me thinking about what I was like at school. Up to Junior Cert i was very quiet and shy. My brother was ahead of me and did really well in class and at sport and I was never as good as him so that sort of held me back and I was always compared (badly) to him. I was never top of the class or anything but did OK in exams.

    After I went back after Junior Cert my brother had left and I had done summer work and was more confident. I got involved in sports more and played hurling for the school. I still didn't do brilliant academically but I did alright and got into college.

    I didn't get into too much trouble at school - mainly just for getting caught smoking which I started around Junior Cert. I remember having to pay a €2 fine and having to do litter duty. I only really had one fight and my parents were called up over that and it didn't happen again.

    What were other people like at school - did you get into much trouble?

    Have you ever been at a school reunion - had people changed much since being at school?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 16,411 ✭✭✭✭Arghus


    Forgettably average, but I had a vivid internal life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,831 ✭✭✭degsie


    I was like, a student, like.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,166 ✭✭✭✭nullzero
    °°°°°


    Younger.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,692 ✭✭✭Stigura


    I was just a child then. Now I'm only a man.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,400 ✭✭✭me_irl


    A little cheeky cúnt.

    Now I'm an older cheeky cúnt.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,687 ✭✭✭andekwarhola


    Bit inattentive but was good academically. Got on well with most people and teachers but clashed with some teachers for being cheeky and stroppy and ended up suspended at one stage. Did OK in the end though, got into university.

    Ran the whole gamut of fashions from football terrace to indie head.

    Ironically, my eldest son is just like me and I now find myself having to pull him up over it.

    Went to a small reunion once and enjoyed it. Most were good people then and still are albeit I don't want to go to them regularly.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    I was one of those rocker kids. Big baggy trousers, multi coloured hair, black eyeliner, piercings, band names scrawled over everything I owned. I was a bit weird tbh.

    Had a very small circle of friends, but am still friends with most of them today! Went a bit mental in 6th year when I broke up with my "high school sweetheart" and ended up leaving 3/4 of the way through the year and studying from home.

    So yeah....weird.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,736 ✭✭✭Irish Guitarist


    I had maybe four or five friends in primary school. When I started secondary school I started falling out with them because I wasn't 'cool'. I started hanging around with complete morons. I knew they were using me because I would do stupid things and give them a laugh but I figured it was better than having no one to talk to. After a couple of years I fell out with them too.

    After I did my junior cert and got my summer holidays I didn't return to school because I couldn't take any more abuse. A lot of it was verbal but there was other shit like my 'friends' chewing up bits of paper and spitting them at me. They would suck on these buts of paper for 5 or 10 minutes before spitting them at me. After every single geography class my neck would be absolutely covered in spit.

    I've met people I went to school with in the street and they've said hello to me. Most of the time I don't even answer them. It's 24 years since I left school. They may think it's water under the bridge but I still remember vividly how they made me feel. There's no way I'd go to a reunion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,692 ✭✭✭Stigura


    I was one of those rocker kids. Big baggy trousers, multi coloured hair, black eyeliner, piercings, band names scrawled over everything I owned. I was a bit weird tbh.

    Had a very small circle of friends ......

    Are ye surprised? :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    Stigura wrote: »
    Are ye surprised? :p

    I was also in the musical society.....it's a miracle I got out alive.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 65 ✭✭bikubesong


    I was terrible for daydreaming and whispering to my mates in class but I was kinda allowed get away with it because I excelled academically. Don't remember ever getting in any kind of trouble really. Had a nice circle of friends. We weren't the popular kids and we weren't the social outcasts/oddballs.

    Emotionally though, I had a very rough time during those years, although I bottled all that stuff up. I wouldn't relive my teenage years for all the tea in China.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,597 ✭✭✭Witchie


    I went to an all girls school and for the most part was kinda cool and popular, well according to one of my best mates who I met in first year and she couldnt believe that someone as cool as me was friends with her. We still meet at least once a week and if we don't message each other once a day we think the other is dead.

    I got on with most of the teachers but not until was in the senior cycle. In the junior cycle I was a cheeky wee bitch.

