is it normal?

LegacyUser

well, i am a boards user, but i signed out to post this, cos basically i dont want my mates knowing this crap etc. neway, the story is, i have had sex 3 times, and every time it hurt when my foreskin got pulled back too far, and i basically want to know if this is normal, and if it is, how long is it going to last?

one of my mates told me he was ok after about the tenth time, but what do i do till then? it is really sore, amd it causes me to have to stop half way through, its irratating, but overall its painful, can i please have an idea if it is me, and if it will last?

Calibos

Its most likely Phimosis (Tight foreskin). Its more than likely not going to go away and one of these days you'll be doing the business on the couch and in the throws of passion, you'll be a bit too vigorous and...............it'll tear, you'll bleed all over the place, you'll scream, she'll scream, you'll wake her parents sleeping upstairs, then you'll hear footsteps coming down the stairs.....................................get the picture

There's nothing for it mate but a trip to the doctor. He'll refer you to a urologist and you'll be booked in for surgery and will most likely be getting a full or partial.....S-N-I-P!

The embarressment will be over in a second with the GP and urologist visits but the embarressment of the nurse changing your bandage post-op may take a little more time to get over! In a month to six weeks max you'll be ready for action again and now you'll be able to go like the clappers without having to worry............oh and you'll last longer too which should please the woman underneath you:D

Tusky

Originally posted by Calibos
Its most likely Phimosis (Tight foreskin). Its more than likely not going to go away and one of these days you'll be doing the business on the couch and in the throws of passion, you'll be a bit too vigorous and...............it'll tear, you'll bleed all over the place, you'll scream, she'll scream, you'll wake her parents sleeping upstairs, then you'll hear footsteps coming down the stairs.....................................get the picture

There's nothing for it mate but a trip to the doctor. He'll refer you to a urologist and you'll be booked in for surgery and will most likely be getting a full or partial.....S-N-I-P!

The embarressment will be over in a second with the GP and urologist visits but the embarressment of the nurse changing your bandage post-op may take a little more time to get over! In a month to six weeks max you'll be ready for action again and now you'll be able to go like the clappers without having to worry............oh and you'll last longer too which should please the woman underneath you:D

NEVER reply to any of my "pesonal issues threads"

that post is the most UN-reassuring thing ive ever read, doy ou want to keel the bai ? jeez :eek:

Wolf

Hun kool im called wolf now and I only just realized.


Anyway no to your prob yeah very commen go to the GP hell sort ya out. You might need creams and stuff till it lossens up is all and the GP will have seen it millions of time before.

Well GL and happy F***in

francie brady

When i started to have sex i had the same problem. So at home i did what i called mickey excerises. I covered him in vasiline, and pulled the foreskin back and forth. And the more i had sex the better it got. It's still tight but doesn't hurt. And i feel this tightness has it's advanages cos it takes me longer to cum.

jammy_dodger

i think both Help Me and francie brady should go to the doctor and at least check out what options you have, no one's gonna force you to get the snip.
I had a mate with the opposite problem, too much foreskin, He says it takes him donkeys (ages) to get some sweet release, and is usually wiped out berfore he gets there, a quick **** for him takes about 40 - 50 mins of intence beatin, OUCH

Wolf

Originally posted by jammy_dodger
i think both Help Me and francie brady should go to the doctor and at least check out what options you have, no one's gonna force you to get the snip.
I had a mate with the opposite problem, too much foreskin, He says it takes him donkeys (ages) to get some sweet release, and is usually wiped out berfore he gets there, a quick **** for him takes about 40 - 50 mins of intence beatin, OUCH

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woolymammoth

Tusky what the hell are you on about? Calibos is right. imho his
post was helpful, no beating bout the bush! at the very least he
offered some actual advice.

help me, do a search on the web for phimosis, see what you
come up with. definitely take a trip to the doc and get his opinion.
believe me they have seen this before so there's nothing to
worry about. your not the only person to have had this problem.

good mate of mine had it. took the decision of circumcision when
he was 17, and now he swears by it. he'd recommend it to
anyone even if they didn't have tight foreskin.

anyways, HTH...

Sterile Fish

it'll tear, you'll bleed all over the place, you'll scream, she'll scream

dude that is ****in scary!

woolymammoth

your damn right it is. no man wants that to happen. but he has
every right to know that it can happen if he doesn't look
into it or do something about it.

it is really sore, amd it causes me to have to stop half
way through, its irratating, but overall its painful, can i
please have an idea if it is me, and if it will last?

if it was just sore, maybe he wouldn't need to do anything
urgently, but its really sore. and when things are really
sore, you do something about it.

Calibos

Thanks for the vote of confidence Wooly!

Maybe I should have clarified the style of my post at the end. ie Help Me, don't 'beat about the bush' for a year while you try and get the courage to call your GP and book an appointment. Its no big deal and as others have said, your GP has seen everything before. I thought I would be as embarressed as hell while the GP had a quick look but I left the surgery wondering what I was worrying about. Subsequently I had no problem whipping the old fella out for the urologist a few weeks later. The part of my post about the screaming etc is valid I think. Its a definate possiblity that in the throws of passion your foreskin could rip. So which is more embarressing? A 2 minute examination by a doctor who's seen it all before or the aforementioned scenario whith the screaming and the parents and the creaky stairs etc etc Get it seen to ASAP which will mean you can get back on the job at full tilt that much sooner!

