Is she flirting?

Durden

And now for the next chapter in my life...

Here’s the back story; I got a chain email from a friend in another school, sent a message to all the other people who got it saying "don't send this back", then one of them got in touch with me on a chat thingy.

Now comes the interesting bit... among the questions she asked are "what do you look like?", "how often are you in Dublin?" and "are you single?". And we were talking about stereotypes, grungers, goths, trendies etc. and i said i didn't get on with the trendies/teenyboppers in my school, then she said "you like me don't you? I’m a teenybopper"

So... any opinions on what she's up to? Is she just friendly, or does she have a fetish for flirting with guys she doesn't know? (That’s a joke by the way... but she did say something about kinkyness)

Gordon

"She" could not be a "she" by the way.

Runfree

Very true you got to be very carefull who you talk to in chat rooms

YoungNastyMan

No shes not.

Riamfada

Yeah, people in chat rooms :

1-never really expect to see you,therfore arnt themselves and enjoy a bit of internet flirting

2-Often old perverts (red_ice :P)

I talk to somone on MSN about the same questions and stuff but i never will meet her and i never see "what do you look like" as flirting.

BE WARNED

Typedef

Runfree

gud one

Riamfada

plyd

Durden

She's female, knows a friend of mine.

And i sent her a email saying "don't send me annoying emails", she then tried to find out who i was

yellum

Maybe shes just insecure and needs reassurance.

hedgetrimmer

if you *are* gonig to meet her/ him/ it, do it somewhere public, but expect nothing. To be honest, I'd be inclined to leave it as a chat room encounter and enjoy the fantasy element. It's often more pleasant that the reality :-)

Kell

If she's a teeny bopper she could be a Shakira or Brittney lookalike, in which case get in there. Of course she is flirting. How difficult is that one to work out?? BTW, you shaved your head yet Durden?

Funky

there are also alot of fat ugly teeny boppers who think they look good in mini skirts... (thankyou spice girls )

Shad0r

yes she was (assuming your sure she is actually a she)

that said hedgetrimmer makes a good point. Still what have you really got to loose?

po0k

Shad0r:
Still, what have you really got to lose?

Exactly.
If you want to be a bit more cautious:
You say she's in our mate's address book.
Look at the headers in the emails and trace it back through the people till you find where her inclusion in it origionated.
Then you have your primary source of info on her. Find out if she's fit/a stalker from that person.
Then sit back and call yourself "l33t"

Or just text her arranging tomeet up some day for a coffee/pint/line/whatever kids do these days.

rymus

Originally posted by Funky
there are also alot of fat ugly teeny boppers who think they look good in mini skirts... (thankyou spice girls )

*reaches for a bucket*

Durden

Well now its more helpful than "she's a guy". She goes to the same school as this friend, but I haven't spoken to said friend for a while... I'll email em to find out some stuff... though as of this moment I have the problem of she seems to be ignoring my existance... why i don't know... I didn't do anything... but what the hell, didn't lose anything out of this...

And no, I haven't shaved it... not going to either... might get dreadlocks... hmmmm...

Clintons Cat

Well it could be she got bored of waiting or found someone else.

Or it could be she never realy took the flirting serious in the first place.

Strike it up to experience

Placebo

And now for the next chapter in my life...

Here’s the back story; I got a chain email from a friend in another school, sent a message to all the other people who got it saying "don't send this back", then one of them got in touch with me on a chat thingy.

Now comes the interesting bit... among the questions she asked are "what do you look like?", "how often are you in Dublin?" and "are you single?". And we were talking about stereotypes, grungers, goths, trendies etc. and i said i didn't get on with the trendies/teenyboppers in my school, then she said "you like me don't you? I’m a teenybopper"

So... any opinions on what she's up to? Is she just friendly, or does she have a fetish for flirting with guys she doesn't know? (That’s a joke by the way... but she did say something about kinkyness)

What type of drugs are you on ?
I get people asking me the same questions , are you single ? are u in dublin ? blah blah , even after i send them my pic. How can some one you dont know be flirting on the net , thats like going on to some chat room
_____________
" Any hot guys out there wanna chat "
Me: hello i am hot
"Hey hun , i like you"
Me: OH MY GOD , SHES FLIRTING , OMG !
____________

If she knew you then thats a diffrent story , but she doesnt ,

And by the way let the "I dont like teeny bopper" thing go .
Your rocker/goth atittude wont last long , every one is into different type of music and just cause they listen to britney spears doesnt make them less intresting then you , unless they are much younger than you ofcourse

smiles

Well have fun anyway. she says she's a teenybopper? *pleaSE* (mock brittney spears like).

