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  • 19-04-2003 5:22pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 6


    haven't used this before and have no clue about what to do, apart from typing this and hoping that nice people will talk to me. am i doing ok so far?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 102 ✭✭Something


    no you've done it all wrong, you need content boyo!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 29,130 ✭✭✭✭Karl Hungus


    You're doing absolutely perfect so far!

    In fact, you've probably set a precident.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,246 ✭✭✭✭Riamfada


    Eh, Yea man your doing grand! Just is this really a personal issue ? Good Luck and Welcome To Boards. And remember Vote Grimes!

    And Ignore Anglewhore. From what I gather most people do :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,276 ✭✭✭damnyanks


    Dont vote for grimes


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6 Josh


    thanks for replies folks. am i supposed to reply to my own message like this or start a new thread.

    i've had plenty of practice replying to myself, so nothing new there.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,783 ✭✭✭Puck


    Hello,
    You're doing grand so far. As for replying here, that's fine. You start a new thread when you want to talk about a new subject. Only thing slightly wrong here is that you haven't got a Personal Issue. This forum is kind of like an Agony Aunt column I suppose. There are different forums for diferent subjects. Have a look around to see which ones you like. The handiest forum for you right now would probably be the Newbie FAQ forum. Just click this link to go to Newbie FAQ --> http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?forumid=98
    Hope this helps,
    Puck.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6 Josh


    ok i've been thinking of coy and witty things to say, but i came here for a reason so here goes. a good friend of mine just told me about this site after i interrupted his dinner with a desperate phonecall about how generally pissed off and lonely / depressed i've been feeling lately. i quit drinking a few years ago and since then have been finding it difficult adjusting to life in the sober lane. i've had counselling and am still seeing my counseller fairly regularly. self esteem / confidence / optimism not the best lately (never have been really). i'm tired of isolating myself from life - my friends have all told me that i'm wasting myself because i'm a good person and need to give myself a break and get out there and live

    A line from Tennesee William's "The Glass Menagerie" pretty much sums up where i'm at :

    "People go to the movies instead of moving…I don't want to wait...I'm tired of the movies and I am about to move"

    I didn't think i'd be able to say this stuff to strangers but reading some of the other stuff on this forum i guess i'm not alone.


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    i quit drinking a few years ago and since then have been finding it difficult adjusting to life in the sober lane

    well josh, sounds to me like you are being way too hard on yourself, if you have quit drinking years ago and have managed to keep off it, then you deserve a pat on the back. I understand you are having difficults doing it, but the fact that you have, means your will power is stronger than you give yourself credit for.

    welcome to boards, chin up and sometimes it's much easier to talk to strangers than friends, no come back! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6 Josh


    thanks for the kind words beruthiel.

    peace.
    josh.


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