LegacyUser

calibos, it sounds like youve had to deal with this personally, and if you have, i appreciate your advice fully, the thing about it ripping has shaken me a bit, so if you have been through this, could u let me know, and i can sign in a pm you, i think it would really help if i knew someone else who has went through this, thanks fro everyones advice, i do need a doctor, cos i did read sumwere before that this sort of thing is common, also, francy brady, i could do with someadvice about those so called 'mickey exercises' if there is some way i can get out of this without losing my foreskin, it will help, its not that im worried about pain or anything, but if sum girl sees me circumcised, it might make her a bit..wierd

Calibos

I had a circumcision about 2 years ago but I never had the ripping :eek though a friend did :eek: Depending on the severity of the phimosis, treatment doesn't necessarily have to be a circumcision. Other options are the 'Mickey Exercises':D LOL ie loosening the foreskin by regular 'manipulation', Steroidal creams which do the same thing in more severe cases, partial circumcision where they just widen the opening and finally a full circumcision. The thing is that you or we don't really know how severe it is cause we're not experts so you really have to go to the doctor so he can asses you and recommend a treatment option. Ignorance is not bliss either so you really should do some research and can then go to your GP and be able to ask the right questions etc

PM me and I'll try and answer any questions I can:)

Syth

Do you have any tiny, tiny cuts on your foreskin? When that happens it can be sore when you pull it back, because the cut gets pulled open a bit. It's happened to me once or twice, but it usually went away after a day or two.

LegacyUser

one other thing i want to add......i cant really get into the 'throws of passion' becos this hurts as soon as i start, and basically if im not going at my own pace i cant keep going, so its left me with being forced to be on top, and it means that i cant go as fast or as deep as i, or she, would like to

LegacyUser

That story with the ripping foreskin happened to me I'm afraid to say... Going like the clappers, felt that she was getting wetter by the minute, thought I was the "man", pulled out to change position, noticed the blood, said to her "****, you got you feckin' period!" Then we realised it was me! Not nice at all, panic, screams, kitchen towels, I fainted, I puked etc... Luckily she was and is my long term girlfriend so we could talk about and it was cool with her. But as she said herself, if it was a one night stand and that happened it would have really messed me and the girl up.

Anyway, after it happened I was *very* cautious about going to the toilet, touching off it etc... but it healed up. I didn't go to the doctor, although I should have done, but I think I was lucky because it actually loosened my foreskin up and now sex is much more comfortable and I don't have any real worries about it happening again.

As was said here, doctors see this sort of thing (phimosis) all the time, don't let the situation which happened to me happen to you, go and see him and get it sorted, you'll be glad you did...

LegacyUser

hello,

i've the same problem up until recently...
basically I got hooked up with a girl, neither had done it before, and it was all new and joyous... I of course knew, and I imagine she did too, that the el skin was a bit tight around the mickeroo... luckily we used condoms most of the time, and the skin never would have even pulled back around the head...

but then after a bit, it did start looseing up, which could lead to a period during intercourse, where I'd need to slow down the ship, and sail slowly for a while as it loosened up... this was a bit of a pain in the penis, but it wasn't so bad...

now after a few months of riding the pony often enough, along with occasional excercising of the lad (like all excerise stretching is very important) it is completely loose.

with or without a condom it freely goes all the way back, and it's all good... I'm actually amzed at how quick it loosened up once it got some practise...

I found it useful, during the transitional period, to make sure it was well washed and no gunk was hiding under the skin, as any gunk leads to less friction and therefore less desire for the skin to roll back...

To be honest if I hadn't been in the relationship I had, I probably wouldn't have realised the extent of the problem until I had 'hurt' myself in action. Luckily I had some1 understanding and not at all put back by this, and within a short period of time the problem has become history.

Good luck.

LegacyUser

well i guess it happens and its painful but the last time i was with a guy, girlie here, it was a guy from a nightclub and we were using condoms and all but he was a little rough with me and i kept asking him to slow down to let me get wet enough to really enjoy it - he didnt and as a result when he pushed too hard he tore his foreskin - blood all into he condom and a fair bit of screaming on his part - i finally convinced him to calm down and got him tissue and ice to stop the bleeding.

put it this way, the wanker took it slow the next time. lol. :P

LegacyUser

ok, so i looked at some websites about it and things like that, and right now im in the middle of study leave so have developed a really wierd sleeping habit, wereby i not sleeping till 5 in the morning then sleeping all day. in a poor attmept to avoid sunlight all together. so was layed in bed last night and i had read about the stretching excercises, and according to a few websites, teh stretching works compl;etely in over 90% of all cases, so i tried that, andi jst lay there stretching for about a half hour and afterwards things were alot better, went back again after a while, but it was good to realise that it had an affect, so i gonna keep at that regularly, and this should be cleared up in no time, thanks everyone