    We had a strict uniform policy where we had a choice of jackets - a maroon coat or a brown duffel coat. My mum had bought me an acid dyed denim jacket which looked kinda like an attempt to dye it maroon. Denim was strictly forbidden in school but I brazenly wore it and when a teacher tried to take it off me I told them that I had stayed up all night trying to dye it to suit their stupid rules. She didn't take it. When another teacher did take it I went to the staff room at the end of the day and demanded it back. When they refused I said I was ringing the guards. They gave it back.

    Yeah was a total pain in the arse but then grew out of it and became the person who teachers relied on to get the rest of the class on side.

    Cruised through classes on an A trajectory until I developed asthma and started missing school and was being bullied by one bitch so didn't really want to go to school much so then ended up doing a **** leaving cert. Oh well.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 199 ✭✭Conor84


    Witchie wrote: »
    We had a strict uniform policy where we had a choice of jackets - a maroon coat or a brown duffel coat. My mum had bought me an acid dyed denim jacket which looked kinda like an attempt to dye it maroon. Denim was strictly forbidden in school but I brazenly wore it and when a teacher tried to take it off me I told them that I had stayed up all night trying to dye it to suit their stupid rules. She didn't take it. When another teacher did take it I went to the staff room at the end of the day and demanded it back. When they refused I said I was ringing the guards. They gave it back.

    That sounds a bit like that scene in "Synge Street" where the guy dyes his shoes to fit in with the colour rules and then the Brother takes him on. Loved that film - went to a Brothers school - and some of the things reminded me of my school.

    We had a lovely gray uniform - blue tie for junior cert, black tie for leaving Cert. Never heard of school's having a coat policy though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭maudgonner


    I was a complete swot and a bit of a pain in the arse know-it-all. :o

    In reality I was very shy and had no self-confidence at all. I was good in class and did well in exams but not comfortable at all socially. So I thought the only way I could be 'me' was to be the smartest one in class.

    It took me till my 30s to shake off the awkwardness and feel relatively happy in my own skin. So when people say school days are the best days of your life and they'd love to be young again? Nah, not for me. Lots of things I'd like to do differently, but I'd never want to go back.


  • Posts: 15,055 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Spent most of my life trying to get out of the school and away from the people in it. Couldn't pay me to 'reunite' with them.

    As an aside, I was a spectacularly indifferent student. Was never cheeky or an ass, or treated anyone badly, but equally had no interest whatsoever in being there in the first place. Was like going to prison each day.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 617 ✭✭✭Ferrari3600


    Top of the class academically, considered a 'diligent student', but never a lick-arse.

    S.hite at sports.

    Since then have become an alco and an utter piss artist.

    Suffice to say I fell into bad company, and kind of liked it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 12,444 ✭✭✭✭J Mysterio


    maudgonner wrote: »
    I was a complete swot and a bit of a pain in the arse know-it-all. :o

    You're still a bit like that ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,692 ✭✭✭Stigura


    Alright. F**k it. Bit of a tangent here. But, I just have to get this one off my chest, before I die and it becomes my last memory ......

    I pretty much grew up knowing Adam Gay. Perfectly nice guy. Might as well have been called Adam Gray. He was just so remarkably in the back ground. By our teens, he'd become just another lad I knew, from the old school.

    Then, one day, the local (other religious denomination) school sent their Goliath. Or he came of his own accord. I dunno. Anyway, this guy stood at the school gate, calling out the name of some lad. Obviously, word spread like wild fire. But, the lad never appeared. Word had it he was hunkered down somewhere, brick laying.

    Then, for some reason I've never in the least fathomed, this guy starts calling for my old mate; the quiet, completely unnoticeable, Adam Gay.

    Someone gleefully rushed into the common room, where Adam was minding his own business. They breathlessly told Adam that this monster at the gate was now calling him.

    Adam said, " Oh. ". He put down what ever he was doing. Walked out to the gate. Knocked the c**t spark out, with a single punch. Walked back to the common room and quietly resumed what he'd been doing.

    F**king Legend! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭maudgonner


    J Mysterio wrote: »
    You're still a bit like that ;)

    I'm still a swot (with extra added social skills - a tiny bit extra anyway) but now I know enough to know that I don't know it all :pac:

    Definitely still a pain in the arse though!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,062 ✭✭✭368100


    Painfully shy with very few friends....which led to me being a complete pushover and bullied for most of my time there.