You never know what these things can lead to.
I remember getting a chain mail from someone who i emailed back once saying "very interesting" or something similarly enlightening.... was in a "multi-user" ICQ chat several months later and he made my ICQ list (think i said 2 words to him in entirity)

Then about a year later I met him in real life (random chance) when the guy who'd emailed us both (and a million other) was there and we got introduced.

I ended up going out with him for nearly a year and a half.

Motto of the story: chain mails can be interesting, teenyboppers never can.

fliriting on the internet is like smiling at strangers, you dont expect anything in return.

<< Fio >>

happydude13

Originally posted by Placebo
and just cause they listen to britney spears doesnt make them less intresting then you

well....

Mewzel

i suppose TECHNICALLY they're not......

Snowball

Originally posted by Durden
And now for the next chapter in my life...

Here’s the back story; I got a chain email from a friend in another school, sent a message to all the other people who got it saying "don't send this back", then one of them got in touch with me on a chat thingy.

Now comes the interesting bit... among the questions she asked are "what do you look like?", "how often are you in Dublin?" and "are you single?". And we were talking about stereotypes, grungers, goths, trendies etc. and i said i didn't get on with the trendies/teenyboppers in my school, then she said "you like me don't you? I’m a teenybopper"

So... any opinions on what she's up to? Is she just friendly, or does she have a fetish for flirting with guys she doesn't know? (That’s a joke by the way... but she did say something about kinkyness)

The reality of it is that you never realy know. women are really hard to read at the best of times. The best thing you can do is get her to go to something inocent like the cimema but with a huge group so it looks like ur asking but it also looks like ur not. If all works out she likes u, she is cute and u get it on

Pepe LeFrits

Originally posted by Shad0r
Still what have you really got to loose?

your balls

Kell

I reckon the Durden suffers from acute Munchausens disorder and posts all of these "Chapters in his life" to gain attention. I suggest that you speak to your school coucillor about such matters Durden and shave your head. You'll regret it if you dont.

Otherwise we will all just end up with acute Stokholm Syndrome and actually take pity on your wailings.

Wheeler

ASK HER SEND A FOTO

SHE COULD BE 11 OR

HE COULD BE TIM ALLEN OR WORSE R KELLY

GET MY DRIFT

Durden

Ok, so I've had an interesting two-and-a-half weeks... firstly, we swapped numbers, then I had a short conversation, then we emailed each other at school, then at the young scientist we were meant to meet up, but failed to, but she saw me then for a couple weeks we were emailing, and at times I became more... suspicious (?right word?) about it, particularly when she asked me what my type was... But my result is I'm not sure, as she wasn't flirting today when I met up with her for the first time. Or if she was, it was really sublte

Gordon

Were you "flirting"?

bugler

Women are crazy. The night before last I had a girl tell me that things couldn't work out between us, there was nothing there. To emphasise the point she kept kissing me. Crazy beasts. So I'd say forget about whether or not she's flirting, and if you decide you like her then go for it. Mind you, as the other night told me, even then they can be slippery and just plain damn mystifying.

Tyrrial

I think she's messin' you around... women are evil and to that....




my mistake sorry my girlfriend isn't evil only every other woman

DriftingRain

Most people in the chat rooms are bored and wanna have a lil fun..She was probally just making a refrence to what you were sayin to see if you would still chat to her. All girls do that to test guys!! I wouldn't take it seriously.

Mr_Roger_Bongos

The internet has to be one of the worst places for flirting, because you cant pick up on any physical signs ( i know thats obvious). I used to get liek love chain letters, but unless you want to pursue it, theres very little point in asking wether teh sender means it or not. If you do want to persue it, just ask, and avoid all the innuendo attached to internet 'flirting'.

domeara01

i agree with you on that point.

The internet has to be one of the worst places for flirting, because you cant pick up on any physical signs

Tusky

You met up with her ? what was she like ? do you still like her ? and where you flirting with her ?