Well another serious problem :)

Quatre

Someone else posted a serious problem so I don't see why I shouldn't....

Like 'anon', i have a mad crush on someone... not just a crush, I'm really in love with this person. we're very good friends, and we're in the same clss in school and stuff... okay, you might say, whats the problem.

don't laugh. The problem is that he's another guy. now ye might find that pretty funny, and i admit that sometimes I think it's a bit funny myself... but mostly it's not funny at all, and instead its very difficult for me.

so seriously, waht should I do? How would ye feel if someone who you were friends with suddently told u he loved u? I wanna try to see this from his point of view, like.

and yeah, I'm a ****en coward posting from behind an alias. so what. <IMG SRC="http://lacerta.ucg.ie/boards/tongue.gif&quot; WIDTH=15 HEIGHT=15 BORDER=0 ALT=":P">

tHE vAGGABOND

If your mates are tipical Irish lads (great crack, well meaning, racist, homophobic) I'm afraid you'll have to suffer in silience because if it came out <IMG SRC="http://lacerta.ucg.ie/boards/smile.gif&quot; WIDTH=15 HEIGHT=15 BORDER=0 ALT=":)"> I recon they would run a mile,
Sorry,
Vagga

Draco

I'm afraid I'd have to agree with Vaggabond...especially if you still in secondary school.

The only thing I can say is that someday you will meet some one you can say it to with out being afraid..

adra

ya have to agree with the alds here bu tthats the lads view........women r more open to a person no matter what their sexuality is...FACT!
i dunno ure age but like if ure young....welll ure mates r young too and we all no what there like........they'd never leave u alone....<IMG SRC="http://lacerta.ucg.ie/boards/frown.gif&quot; WIDTH=15 HEIGHT=15 BORDER=0 ALT=":(">
it's a sad fact...sorry<IMG SRC="http://lacerta.ucg.ie/boards/frown.gif&quot; WIDTH=15 HEIGHT=15 BORDER=0 ALT=":(">

elexes

im afraide to say it but because of your sexuality your chances of getting him arent mutch unless you get a sex change and make yourself reely georgious . sorry the rest of the lads are right on this issue . people espiecualy in 2nd school are reely hard on the gay comunity

Quatre

Hmm... i guess ye're probably rite... btw, this guy does actually know I'm gay, and he isn't bothered by it like, but i just dunno how he'd feel if he knew that I had, ehh, "feelings" for him....

i often wondered how homphobic people really are tho... i'm 18, and altho everyone makes jokes about fags and that, i think maybe if someone was actually gay, that theyd accept it really... what do ye think??

adra

um well if he knwos and is cool with it thast good
but remember he mightened be gay.........believe it or not...everyone at some stage thinks there gay!

but also remember that just because hes ok with it ...that doesnt mean everyone will...theres alwasy some stupid pr!cks that will make ure life awful from slagging n sh!t likethat<IMG SRC="http://lacerta.ucg.ie/boards/frown.gif&quot; WIDTH=15 HEIGHT=15 BORDER=0 ALT=":(">

it really awful to see that.....

tHE vAGGABOND

Sorry (again) buddy but,
young blokes love to think they are all nienties and cool "yea I've lots of gay mates" - bet ya a 5er they also say (prob when you r not in room "as long as they stay away from me...." the ****s to the wall mentality.

ButcherOfNog

believe it or not...everyone at some stage thinks there gay!

soooo, tellus all adra, when where etc <IMG SRC="http://lacerta.ucg.ie/boards/smile.gif&quot; WIDTH=15 HEIGHT=15 BORDER=0 ALT=":)">

Shinji

Rite... I'm coming at this from the other angle, which I think is what Quatre wanted. I do have a friend who is gay - we've been good friends since first year in school, and he told me about 18 months to 2 years ago that he was homosexual. I guess I was a bit shocked at first, and then I copped myself on and said "why the **** should I care?"...

It hasn't changed our relationship... I don't think he harbours any feelings for me though, but I think if he did, I'd probably be more flattered than anything else - he's a very good looking, likeable guy and could have any bird he wanted, if he wanted. I guess that's just me though - I know some people would feel very threatened by it.

As to Butch's post, hell, I may as well come clean (if I'm gonna do this nineties man thing I'm gonna do it right... <IMG SRC="http://lacerta.ucg.ie/boards/tongue.gif&quot; WIDTH=15 HEIGHT=15 BORDER=0 ALT=":P">).... when I was 14 or 15 or therabouts, I went through a terrifying few months where I thought I was gay. Luckily I came out the other end... I always have a lot of sympathy for gays because I can remember the terror I felt at the prospect that I might be gay, and I can understand that living your life like that could be very lonely and very frightening.

Jesus, that was a serious post. I gotta stop doing this... ^_^

Still, no matter how confident I am in my own sexuality now, I'd still like a piece of that SeP fella.... ehehehe ^_-

ja na!
Shin-[nineties man]-chan

WhiteWashMan

jesus-sufferin-f*ck!

what happened to this board? are we now dealing with real life problems in a mature and adult way????
adra! youve ruined the quake community wit hthis seriousness. shame on you. oh, and just coz someone excepts you as gay does mean he wants you to make a pass at him. take the friends options. then get him really drunk, shag im etc etc etc. after all, it may sound crude, but how many of yis have tried it on a woman?
course, you could just be a classy guy like me and have everyone love you <IMG SRC="http://lacerta.ucg.ie/boards/smile.gif&quot; WIDTH=15 HEIGHT=15 BORDER=0 ALT=":)">

white(<IMG SRC="http://lacerta.ucg.ie/boards/wwman.gif&quot; WIDTH=15 HEIGHT=15 BORDER=0 ALT="WW)">)wash

anon

well i too am an anon coward, and oh wwman, dont blame adra for wrecking quake, i started it!!!, anyway if youre good friends with him, telling him you like him alot could wreck the friendship, id say keep it to yourself unless he shows interest in you