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Orgasms
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27-05-2002 12:13am#1
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when a woman starts having sex for the first time it usually takes quiet a while to start experiencing orgasms (the rule, not the exception).
so yes, it does take time.
also, 70% of women will never experience an orgasm through penatrive sex. so if you want an orgasm, then you are going to have to do it manully
so whip out a vibrator, or show him how you like to be touched etc. make all of it fun and incorperate it into your love making.
or, have a **** while youre with him, it will turn him on, you get your orgasm and then have sex and both of your will happy as little piglets.0 -
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Sounds like he’s not had a lot of experience himself. It’s up to you to teach him what you like (think of him as a blank canvas
) - it’s up to you to initiate or suggest things as much as it is up to him.
I’ve noticed women often have a habit of being pretty selfish too...Originally posted by Beruthiel
they can be selfish buggers (too much time and effort involved).0 -
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Originally posted by The Corinthian
I don't think they're generally aware of it either
LOL - touche (where's the accent thingie for the e??)
maybe you should go for the woman in her 30's Corinthian, they are more up for trying things! (so they say.... ) 0 -
The problem is that women's magazines make it out as if every woman has an orgam every time she has sex, and that it's easy. Bull. Unlike men, there is no secret formula for bringing any woman to orgasm. The only way he's going to learn is if you tell him how. And relax. If you're even slightly uneasy, it's gone, and he hasn't a hope.
Remember, the average women takes at least 20 minutes to reach orgasm, the average man - 3 mins. There's something wrong there. Also plenty of other things can affect it too. Younger women tend to be generally more uptight during sex (even if they're not aware of it) and the pill lowers most women's sex drive, and reaction to stimuli, making it even harder work for us
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If your boyfirend is a bit of a nerd, he'll appreciate you likening the situation to him trying to break a password - he just needs to find the right combination. Or maybe not......:)0 -
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Define 'correct areas' now - every woman is different and likes to be stimulated in different ways. You can't just go through a standard set of rubs, kisses and licks and expect it to work every time. An important part of learning how to please a partner is making an effort to be receptive to signs they give - if she seems to especially like to be kissed on the neck e.g., make a note of it. If she seems to be getting bored with the way you rub her breasts, try a different way or ask her how she likes it.
Unregistered poster, you need to let your boyfriend know he's not giving you what you want. There's no use in just ignoring the problem and hoping he'll get better with time. If he thinks he's doing it right in the first place, he'll keep doing it the same. Women are always complaining that men don't notice them giving subtle hints etc - if subtlety isn't working, tell us out straight!. Another thing - your post implies that you've never had an orgasm. If this is true, you should ask him for a night 'just for you'. It'll be a learning experience for him, and a damn good night for you It'll be easier for you to trust him to give you pleasure in future.
A lot of young sexually active men really don't think of foreplay as an important part of sex. This is probably why few of them can please their girlfriends properly. Let him know that you need him to do more than just plugging it in and pumping away - he needs to 'preheat the oven before he puts the roast in'.0 -
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