    Fast forward 18 years (wow) and I'm still a little shy but learned to stand up for myself, and no way the pushover than I was, something I had to learn for myself to toughen up.....also have a great wide circle of friends and would be fairly popular, so much so that people don't believe me when I tell them what I was like at school.

    It's funny though, i met someone I was at schoo with recently and we discussed reunions etc, i didn't go to the 10 year one.....the thoughts fill me with dread and I feel like I'd revert back to being so shy if I did go to one.....have no idea why.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 617 ✭✭✭Ferrari3600


    368100 wrote: »
    Painfully shy with very few friends....which led to me being a complete pushover and bullied for most of my time there.

    Fast forward 18 years (wow) and I'm still a little shy but learned to stand up for myself, and no way the pushover than I was, something I had to learn for myself to toughen up.....also have a great wide circle of friends and would be fairly popular, so much so that people don't believe me when I tell them what I was like at school.

    It's funny though, i met someone I was at schoo with recently and we discussed reunions etc, i didn't go to the 10 year one.....the thoughts fill me with dread and I feel like I'd revert back to being so shy if I did go to one.....have no idea why.

    Do you mind if I make a recommedation?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    me_irl wrote: »
    A little cheeky cúnt.

    Now I'm an older cheeky cúnt.

    Yeah, I'm sure that's exactly what you want everyone to believe.

    You know something. You ought to spend a little more time trying to do something with yourself and a little less time trying to impress people.

    You might be better off.

    All right, that's it! I'm going to be right outside those doors. The next time I have to come in here, I'm cracking skulls!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 889 ✭✭✭messy tessy


    Great academically, if I had an interest in the subject, to the point where I used to ask for extra English homework (just for myself not the rest of the class). For the subjects I didn't particularly enjoy I still did pretty good.

    Was very very awkward though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 263 ✭✭eet fuk


    Yeah, I'm sure that's exactly what you want everyone to believe.

    You know something. You ought to spend a little more time trying to do something with yourself and a little less time trying to impress people.

    You might be better off.

    All right, that's it! I'm going to be right outside those doors. The next time I have to come in here, I'm cracking skulls!

    Does Barry Manilow know you raided his closet?


  • Moderators, Music Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,740 Mod ✭✭✭✭Boom_Bap


    I was a pr*ck in school. I'm still a pr*ck. :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 12,444 ✭✭✭✭J Mysterio


    Great academically, if I had an interest in the subject, to the point where I used to ask for extra English homework (just for myself not the rest of the class). For the subjects I didn't particularly enjoy I still did pretty good.

    Was very very awkward though.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    A rocker with excellent grades, on the debate team, and assumed to be a lesbian by everyone.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    Quiet shy tomboy metalhead, loved maths and science and hated everything else.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,059 ✭✭✭✭osarusan


    They came down on me like a ton of bricks, because I was only fooling myself the way I was behaving.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,300 ✭✭✭✭razorblunt


    A bit of a messer, in the "talking in class" sense. I think teachers refused to let me away with it as they knew I could do really well in exams but I was coasting by on minimal effort. They were right though, I did a relatively poor (by my standards and theirs) LC but got my 3rd choice course. I had maintained if I didn't get the top 3 I'd resit the LC.

    Didn't like the course but I was always focused on what I wanted to end up working as. Changed courses in 2nd year and flew on from their. In hindsight too, college was a step too soon, coming from school with teachers on my back constantly I wasted my 18 months on the initial course.

    Having to drop out and work in job I hated for 9 months until the next course began gave me the kick up the árse I've needed and I've not looked back since.

    I've met a good few of those teachers since and a few have admitted they "knew I'd sort myself out".

    I remember one ásshole of a teacher tough, we clashed regularly, it went beyond him trying to push me on it was just a genuine personality clash, couldn't contain his glee when he saw me working in a Dept store during college. "This is where you ended up?" He says.
    "I'm only here until February', I said, 'Finishing up my PostGrad and then I'm starting a Graduate role with XYZ". He was crestfallen by it, what a horrible cnut.


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